Question: Does the rule "never date a single mom" applies for a one night stand?

Lambert_1357 · 2019-05-01T14:29:06+00:00

If I was you I’d just stay well away even if she is super hot, really not worth it bro there’s plenty of pussy out there, you don’t need a used up one when she could pull all sorts of shit

ThePlague · 2019-05-01T14:49:26+00:00

Single moms are easy pickings: they are essentially trapped at home the vast majority of time to care for their pity card. Single moms were among the first women to really take to the internet in the late 90s and the naughts for this reason. Look at some of the early viral content: dancing baby, cute kitten pics/vids, etc. and I would contend their demographic were among the first hardcore adopters of facebook.

Since they are trapped at home so much, they are hungry for personal attention. While they can get attention on the internet, it's really not the same thing. It's the difference between porn and physical intimacy.

As a result of this, that their forays into the wider world are under some constraint, there is usually an urgency to their interactions. This is why, comparably and generally speaking, they are easier to bed. However, if they have a "relationship" as a goal rather than sex, then the downside of that is obvious.

What I would suggest is that you assess the situation on the ground: she may be using "relationship" as a code word for getting sex without feeling like a slut. You can tell the signs of this by the usual kino indicators. If these are lacking, then you know what her true motivations are, and after a lovely evening I would recommend ghosting.

DWShimoda · 2019-05-01T15:31:02+00:00

Is it OK to pour just a pint of gasoline on your head -- and then light just ONE match -- I mean it's not like you're intending on building up some huge bonfire, so... that should be "safe" to do, right???

Novalis79 · 2019-05-01T14:29:32+00:00

but she thinks I am interested in a relationship.

why tf would she think that? Anyways shes going to try to withhold sex to gain access to your resources. Whatever you do do not pay for her drink/food

nicolaj198vi · 2019-05-01T15:50:40+00:00

Nope.

1. Friends in common. You can’t ghost her easily.

2. Whatever she says about her intentions, it’s a lie. And even if not (<1% probabilities), it’s much safer to assume it is.

3. You lied about your intentions. This could, I would say will, make her upset and vindictive the very moment she realizes you bumped and dumped her, or you’re gonna do that. No matter if she was interested just in sex, her reactions will be unpredictable, and for the bad.

There’s enough to call you out from this round of cards. Bad hand.

However, if you still decide to have a ride, remember: whatever happens, YOU buy your condoms (she could easily damage them on purpose), YOU destroy the used ones right after sex (don’t just dump them wherever she can grab them and the content). There are people who have been in troubles for missing both of these steps (you may read about it here somewhere).

Novalis79 · 2019-05-01T14:32:48+00:00

I guess it all depends on your ethical point of view, I’ll try explain what I mean using myself as an example.

I strongly believe in “don’t shamelessly lie just to get sex”, that means I would never tell a woman that I want a relationship when in fact I’m looking for sex, or that I wanna love and be loved, that I wanna start a family... you get the idea.

What I do in the case of a woman wanting something serious is to tell them that right now I’m not looking for something serious but maybe things will change in the future, or they may not. Yeah, it’s a lie after all, but she will get the hint and the ball is in her court now, it will be her decision to go and “see what happens” or not.

DangZagnut · 2019-05-01T14:33:47+00:00

Compared to a standard chick, it's worse, in terms of risk.

It comes down to your risk tolerance. Some single moms are fine with a casual thing, but this doesn't sound like the case (so wtf is she on Tinder?).

Single mothers are entirely different animals in relationships or even sport fucking. They don't act like normal girls. You need to be a lot more careful with them.

It would be better if she knew this was a casual thing, rather than spring it on her and she possibly goes full retard.

owninfools007 · 2019-05-01T14:44:59+00:00

user_miki · 2019-05-01T14:45:03+00:00

You play with fire.I don't see one night stand here,I don't believe it will be only one night stand.You already make some promisses.AFAIS she knows you(via friends), you cannot ghost her safely.

yooshio · 2019-05-01T14:47:13+00:00

Lol. Keep us updated.

2019-05-01T14:50:19+00:00

I would say no. You have no idea how the first one happened. She could be the crazy baby hungry type who deliberately sabotages birth control to have another one. While a small chance, it wouldn't be worth the risk for me. Better to go with a younger active one who's just looking for a fun time and nothing more.

lifeonvacation · 2019-05-01T15:57:32+00:00

Do your thing man. I personally avoid single moms no matter how hot, but I get it if you’re planning to ghost anyway.

JihadNinjaCowboy · 2019-05-01T15:22:26+00:00

He who plays with fire may be burned.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-05-01T16:11:42+00:00

Ghost her. Nothing good can come from this.

RedMeatTrinket · 2019-05-01T16:43:52+00:00

I don't see how dealing with children come into play with a one-night stand, so "no".

Zachjsrf · 2019-05-01T16:49:22+00:00

To each their own. Problem is what about possible false allegations of impropriety i.e. RAPE when she discovers you dont want a relationship. Seems like a lot of work for a small pay off. Just like buffalo wings.

Older_Miggy · 2019-05-01T17:05:25+00:00

This isn't a dating advice sub.

ls2087 · 2019-05-01T17:32:10+00:00

Take this to relationship advice. You aren't going your own way you are standing on the edge of a cliff and asking us to push you. GTFO of here.

veasel79 · 2019-05-01T20:33:28+00:00

One night stands are a 50/50 shot you’ll get accused of rape and those odds increase rapidly when she finds out that’s all u wanted.

Do you bro, but watch your ass the worlds gone fucking crazy!

ThePlague · 2019-05-01T20:51:14+00:00

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astuteglute · 2019-05-01T20:56:19+00:00

Keep an eye on your rubber in case of puncture.

MuleFool42 · 2019-05-01T21:08:19+00:00

Stay protected, have your fun. Keep it at that. Don't let it go any further. Don't meet the kids, etc...

Prioritize your own needs and don't let the level of the relationship go beyond your basic needs for sex.

And ALWAYS protect yourself. Be in total control of the condom at all times.

Title	Question: Does the rule "never date a single mom" applies for a one night stand?
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Date	May 1, 2019 2:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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Comments

1. Friends in common. You can’t ghost her easily.

2. Whatever she says about her intentions, it’s a lie. And even if not (<1% probabilities), it’s much safer to assume it is.

3. You lied about your intentions. This could, I would say will, make her upset and vindictive the very moment she realizes you bumped and dumped her, or you’re gonna do that. No matter if she was interested just in sex, her reactions will be unpredictable, and for the bad.