Summary Tried my luck at a gay club, failed to approach a 8.5, kissed a 7.5, waited to long to approach a redhead 8 and got fake named.

So it’s Friday night and my friends and I decided to go out to a gay club in my city.

To preface there are two gay clubs, 1 which is almost strictly gay people and another which is huge, has 3 dance floors and whilst is advertised as a gay club is bordering on heterosexual given the amount of straight women that hang out there.

So at 5 dollars entry we went to the latter.

Something that annoys me is how long my friends stand around the bar doing nothing talking to each other or to girls they already know/aren’t hot.

So I pushed and led my 3 man crew to the dance floor.

I do a lot of my game on the dance floor. I make myself as tall as possible when I dance , take up a lot of room, chin up, with a cheeky smile. I don’t try to hard too dance I just act like I’m having a good time -which I am.

So I am dancing and scoping out the floor looking for a hot chick.

In this time a lesbian comes up to me and tells me I’m too beautiful to be alone. Nice confidence booster.

Eventually I dance up next to a 7.5 with curly hair. I ask her name, in response give her a fake one (gotta stay anonymous with this #metoo shit going around). We dance and she leans in for a kiss which I wasn’t really ready for and half ass it. I then ask her to go get a drink of water so I can talk to her more but she says no then walks away probably cause it was such a bad kiss.

Later on I spot a really hot 8.5. Pretty face and big boobs popping out of a floral dress. I am working up the courage to approach but my friend wants me to go for a piss with him and for some stupid reason I agree.

When I return the 8.5 is walking out of the doors of the club.

Eventually move to the main outdoor stage area which is a massive dance floor.

They were playing absolute shit music so I wasn’t dancing energetically or conveying I was having a good time.

A redhead 8 dances up next to me and my friend and gives me strong eye contact and a smile. I don’t approach her and she dances near us for about 15 mins until leaving the dance floor.

Me and my friend then leave the dance floor and spot the redhead sitting down. I decide to approach:

Me:”I like your hair” Her: “thanks” Me: what’s your name Her:Lydia Me: you look really out of it Her: no I’m just tired and my feet hurt

Then before I could get a word out, a female friend comes up and cock blocks me and talks to the redhead. They went to the same school and start up a conversation. The redhead tells my 6 friend her name is Sarah.

So for some reason the redhead gave me a fake name.

That’s all the approaches from that night:

lessons learned

-lesson 1: approach her you pussy -lesson 2: kiss her like you mean it, don’t let her get away, if she wants to kiss don’t try and make conversation -lesson 3: if she shows eye contact don’t wait around 15 mins go for it then and there

Any other feedback on what I could improving on given the situation is very welcome