I just watched a video of a guy getting his ass beaten by a woman. He just sat there taking it, and I couldnt help but palmslap my forehead repeatedly.

With my growing self confidence, I am going to feel the desire to defend myself from any and all opponents, including women. Only problem we can all agree on is no matter what happened, if you hurt a woman, your life is ruined. End of story.

I want to take the "Hurt" out of the equation. What are the best martial arts for tackling an opponent into submission, forcing them to give up?