LTR hosting birthday party, said no sex

yeetngreet · 2018-11-16T18:49:02+00:00

Will there be men at the party at least? Since you will be the only boy there.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-11-16T20:00:56+00:00

Just act like you don't give a shit and like not having sex has no influence on you. Have a good time, be friendly, impress her friends (don't visibly hit on them).

Later on in the night, you can frame the situation in your favor. "Damn babe, It'd be pretty naughty if we had sex right now. Especially with your dad in the other room."

Another one, "I bet you wouldn't be able to keep your mouth shut if we were to fuck right now."

Do all this while teasing her physically.

Nib-q · 2018-11-16T19:27:24+00:00

She'll probably be in her birthday suit by 10:15 especially if she drinks. You already know the answer to this one because you put it in your question and are second guessing. Trust your gut

[deleted] · 2018-11-16T18:47:53+00:00

I think she'll be insulted if you don't try to make a move

Rkingpin · 2018-11-16T22:35:07+00:00

Watch what they do. Not what they say

fuggetboutit · 2018-11-16T18:49:16+00:00

Just say thanks and go on with celebrating

[deleted] · 2018-11-16T20:32:31+00:00

Chill out dude. She's worried you'd judge her for being the sort of tramp who'd get drunk and fuck while her dad's in the next room: this way, the boning is your fault

Roll with it.

[deleted] · 2018-11-17T00:43:52+00:00

It's ok to do this at your age. See, you need this experience now so you learn from it for the future. So, here's what's going on. She's making a power move and you are ok with that. You are ok with giving her the power. This is not how you train your girl. Either figure out how to get the power back or drop this insane girl. Because once you give her the power, she will want more. She will be relentless in her pursuit of power, turning you into a full beta. A year from now she will be taking it in the two hole from Chad while you stay at home, clean the house, mow the lawn, and do the laundry; all because she said so. This is not how you train your girl. I'd slap you but you're young. Learn from this.

UnluckyPenguin · 2018-11-16T23:50:43+00:00

party... only boy

That's not a party, it's a girl's night out. And just by YOU being at HER party, you are in her frame. I am almost positive you'll ignore my advice (best lessons are self-learned), but you should ABSOLUTELY NOT attend this party unless you can bring a handful of your male friends along.

I'll stay over to sleep there

Don't. Seriously. Go home.

Gf said that we won't do anything

Women love planning, but rarely follow it in the moment. It's typical ASD, no need to fight it until it gets to the critical moment, just go with the flow.

Your GF is just worrying about how everything can go wrong. Just like a girl having a boyfriend means nothing, a girl putting up a defense means just as much.

should I still escalate and not listen to what she says as is adviced here or respect what she said since we're at her place

Stop playing into her frame. Start doing the opposite of what she told she you to do from the beginning. Honestly, think outside the box. You have a million other options.

Tell her you're not going to the party
Tell her you're not staying the night (don't mention it's because you're not hooking up)
Don't escalate. You're the prize, she should be making a move on you or worst case, put up zero resistance on your advances.

Good luck.

Lastly, you know how a girl having a ton of guy friends and few girl friends is a red flag? The same goes for men having too many girls as friends. If you're getting along great with all the women at the party and none of your bros are there, you've probably got some deeper emotional problems you need to face by going monk mode for a year or two. But don't take my advice, you'll learn those lessons the hard way in about 8 years or so.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-11-16T21:31:37+00:00

Obviously

koedeloe · 2018-11-17T09:34:25+00:00

Never listen to what a girl says. Judge her by her actions. Try to make a move after 10pm.

Title	LTR hosting birthday party, said no sex
Author	drugtofuck
Upvotes	15
Comments	25
Date	November 16, 2018 6:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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