Wanted to drop a field report as I rarely write these.

I had an absolutely crazy night last night and wanted to share it with you guys.

Quick notes about me; Live in a small town with my parents due to university work. I'll be stuck here for a year or two before I graduate. Not only that, my parents are traditional and priests. Going out is prohibited in any shape or form. If I want to go on a night out, I literally have to lie, pretend, travel miles to another city only to come back and get in deep shit. Due to this, I've only been on nights out about 2-3 times in my life? Prior to this year I had never been out.

On all the nights I was out, it was with a few PUA dudes but I was fucking useless. After the last night I decided to call it quits and just stick to what I can do. Got into lifting, approached girls from the gym, college approaching and working on my business. I basically accepted that I couldn't do night game so I optimised for everything else. Read the books and improved myself.

Anyway, I finally manage to sneak out and travel to another city last night for night game and I fucking killed it.

My mood was insane, I was incredibly cheerful and excited to just be out. Because of this, I had no cares for approaching. Why the fuck would I be worried about rejection when I have one night? I spoke to every fucking person. Guys, girls. At one point there was a group of eight attractive girls sitting together. My friends were too stifled to approach two girls let alone eight. I stand up and approach the eight girls. I wasn't doing it to close but the girls all asked me for my details.

The night goes on and we hit a really nice club. One where you can actually talk. At this point after all the girls I had approached, I start to feel like a pimp. This is a mindset thing, I KNOW that i'm not one at all. It just helps my mindset. I approached three french girls who become hooked. Our interaction ends because they wanted to go to a bar and wanted me to come too. I refused but got their details and stayed. (Doing things on my terms.)

This is where it gets interesting; whilst I'm helping my friends approach, one of my boys tells me that he's waiting for a close female friend of his. She eventually shows up, pretty attractive. Within 20 minutes, she's sitting on my lap grinding on me.

I pull her in and tell her that I want to fuck her right now. Girl nods. She literally takes my hand and we go searching through the place for an alley. Doesn't work out so I'm laughing and annoyed.

Out of all the things I could have planned for, I never expected that my problem would be finding a place to fuck.

Come back to the club, and chill for a while before the girl comes back to me again. I wanted to test something here. I'd read a lot about eye contact and all that shit.

I'm silent and just gaze into the girls eyes.

She comes out with "Let's go to your place."

Now obviously I can't take her home but she persists. End up doing her in the girl's toilets downstairs.

Also, other guys were trying to hit on her too, I didn't give a single fuck. Hell I encouraged it. After the banging, I came back in and started approaching more girls. It got to a point when girls started approaching me.

One interesting situation was when I was talking to a few guys. HB8 (probably drunk) comes up to me and starts saying how rude it is for me to be wearing an earphone in the club. I tell her that I'm going to put it back on. She starts telling me how that's rude, etc etc. Starts stroking my arm so forth and so forth. Her friends HB9s come up and start touching me too. I tell them to get their friend away.

The rest of the night was just mad makeouts, double makeouts, grinding, touching. I approached so many girls that night that I genuinely cannot remember which of them is which from the texts I've been receiving.

Now I'm not trying to say that I'm some approach god or anything, not even close. I got rejected a number of times too, I just didn't see it like that. However I've only done night game properly only two times in my life because of my inability to do it more often. I'd love to be able to go out constantly and approach but I just can't so this is a big thing for me. As for you guys out there who CAN go out and try to make excuses, don't fucking do it. Enjoy the privilege you've got.

Lessons:

  • If you want to approach a girl/group of girls and they are with a guy or guys. ALWAYS approach the guys first. Once you've done that, you've basically fucked up the dynamic. I did this for one approach and was making out with both the girls whilst the guy watched.

  • Nobody fucking cares about you unless you make a scene. You think the girls give a damn shit about you? Hell half of the girls I did filth with last night have most likely forgotten me let alone remembering some guy they ignored/rejected. Rejection means NOTHING.

  • Talk less, touch more

  • Rudeness can be attractive if done right. The girl I fucked whilst grinding on me kept on asking me what my favourite music was etc etc. I told her I don't care what she was saying and she should just continue. Girl gets upset but keeps doing it. She then goes and talks to some guy. The guy answers all her questions, they sing together. I walk past, she grabs my arm and starts making out with me.

I was also accused of "AMOGing" the whole night. Didn't know what that term was until they explained it. Rudeness just works.

Cheers