So I thought of an interesting concept for this subreddit. The title; Rate my LTR. The goal here is to give as much of a non-biased description of my LTR for in return feedback and any concerns that might not have been noticed on my end. This would benefit guys that have found themselves in a oneitis without knowing and possibly have their eyes open to some flags that have gone under the radar or give attention to aspects that should be found in future partners. So let’s begin

I’m working on Year 3 with my LTR. I’m 28 and she is 24. We both move out of state into an apartment that we both split cost evenly throughout. First the pros to my LTR.

Has a great father daughter relationship. She’s naturally submissive and knows it so it isn’t difficult to take lead. She genuinely handles arguments well (no outburst or yelling) Good work ethic(will conflict with one of the cons but I’ll explain below). 6.5 without make up, 8 with make up. Athletic. Very positive person and easy to get along with (makes coexisting fairly calm) Doesn’t expect gifts or material possessions, no issue with buying her own shit. Supportive in what I do and what my purpose is.

For the cons; Lazy, needs to be motivated (either she works her ass off and gets shit done or she just sits on the couch and go on Instagram). Is Damaged (sexually abused in past relationships). Sex drive fluctuates, either we fuck ALOT or very very little. She blames this on stress and “mood”. Is on her phone a lot. Her social life is through Instagram DM’s. We had a few spats about her talking to other guys and sort of keeping it on the hush (yes mate guarding probably drove this) still young so either needs to mature or needs to be lead more forcefully. Has a rocky relationship with mother (she has a lot of habits she got from her mother which can be off putting at times). She is “lost” in life; she doesn’t know what she wants to do yet. She has ideas but isn’t sticking to one of them. Validation seeking. Insecure.

Both lists can be extended into more detail but this should give you a basic gist of her. Please be honest, this is the whole point of this, Nothing taken personal so I am all ears/eyes