I wanted to share my beliefs on this topic. I have been Redpilled into oblivion throughout my 20's and 30's. I've dated some of the most beautiful women that I HAVE ever seen. I've had lots of great sex, many past LTR's and so on. The biggest Redpill truth is that women DO NOT LOVE YOU. My experience with women has verified this OVER AND OVER again.

 

Disposability You can not truly love something that is disposable. You are male. You are disposable. The reason you are disposable isn't that there are so many 'better' guys than you. You're disposable simply because there ARE so many guys, and they're all dying for a taste of her cunt. Do you think women even give a shit if the next guy is 'better' than you? Women have an ENDLESS and perpetual supply of validation and resources. It's like a car with an endless supply of gas, who gives a shit what pump they get it from as long as they get it. Every woman I've dated has an endless inbox on FB, Instagram, Snapchat with dozens of men BEGGING to be their free gas pump. You think she's gonna care that much if she swaps you out? The only reason us men handle breakups so HARD is that we know it's probably gonna be a 50-mile walk through death valley until we hit the next pump.

 

Your Humanity Is Inconvenient No matter what type of woman I've dated, whether it was the extremes of BPD, a cunt or just an average woman. One thing that is certain is that if you show weakness, vulnerability or emotionality that causes her ANY inconvenience, her mood will immediately change. Now she might nurture you if it has NO impact on her. But if you are showing signs that your weakness will affect her (resources, social status, immediate needs, and gratifications) she WILL react negatively. Either by pulling away from you at your lowest point or shitting directly on you. When women claim they want you to 'open-up,' what they're really saying is that they want you to verify if you're emotionally hooked or entrapped or to spot vulnerabilities to exploit.

 

The proof is in the pudding. If you act stoic, a man of action, a 'superhero' she will FUCK your brains out on the regular. It's been tried and tested in my life with dozens of women. So in reality, if you want her to remain attracted and fuck you, you either have to a). Sacrifice your soul and humanity. b.) Never show any weakness except to male friends who actually are capable of giving a shit about you. Your 'woman/fuckbuddy/dating/banging' female will never care, your feelings are inconvenient to her prerogative

 

She wants praise, not honesty Although I just said women want an unemotional and stoic man, they also want your unadulterated praise and support, unless she's craving a bit of drama from you (anger) which is really just to keep you hooked on her emotional domination over you. Women do NOT want to be criticized for ANYTHING, EVER.

Women are so narcissistic in general now, they cannot handle honesty (a cornerstone of what we call actual love). A woman wants no boundaries, she wants no expectations unless it's expectations and boundaries FOR YOU. She does NOT want equality in the relationship. She wants to fuck around (physically and emotionally), she wants her harem of beta males and back-up boi's, she wants resources with minimal 'give-back' from her, she wants your effort and attention while 'doling' it out to you and many other men. She wants the EXACT OPPOSITE of what she expects and requires from YOU. And in every situation, varying in severity, she will play by different rules than you, and she will hide it from you, in ONE WAY or ANOTHER. She will ALWAYS play to her advantage, no matter how underhanded. As long as she's attractive, and why would you date her if she wasn't, she will play the game to your disadvantage.

 

What's Love Got To Do With It? When we think of love, does any of the above shit resemble it even slightly? No. The truth is about dating and women, love has NOTHING to do with it, except if it comes from you in the form of obedience and ignorance. Women DO NOT love you. You can have fun with women, bang them, even have 'pseudo-relationships' etc; but you can never truly have a connection with them because they do not love you. Connection comes from MALE friends, PERIOD. Do not expect ANY of that shit from a woman. Women are OPPORTUNISTS with the 'end-goal' being her absolute gratification, nothing more and nothing less.

 

The Takeaway It's a bitter reality, but reality none the less. If you want to ignore what I've written, go ahead. However, I'm willing to bet you already know this to be true, or if not, you will find it to be true soon enough. The one takeaway from this is your own sovereignty. You become a stronger man one way or another, you learn to bear the difficulties of life better, and better on your own. You no longer require the 'comforting' of a woman, as we all desire that from boyhood in someway, not from choice but from biology. You develop the gift of man to an even further extent, the do it yourself attitude, independence and strength. We all have an obstacled and seemingly isolated road as men, especially seeing how life is freely handed to most beautiful women, the same things we grit our teeth, sweat and bleed to obtain. However, what we do gain as men, we did it ourselves, without the freebies and coddling of society. We did it all without the false and duplicitous narrative of 'love,' and we are far stronger and better for it.