Your thoughts, your beliefs, are your frame, and your LIFE

^Understanding ^that ^your ^beliefs ^are ^the ^conscious ^and ^subconscious ^directors ^of ^your ^life ^is ^understanding ^what ^frame ^really ^means.


When I was younger, my dad told me I would never be big and strong.

In what way would believing him, have helped my life?

I ignored his comment, or in other words, my frame was undamaged.


I've met many people with limiting beliefs, I've dealt with them myself.

"I'll never be muscular, I don't deserve it, no genetics for it."

"I'll never get girls, I'm not tall or handsome enough."

"I can't run a business. I'm not creative or cunning enough."

"I'll never have friends, I'm not charasmatic enough. I don't know how to lead. I bring no value to the table."

I dealt with those exact beliefs, until one day, I asked myself a simple and important question:

"In what way does believing those thoughts help my life?"

It doesn't! In fact, they did the opposite and robbed me of irreplaceable time and missed opportunities.


After realizing My own thoughts were being weaponized against me, I asked another simple and important question:

Why do I think that? Who, or what, put that belief into my head?

And I started thinking, tracing back the origins of that thought. "I'll never get girls cus I'm not 10/10 Chad."

Hollywood taught me that, and I was the fool who believed it.

There's two sides to the Blue pill delusional coin:

1.) The idea that being subservient to females is what gets you "the" girl.

2.) The idea that only 10/10 smooth, charming, muscular, facially aesthetic, rich, demi-gods get to have the girls.

It's a fantastical representation at best. But that's all it is: a fantasy.


"How do my beliefs align with real life?" I asked myself that final question, and I saw the truth:

I didn't have to be a 10/10 Chad to get girls. I was fucking girls by being awesomely me. I was already "handsome enough," or "tall enough" to fuck these pretty cute chicks. Sure, being more muscular, taller, whatever, it would help, but I was getting results from where I was NOW.


We could do this for all those limiting beliefs:

  • I'll never be big and muscular

  • my dad sold me this thought

  • I'm more muscular than I was before and still have room for growth

BOOM. Limiting belief blown right out the fucking water.


You can too, I'd bet.

A lot of people just don't acknowledge it. A perfectionist complex developed a long time ago - a skewed bias to fixate on the minor mistakes rather than the grand victories.

Like a comedian who dominated his set, but after the show, he forgets the laughs, the standing ovation, the girl trying to get his number, and he just remembers that one joke that completely bombed.

A negative bias. He missed the forest for the trees.

And what good does that do him?

Note the difference between:

"I can't believe I fucked up that joke,"

Vs.

"Man I DESTROYED that set. I could've did better on that joke though."

Which thought process, do YOU think, will lead to a better life?

The same can be said for the red pill/blue pill coin.

Red pill, putting yourself before others / blue pill, putting others before yourself.

Which one of those modes of living, do you think, will result in a better, more authentic life? To go further...

You need a certain amount of fanatical delusion to believe that you can get girls while still being ugly and deformed... but hey, it worked for this guy!

But either way, you're gonna have to believe in SOMETHING, and the belief that you can be ugly and still get laid is LEAGUES above the belief that if you're ugly, you're doomed to die a sexless virgin.

People who believe their negative self-talk are victims of themselves. Can you imagine how sad that is? To lose to your own thoughts?


Here's a simple way to recognize a victim, or a fucking LOSER:

Give them a path to success, and watch them conjure up their own obstacles.

"You're ugly and short? Become famous like this guy, and you can get a steady girlfriend."

"I can't, I don't have the personality to be famous."

"Okay, the limelights not for everyone, but you could start a business, become rich, and fuck 10/10 Colombian stunners for 40$ a pop ^^a ^^nut !"

"no I can't do that, I don't have good enough ideas to get rich. Plus it's too hard, I guess I'll never get laid. Fuck this gay earth."

"Here's the red pill bro, an actual guide on how to live a better life and get some pussy."

"Nah, too hard, not enough genetics, negative canthal tilt..." or whatever other excuse they conjure up.

Fuck you and your gayass beliefs. That is a LOSER. He believes himself to be one and Will not let his internal paradigm be shifted by external factors. How can he get rich, he's a loser!

Another one, the guy who won't take his girl to the gym because he is afraid his girl will ditch him for a more muscular guy.

The subtext of that belief is the man is such a loser chump, his girl will ditch him at the first sign of a more muscular man.

Fuck that gayass belief. What are you gonna do, lock the girl in a cage so you have no competition? Look at where that belief stems from : SCARCITY AND FEAR.

Here's how I see it:

Opportunity to get physical.

Opportunity to lead.

Get her hot and bothered by being surrounded by testosterone and muscle heads, then go home and fuck her brains out.

Give her some rope to see if she hangs herself.

All better thoughts than being a scarcity minded loser.


Do you think You're a loser? Is that your belief?

Is that YOUR belief?

What made you think that? Who told you that?

Are you going to just believe what other people say? Let their projections dominate your thoughts and steer your life?

Think of all the ways that idea is WRONG and tell them to fuck themselves with their gayass thought.


Here's a way to find limiting/abundant beliefs.

First, think of a concept, like love, or a thing, like money.

We will go with money.

Now, grab a pen, a paper, and write money on the top.

After that, write numbers down the page, 1 through 10.

Read the word money, and Next to the number 1, write down the first word or thought that pops into your head.

Give yourself 3 seconds to rest, and do it again, 9 more times.

The words or phrases you write are telling.

After that, question where, or why those thoughts popped up.

About 4 years ago, I came up with words such as "hard" or "rare," and also "easy."

My mom would always say getting money is easy, but my dad would say getting money is hard, and you shouldn't spend it cus it's rare.

After recognizing other people living through my thoughts, I had the opportunity to change it, or keep them, and now here's what I think of:

"Easy, fun, cool, save."


One final way to recognize limiting beliefs, and begin the process of destroying them for Good

Think of a desire of yours, money, looks, fame, girls, health -

We'll go with health. I'm sure you want a healthy, strong, vital and muscular body. I know I do.

Here's the question though, do you believe you deserve what you want?

If the answer is ANYTHING other than "Of fucking course I deserve what I want!" Then you got internal work to do.

Use the paper process I gave above to figure out why you believe you don't deserve what you want from life.

If you don't believe you deserve what you want, you will sabotage yourself, or not even begin the journey to achieving what you want.

Once you are able to heal your internal self, once you feel you deserve good things for yourself in life, you can put those beliefs into action, and begin imposing your beliefs, imposing your will, on the Earth.



Thoughts have power over our lives.

Everyone has power over their own thoughts.

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Your thoughts, your beliefs, are your frame, and your LIFE

Understanding that your beliefs are the conscious and subconscious directors of your life is understanding what frame really means.


When I was younger, my dad told me I would never be big and strong.

In what way would believing him, have helped my life?

I ignored his comment, or in other words, my frame was undamaged.


I've met many people with limiting beliefs, I've dealt with them myself.

"I'll never be muscular, I don't deserve it, no genetics for it."

"I'll never get girls, I'm not tall or handsome enough."

"I can't run a business. I'm not creative or cunning enough."

"I'll never have friends, I'm not charasmatic enough. I don't know how to lead. I bring no value to the table."

I dealt with those exact beliefs, until one day, I asked myself a simple and important question:

"In what way does believing those thoughts help my life?"

It doesn't! In fact, they did the opposite and robbed me of irreplaceable time and missed opportunities.


After realizing My own thoughts were being weaponized against me, I asked another simple and important question:

Why do I think that? Who, or what, put that belief into my head?

And I started thinking, tracing back the origins of that thought. "I'll never get girls cus I'm not 10/10 Chad."

Hollywood taught me that, and I was the fool who believed it.

There's two sides to the Blue pill delusional coin:

1.) The idea that being subservient to females is what gets you "the" girl.

2.) The idea that only 10/10 smooth, charming, muscular, facially aesthetic, rich, demi-gods get to have the girls.

It's a fantastical representation at best. But that's all it is: a fantasy.


"How do my beliefs align with real life?" I asked myself that final question, and I saw the truth:

I didn't have to be a 10/10 Chad to get girls. I was fucking girls by being awesomely me. I was already "handsome enough," or "tall enough" to fuck these pretty cute chicks. Sure, being more muscular, taller, whatever, it would help, but I was getting results from where I was NOW.


We could do this for all those limiting beliefs:

  • I'll never be big and muscular

  • my dad sold me this thought

  • I'm more muscular than I was before and still have room for growth

BOOM. Limiting belief blown right out the fucking water.


You can too, I'd bet.

A lot of people just don't acknowledge it. A perfectionist complex developed a long time ago - a skewed bias to fixate on the minor mistakes rather than the grand victories.

Like a comedian who dominated his set, but after the show, he forgets the laughs, the standing ovation, the girl trying to get his number, and he just remembers that one joke that completely bombed.

A negative bias. He missed the forest for the trees.

And what good does that do him?

Note the difference between:

"I can't believe I fucked up that joke,"

Vs.

"Man I DESTROYED that set. I could've did better on that joke though."

Which thought process, do YOU think, will lead to a better life?

The same can be said for the red pill/blue pill coin.

Red pill, putting yourself before others / blue pill, putting others before yourself.

Which one of those modes of living, do you think, will result in a better, more authentic life? To go further...

You need a certain amount of fanatical delusion to believe that you can get girls while still being ugly and deformed... but hey, it worked for this guy!

But either way, you're gonna have to believe in SOMETHING, and the belief that you can be ugly and still get laid is LEAGUES above the belief that if you're ugly, you're doomed to die a sexless virgin.

People who believe their negative self-talk are victims of themselves. Can you imagine how sad that is? To lose to your own thoughts?


Here's a simple way to recognize a victim, or a fucking LOSER:

Give them a path to success, and watch them conjure up their own obstacles.

"You're ugly and short? Become famous like this guy, and you can get a steady girlfriend."

"I can't, I don't have the personality to be famous."

"Okay, the limelights not for everyone, but you could start a business, become rich, and fuck 10/10 Colombian stunners for 40$ a pop a nut !"

"no I can't do that, I don't have good enough ideas to get rich. Plus it's too hard, I guess I'll never get laid. Fuck this gay earth."

"Here's the red pill bro, an actual guide on how to live a better life and get some pussy."

"Nah, too hard, not enough genetics, negative canthal tilt..." or whatever other excuse they conjure up.

Fuck you and your gayass beliefs. That is a LOSER. He believes himself to be one and Will not let his internal paradigm be shifted by external factors. How can he get rich, he's a loser!

Another one, the guy who won't take his girl to the gym because he is afraid his girl will ditch him for a more muscular guy.

The subtext of that belief is the man is such a loser chump, his girl will ditch him at the first sign of a more muscular man.

Fuck that gayass belief. What are you gonna do, lock the girl in a cage so you have no competition? Look at where that belief stems from : SCARCITY AND FEAR.

Here's how I see it:

Opportunity to get physical.

Opportunity to lead.

Get her hot and bothered by being surrounded by testosterone and muscle heads, then go home and fuck her brains out.

Give her some rope to see if she hangs herself.

All better thoughts than being a scarcity minded loser.


Do you think You're a loser? Is that your belief?

Is that YOUR belief?

What made you think that? Who told you that?

Are you going to just believe what other people say? Let their projections dominate your thoughts and steer your life?

Think of all the ways that idea is WRONG and tell them to fuck themselves with their gayass thought.


Here's a way to find limiting/abundant beliefs.

First, think of a concept, like love, or a thing, like money.

We will go with money.

Now, grab a pen, a paper, and write money on the top.

After that, write numbers down the page, 1 through 10.

Read the word money, and Next to the number 1, write down the first word or thought that pops into your head.

Give yourself 3 seconds to rest, and do it again, 9 more times.

The words or phrases you write are telling.&