I have never liked the word "shit test". To me it never felt like the right set of words for that behavior. While an argument can be made that she is treating you like shit to test your response i think a more accurate name is "fitness test".

In mate selection the most (only?) important metric is fitness, be it social/physical/mental etc. By testing your responses to unreasonable pressures she is gauging your social fitness.

So i propose we use fitness test (or some variant there of) instead of shit test.

Thoughts, comments?