I fucked up and white knighted.

MaGeTOW · 2018-07-21T02:29:11+00:00

Muscle memory led to a canned response.

ConstantChinner · 2018-07-21T02:25:20+00:00

It's not the end of the world, man. Just learn from your mistakes.

Phantom_Spark · 2018-07-21T02:33:38+00:00

You have the knowledge but have yet to fully embrace it. Once you do that, it becomes a part of who you are.

I absorb this stuff so much that I have to watch what I say at work, because women get offended so easily.

So instead? I drop red pill knowledge in a bit of a vague way. Then when a woman gets offended by the implication I troll them and say I never said that and explain it in a way that makes them look bad for challenging me. LOL

dudeeitsdamon · 2018-07-21T02:27:55+00:00

Delete social media

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-07-21T02:51:10+00:00

haha all good dude. how many of us here on this sub have tried to protect wymyn during our younger years? prob most of us. if you can be fortunate enough to learn from the experiences of other men, you will save yourself years of heartbreak and money.

carini_bustout · 2018-07-21T02:43:25+00:00

"I posted about how dating is a rigged game"

Why post anything at all? My god, talk about catnip for females. Especially when it's not anonymous, and your face is on the post. Big no-no. You'll get gang-tackled within 5 minutes.

The only right move after posting that would be to just leave it. And she didn't agree with your post, she agrees with the opposite of what you meant.

dudeeitsdamon · 2018-07-21T02:43:56+00:00

I wouldn't use social media for its contemporary use, that is to post about your life and opinions to all of the closest people around you. Somewhat anonymous socialization on the internet like for games or sharing opinions on the forum is one thing, but sometimes even your best friend who you get along best with will have a different social or political opinions that could otherwise cause unneeded tension, and some things should just be kept to yourself with that regard. Aside from that, maybe you are young. This may go against everything MGTOW stands for, but sometimes you have to get out there and actually date or try to date in order to see and then loose desire in trying to date or enforcing their hamster. Half the men here have been divorced or in some way found MGTOW from trying to find places to discuss their own experiences and ideas they came to on their own. Otherwise, you may just still be in that phase. You may see some green grass and if you do that is your own choice and the best part of going your own way. Just take what you want from it and don't feel obligated to do anything. You don't have to fallow rules, and if you feel bad about it otherwise, acting on what you truly believe in will come naturally. You don't have to be an angel and you don't have to be a push over. You don't have to be celibate and you don't need to get married. If it is any consolation I would still probably white knight for my sisters, it's circumstantial and what ever really makes you feel fulfilled. The main idea is just don't fall for the bullshit that women are incredibly opressed and you as a man should be their stepping stool, and marriage is a raw deal, or great if you want to loose most of your shit at once and a good part of it for a majority of your life while she fucks and does what ever she wants.

project_mayhem_ · 2018-07-21T02:37:51+00:00

I've had . . . female . . . friends

lesson one: no you haven't

Aimruler · 2018-07-21T02:53:51+00:00

Look for what's wrong and fix it immediately. Don't repeat the same mistake twice

nonchalantfool · 2018-07-21T03:53:02+00:00

Don't punish yourself

Gbobby101 · 2018-07-21T05:19:17+00:00

Just learn how women manipulate you to tell you what they want to hear so you don’t end up unwittingly become one of their henchman doing the dirty work for her.

xslracket · 2018-07-21T06:00:33+00:00

Hey, it happens atleast you are aware. Learn from the experience.

astuteglute · 2018-07-21T06:33:08+00:00

Ghosting is the only natural response. To social media and your 'friend'.

2018-07-21T07:08:30+00:00

Make more male friends and just fuck females. /endofproblem

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-07-21T09:15:11+00:00

You're self aware atleast

BaldManlet · 2018-07-21T13:43:44+00:00

Should have told her that there needs to be at least some personal responsibility for actions. All bad things in the world cannot be blamed on men. She should at least admit that it’s possible that the men she chooses to date just want to fuck. If 20% of men are dating 80% of women, mathematically there really is no other answer.

SerialMansplainer · 2018-07-21T02:40:31+00:00

It's not that bad, man. If anything it'll help you fly under her MGTOW radar.

dudeeitsdamon · 2018-07-21T02:53:26+00:00

Force of habit. I still have to remind myself not to open doors for them, did it for so long I'll do it automatically if not careful.

StylishMGTOW · 2018-07-21T02:57:45+00:00

This happens to me at work. I know myself, so I make a conscious effort to help my fellow man and avoid white-knighting the bitches.

801735 · 2018-07-21T03:21:23+00:00

You did it to learn your lesson. Again.

And: Fuck. Your. Life. How could you?!?!?! ]=)

This is why we can't have good things but do have ants. ]=)

ThePlague · 2018-07-21T04:21:27+00:00

Training and conditioning. You've had a lifetime of that bullshit being fed to you, telling you how a man acts in such situations. When it's crunch time, it's the easiest to go to, the default fallback. Recognize it, isolate it, eliminate it.

A mantra I've used for any type of training, whether it be athletic or intellectual, is: "Think about it, think about it, think about it, forget it" That is, analyze the hell out of something, run scenarios, run what if cases, come up with contingency plans, and then stop thinking about it particularly when it's go time. Whether it's swinging a bat, working a problem, or taking down a work adversary, it'll become second nature and completely natural.

LordNuts · 2018-07-21T15:06:35+00:00

Next time when any women ask you why men only want them for sex you tell them this, “what else do you have to offer of value other than your body and makeup?”

PanderjitSingh_k · 2018-07-21T18:18:29+00:00

I do this sort of thing all the time with women who complain about men. I feed them the same nonsense women’s magazines do. My favorite is ‘Some men are threatened by intelligent women’. It allows them to shut up about that subject and move on to something of more interest to me.

Title	I fucked up and white knighted.
Author	dudeeitsdamon
Upvotes	11
Comments	63
Date	July 21, 2018 2:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/90m049/i_fucked_up_and_white_knighted/
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