Ok, so I think it's basic biology. When I see a hot chick, I want to get all up in that. I have the charisma and game to be successful enough for it... I've had tons of women in my life.

However, I've settled down with none. I have no kids.

Still, I feel like I'm "missing out" if I don't lock a hot one in. There's this strong desire for sex constantly, even in my mid 40's. Since Craigslist personals went down, so did my women.. I know that sounds sad, but damn.. I got some really nice ones from off there.

In any case, how does one overcome the desire to want to have a hot girl long term? I mean, I understand all the damage women can do in your life.. but is that supposed to be enough to convince me to cut down or even stop?

For those of you who have stopped altogether, and you're not lying about it, and you have enough game to have been in the game before... how do you cut them out entirely? Is my sex drive too high?

I mean, I'd love to live a life without dating women. I really would. I'd love to NOT worry about them at all.. but I love the pussy so much. I don't expect to find my "unicorn".. I just don't see how to stop.

Fuck.. I feel like I'm talking about drugs.

Sorry for the long post. I just want some ideas of what you all have done to overcome this basic biological desire.