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[–]Lezonidas45 points46 points47 points (2 children) | Copy Link
What a fucking bitch. And the guy still trying to save the marriage wtf?
[–]spiesvsmercs26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It's crazy, but like anything other sunk cost fallacy, this man has poured so much of his life into this relationship.
To find out it's a hollow lie.
Now, a woman might sacrifice a lot for an unfaithful man. That's bad. However, it will never be as bad as realizing that the children you raised and loved were never yours to begin with. More than a terrible moral betrayal, it's also a biological betrayal.
[–]SirYouAreIncorrect2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It is the same reason people go back to their abuser
It is the life they know, people will go to extreme lengths to hang on to their normal, their routine....
Plus even with the infidelity there is a huge chance he is about to get divorce raped, and if he is as old has he seems that could likely destroy any chance are retirement or a happy "golden years", instead he will be impoverished, broken, and miserable for the rest of his life until the sweet release of death ends his suffering.
Hell I put odds on she is lying right now to keep him around while she executes her pre-planned escape with the alpha she is been fucking, I bet she already has a lawyer, and a plan to secure most of his assets
[–]1Badshot47 points48 points49 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Proverbs 30:20 Such is the way of an adulterous woman; She eats, wipes her mouth, and says I've done nothing wrong.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
What a disgusting person. Who would do that to someone?
[–]meerita65 points66 points67 points (1 child) | Copy Link
A woman
[–]john212324 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
They are truly heartless. Any conversations I ever hear them have are just so callous and cruel. They are beyond narcissists. I have a forgettable face so I am invisible to them. Thus, they talk as if no man is around.
[–]Docbear6427 points28 points29 points (6 children) | Copy Link
..... 4 out of 5 ? She got knocked up at least 4 times by some other dude and this man has ushered kids that were not his into adulthood?
I am at a loss for words, I hope he's ok . I'd be losing my shit. His whole fucking world just crashed. He's been living an at least 33 year old lie. WOW
[–]eldan007[S] 21 points22 points23 points (1 child) | Copy Link
And based on their age alone, she has been cheating on him for 10 years with different Guys. (dna test showed the kids have different fathers)
[–]Docbear6411 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Speechless man , what's even sadder is he wants to save the marriage and the reason is because he wants to save the little sliver of the illusion that he has left. He needs so desperately to save whatever idea of a life he's had that he's even willing to ignore decades of his wifes lies .
I feel so sorry for him . The redpill is batter but he just got the hardest dose of reality one could possibly take at once.
[–]ValhallaWillCome10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He only tested 4 kids, they have 3 different fathers. So that’s 4 out of 4, I’ll bet you the fifth isn’t his either.
The biggest issue I see is that he’s asking whether he should or even can save his marriage, while his wife is denying any wrongdoing and is still lying to him. This guy needs to get out of there asap.
[–]SirYouAreIncorrect1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
only 4 of 5 kids have been tested, the 5th is unknown and based on other threads and comments I have read I would bet money he is infertile and the 5th is no his either
[–]Older_Miggy0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
All are being tested/retested to verify and because wife said they had to be wrong.
[–]xero-wing1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I read the article and it wasn’t even the same guy she slept with
[–]Starter9121 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I still can't imagine how many bullets I have dodged in my lifetime. This guy though.. ehh.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
She probably has another mans cock in her mouth
[–]john212322 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
As I type this she does. Not mine, I just know it.
[–]desertkingsidewinder12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, I think it's about time to stop trusting women, don't you all?
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Why does everything in rRelationships get deleted.....................
Update: well at least he moved it too relationships
Anyway, this is getting more common. These paternity/dna kits, are starting to wake men up.
E.g. https://www.bloomberg.com/news/
haaah - whole lotta desperate housewives out thereeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
[–]ihnrva5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotta protect wahmen's feefees by deleting the offensive posts.
[–]eldan007[S] 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/b7lmii/me_52m_just_found_out_at_least_4_of_my_5_children/?st=JTWOHW07&sh=2648a96f
[–]AbsoluteSereniti0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This is too much. I can’t even begin to fathom. This is the biggest nightmare for any man. “34+ years” a complete lie.. fuck man! FUCK! I really want to help out this bro. Man I feel so shit for being so useless.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Can't be your nightmare if you don't plan on marrying or having kids
[–]john212322 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If you can find joy in life without women, do it, and never look back.
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[–]SirYouAreIncorrect2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I firmly believe paternity fraud occurs in 20-25% of all births, that is why women are sooo resistant to having at birth paternity tests be part of the standard process before the father can be added to a Birth Certificate
[–]FirmFirefighter2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Is there not a grounds (guessing obviously not) for him to claim damages for babysitting the womans children for x amount of years? I mean, when they take someone to court for deception or fraud they probably explain why its a clear fraud. This would seem to be a clear fraud! If this man has no theoretical grounds for compensation then it is clear law is not linked to morality but more to ensuring society is cohesive.
[–]marlinsgo2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
Paternity fraud like this should be slam dunk cases where the whore mom is financially destroyed. If i was on a jury, and I had a chance to give an award for this case, I would award him ten million.
[–]Dawnguards2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Nowadays women want to abort 8month babies but they have no problem raising chads kids as their own.. sad redpill.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Thread locked and removed in 3,2,1. Oh, it already is.
[–]Older_Miggy0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I posted there.
[–]valdry0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Good grief! I cringe @ the total lack of self respect this man has. sigh
[–]Older_Miggy0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He's still working thru it, he needs a bit more time.
[–]Chad_Thundacock0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Some people exist solely to serve as an example to others, this man is one of them. Learn from him or share his fate. GYOW.
[–]ShortBus01010 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy should open a gofundme type of thing to receive funds from everybody willing to help. Get the best divorce lawyer and take every asset the unfaithful cunt has. 33 years of adultery and lies. The guy is actually trying to save his marriage. That's bizarre, even for a cuckold.
I think I'd just murder the cunt.
[–]xiaoxiao120 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
When you hear something like this you suddenly get sympathy for men who kill their wives.
[+]anonymaccount666-6 points-5 points-4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Downvote for your low effort post. At least provide us with a short TLDR.
[–]eldan007[S] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Downvote for your low effort in reading. At least check the other link I provided, although the title says it all.