TL;DR: went to a pool party and k-closed a girl.

Intro:

I came across the Red Pill last year due to a oneitis situation over a girl in my social circle that blew up out of proportion: it caused me to lose friends, cast doubt on myself, etc. It was a total frame destruction. However, since finding the red pill, I never looked back. I still have trouble with the self-doubt and executing TRP principles, but at least I have tools (i.e. red pill lens) to see life as it is.

Body:

A month ago, a friend (not from the social circle mentioned above) and I went to a pool party at a venue and, as expected, there was a plethora attractive ladies in bathing suits showing off and what not. My friend and I go to the bar to get some drinks and, while he gets them, I am waiting next to a group of girls. I opened the one next to me by asking "what drink are you having?" We exchange like 4 lines but she didn't show much interest so I stopped talking to her by saying "Haha that's funny" with a smile. I went back to seeing if my friend had gotten our drinks, but he was still waiting, so I proceeded to talk to a guy next to me. He was also waiting for his friend getting their drinks, which was literally next to my friend. We talked about the venue, how packed it is, how loud the music is, etc. At one point a bartender almost grabbed his beer, thinking it was empty, so I make fun of that situation. My friend finally gets our drinks, so I tell the other guy "have fun in the party" and walked away to the pool area.

Back at the pool, we meet my friend's group and I hang out there for some time. Eventually, I walked to the crowd in front of the DJ's table and I start "dancing" just like everyone else. My friend followed suit some seconds later. Then, I saw a girl next to me that I thought was cute, so, without saying a word, I pulled her close to me and we started dancing (read: grinding). After a decent while, her friends pulled her away.

I stayed by myself dancing for some time until I turned back to talk to my friend and I saw him open some other girl (let's call her Pink). They exchanged some lines, but then my friend turned away to talk to other people and so did I. Eventually, I noticed that Pink was still behind me, so, without saying a word, I pulled her close to me and started grinding. She was my type: tall (maybe taller than me), slim body, cute face. Pink was so much in the moment that almost pulled my shorts down haha. Subsequently, I turned her around to face me so that I could go for the kiss. She backed out like 4 times and says something that I didn't understand because the music was loud. I didn't say anything, though, and continued doing our thing. We kept "dancing" until her friends pulled her away.

Again, I stayed by myself dancing for some other time until I saw some other girl, which I went to pull her to "dance" with her. However, she turned me down a couple of times so I went back to dancing by myself. Eventually, Pink walked back to my area. Some guy talked to her for some seconds, but she continued walking and stopped basically in front of me. After some seconds, I pulled her again, "danced" her and turned her around again. This time she gave me kiss hints: she looked me in the eyes, rubbed her lips (one against the other) and looked away. She did that twice, so obviously I went for the kiss. We had a solid make out session.

I didn't get Pink's number because I had left my phone at my friend's apartment so that I could get in the pool. My apartment was 20 minutes away and since I didn't have my phone, I couldn't request an uber/lyft ride. All in all, logistics were not the best, so I just let it be.

Takeaways:

  • I k-closed a girl whom I literally did not say a single word. If I could, so can you.
  • I have approach anxiety, so I opened that initial girl and guy at the bar to mentally get things going.
  • Logistics are key.