I thought this girl was the “one”. She’s like a 7, however, her personality was what I liked. Though despite this, I rarely ever talked to her due to my social anxiety, with me taking a year (2016-2017) to grow the fucking balls to ask her out.

She said yes, however, ditched me for a guy a week later.

I was depressed, but, even though she denied me, I had built up an obsession around her that persisted for an unhealthy amount of time. My mood of school days would be decided if I’d see them together or not..

She broke up with this guy a month ago, and this made my obbsessed self happy. I never really see her during the school day, but I’d try to actually talk to her. I eventually became in love with her, a-fucking-gain.

And now, she’s on the verge of dating another guy but my friends and my mind are telling myself to fuck off, thus reaching this sub and the concept of the abundance mentality. Despite not really reaching out to any specific user for help, just reading the posts have innovated my way of thinking about crushes. I couldn’t thank you guys enough.