my parents want me to go to psychologist

801735 · 2018-10-18T20:36:00+00:00

things she'd like to ask me

I somehow knew it's 2 vs 1 when your parents go.

what are my views on relationships or stuff

Tell her the truth - she's 2 old to understand stuff like that, then ask her what kind of porn is her favorite and what her father would have to say about that. Pretend to be taking notes and nod and "mhm, is that so, aha, right" her all the time. Eventually tell her your time has run out for today and you'll continue next week.

TOWMissle · 2018-10-19T04:06:36+00:00

I wouldn’t go, period.

Therapists can’t solve their own problems, but somehow they can solve yours. How does that work?

Female therapists are the worst.

RedditUnrealAcct · 2018-10-18T21:28:23+00:00

Live with parents: 'I'd prefer not to".

Don't live with parents: "I'd prefer not to"

MuleFool42 · 2018-10-18T21:28:48+00:00

Be honest but don't let her go into a mode where she's trying to change your mind. Your opinion is yours and it's based on your own real experiences.

Just say, "you asked, and I answered, I'm not here to have a conversation."

Also, I don't like the way your dad is being made to capitulated to all of your mother's demands. These sessions are typically very gynocentric. If by making all of these changes your dad is becoming more unhappy, in your opinion, then you need to say that.

FWIW, if it were my dad, I'd rather him get a divorce than see him have to change into a completely different person that makes him even more unhappy. And even if he is successful at becoming the perfect husband, women typically resent them for becoming BP betas and leave them anyway. That's just one opinion though - food for though, so to speak.

2018-10-18T21:39:03+00:00

Only answer questions about your parents. If she asks anything about you you don't feel like answering just refuse to answer. Post an update.

Atton_Risk · 2018-10-19T09:33:48+00:00

Decline their request or decline to answer questions you don't wish to answer.

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2018-10-20T14:19:07+00:00

Go if they make you.

But say nothing.,

Seriously, just don't talk. Just look at them.

They ask a question, Look at them. Don't answer.

Hold your breath if you have to, don't cave.

YOU ARE UNDER NO OBLIGATION TO TALK TO ANYONE IN THIS WORLD.

What are they gonna do? beat you death infront of the Therapist?

But they will threaten you, they will threaten to take away your phone, ipod, car, etc.

Be ready for that. Decide if you want to go all the way.

If they coerce you or force you into talking, just say the following lines over and over.

"I dont want to be a part of this, this is not my business"

Over and over.

IT will make then look and feel like fools (after a while) when it is OBVIOUS TO ALL AND EVEN THEN that ehy are harassing and controlling you and using you in their private war.

UndeadTed · 2018-10-18T21:13:25+00:00

I hope you're over 18 and don't live at home. In which case, you can just say no.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-10-18T21:43:03+00:00

Best if she can ask you questions without your patents in the room. If there’s any resistance, simply ask, “Do you want an honest answer or not?”

urban3879 · 2018-10-18T22:18:48+00:00

binrobinro · 2018-10-19T00:05:42+00:00

Answer every question with "After seeing how my Mother treats my Dad..." or some variation of that.

Raygar21 · 2018-10-19T07:49:51+00:00

If you feel roped in, just feign ill at last minute. Then when asked again say you've thought about it

and prefer not to go. It'll be a shit show, trust me. Avoid it like the plague. Never met a therapist

that doesn't just capitulate to the person writing the check. That person calls the agenda. Plain and simple.

If you allow yourself to be put in the middle of your parents squabbles you risk becoming the designated

patient. Avoid at all costs.

Tsukikoselenia · 2018-10-24T15:30:05+00:00

Silent treatment. Psychologists are the worst, especially female ones. And I say that as someone that absolutely love psychology and studied it for a long time; psychology and sociology can be great but 1/ there's too much trash in it nowadays, mainly used for pushing an agenda. 2/ Psy are among the most arrogant and ignorant people you'll find; just try correcting one about something pychology-related once if you're into it and you'll see; you're in for a TON of "laughs".3/They are also among the most biased people you will find, and WILL try to push how they see psychology on you; forgetting that it's supposed to be a subjective science. Not to mention that they'll use any excuse to diagnose you with whatever and drug you so that you'll be a good little slave. Psy give neuroleptics to pretty much everyone in my country for this reason. Someone with a brain too destroyed by drugs will be less likely to apply critical thinking to things, unless the person is incredibly stubborn.

Also, it doesn't concern you because you aren't a woman but it's funny to see how, with women, they are basically saying "my god you poor thing you are so right" 90% of the time and they lick each other's wounds (which leads to a lot of women and female psych seeing each other as "friends"; I'm pretty sure that insisting on how unprofessional this is isn't necessary.

Needless to say, the same thing doesn't happen for men. Unless you have a very serious illness, and I mean REALLY have it, not just "the psych decided that I have it" (schyzophrenia, whatever) they're not trustworthy. Most of the time they decide of what you are supposed to "have" quite early, and then will look for everything to push you into that direction. Being drugged because you being an interverted means that "you have an antisocial personality disorder and are dangerous" isn't exactly uncommon.

tl;dr

when it comes to psychs, for women, it's the whole world that torture the poor women; for men, it's the man that ALWAYS have a problem and has to be broken in order to build him again in the way they like. Particularly when it comes to social relationships. A man can have been through a real living HELL, it's still his fault and he must accept that "it's just a bad experience, man up, everyone isn't like that" (quite the irony when psychs are the ones pushing this bad way of thinking the most).

Use the silent treatment as much as possible, and if you have to answer to some things, be as neutral as possible. And if you can't really pull some BS that will be vague and satisfying for everyone quickly enough, then just say that you haven't thought about it that much, aren't sure of what you think about it yet and that you'll keep that in mind. Playing dumb isn't that bad of a way to do it. It also works well with the arrogance these people, and people as a whole, usually have when they want you to do this with this intent, which thends to shut them up in a "I made him understand that he is stupid and must listen to me" way.

Of course not going is still the best way to go about it. Especially because it seems that they already decided WHY you should do it and basically just want an indoctrination camp to turn you into a BP normie okay for the sake of "the world and yourself".

Title	my parents want me to go to psychologist
Author	RICHIESCO12
Upvotes	8
Comments	20
Date	October 18, 2018 8:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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