How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material?

Revo_Luzione · 2018-01-04T02:26:40+00:00

I cannot understand this logic.

There's your first mistake.

You must realize that female attraction to a male is governed by unconscious and subconscious drives, instincts, and hormonal pathways that are about as far from logic as it gets. It's feral, and is rationalized by women as being something conscious. It it isn't. This is the "rationalization hamster."

Wrangler29 · 2018-01-03T23:20:35+00:00

Because the PB has conditioned you to believe that women want a match or a soulmate, they don't they want an avenue up. You've also been conditioned to believe they are rational and will act in their own best interests. They aren't, they are emotional teenagers.

Most DT type personalities often (appear to) live exciting social lives. The crowd is king for women. Women never ever want enough, they always want more. More excitement, more attention, more emotions. The epiphany phase isn't when a woman finally figures out how to get more and what more means, it's when she becomes terrified that if she doesn't go for some beta schlub she'll end up with less than if she continues on the cc.

It's simple, appear to be an avenue for her to obtain more excitement, more attention and more feels--and most especially more envy and jealousy from other women--and 100 out of 100 women who find you to represent such will spread their legs for you.

As for the ten you describe above, that's just numbers. The average man will always be, or appear to be, better than some of the girls and those are the girls who will be interested in the average man, but those girls are never average, they are always well below.

CosmicSpiral · 2018-01-03T23:17:02+00:00

I am curious about one thing. How come even if you're personality is spot on and you're similar in major background aspects (religion, etc) and the girl doesn't have any current crush of boyfriend (or is even a complete virgin in dating), she won't be interested in you? Even if you're her ideals of beauty?

Those aspects have nothing to do with arousal (unless you are a narcissist); those are explicitly provider traits. Arousal in women is based on emotions, specifically the capacity to induce extreme emotions, and rationalization does the rest. While compatibility itself is a relevant factor to maintaining a healthy relationship, its elevation to being the 'key of attraction' is a calculated myth peddled to scrubs who prefer to remain ignorant to sexual dynamics.

[deleted] · 2018-01-04T00:08:22+00:00

Because what they think they want and what they feel attraction for are entirely different things. It's no different from men who say they want older, experienced and non-feminine women. It's a challenge against one's own biology.

Wrangler29 · 2018-01-04T01:00:06+00:00

Yeah sure, you could have a great resume on paper.. logically

In reality the difference is how he makes her feel vs how you make her feel. He likely makes her feel great about herself. In a weird way. Humans are a bundle of needs and wants, with traumas and fantasies etc. that need filling

Dragon_Garoo · 2018-01-04T01:32:46+00:00

Women need the drama roller coaster. The downs make the ups seem higher. Heck the downs make boring seem like an up.

OGlancellannister · 2018-01-04T06:24:58+00:00

Gone with the wind was an infuriating read because of the character of Scarlett O'Hara. I guess Margaret Mitchell did a good job of writing an authentic female character there.

I can understand liking someone who is completely incompatible personality wise but why would women chase after loser men who not only ABUSE them physically but are even terrible fathers to their OWN KIDS and RELATIVES? Its one thing to chase a fat poor bum neckbeard. But its a whole other story if your abusive boyfriend smacks your little brother or your fiance is frequently cheats behind your back and use your cash (which you saved to feed your kids daily food) is being stolen for his secret dates!

Women might value morality in some sense, but not in the men they sleep with. It doesn't come into the equation. Women only crave a few things sexually: Dominance, frame and purely in the initial stages, looks. That's really it.

There is a reason why women respond to dark triad, manipulative, Machiavellian men. They display strong frame, and often dominance as well.

empatheticapathetic · 2018-01-05T03:28:27+00:00

Women are attracted to dominance. If that dominant partner decided to hurt their baby, she has no use for that baby anymore. She'll protect the partner because he will protect her.

Watch this show episode if you can. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wMiiyu3w9M8

Ninokun · 2018-01-05T11:27:01+00:00

Act like a Man and Woman will be attracted to u.

U writing out that whole Paragraph is the Reason why. They dont like whiny Bitches, They also are not attracted to Providers. In Asia its very common that Older Girls get taken Advantage of by younger Red pilled guys. Its not ur Job to be the Captain Save a Hoe that says: Oh im not gonna be like those Guys. no its ur Job to be exactly like that Guy, because u want to be desired by Women.

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what happens in most cases is those Girls rehab again to those Men that would suck them dry. Why? Because ur Pussy ass is not giving her any Tingles

metallicdrama · 2018-01-06T02:14:54+00:00

Don’t even try to figure it out because they don’t even know. Even smart women are stupid. Don’t get contaminated by trying to get into their rabbit hole. Fucking 10% is a godly conversion. Even 5% is solid.

mfdillad · 2018-01-08T06:45:40+00:00

It’s very easy for people to accept the love they think they deserve. It’s easy to get complacent and think that the person treating you badly is all you deserve and that no one else would want you.

neomancr · 2018-01-04T00:19:07+00:00

They don't. You're just deliberately focusing in the then worst subset.

How do you know that your personality is spot on?

drexlr · 2018-01-03T22:53:32+00:00

because we've been taught multiculturalism is a good thing and you'd have to be a racist to "prefer" someone of ur same skin color

aka they want something exotic

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