Always missing the signals

Grimmrhow · 2018-11-19T06:43:18+00:00

dude just focus on your goals, if you are a high value man, they will make it easy for you. If you missed some signs, dont worry, they will keep pursuing you until you get them right.

Kamiwari727 · 2018-11-19T08:49:55+00:00

Maybe you are still afraid to escalate with them to something sexual, so you subconsciously ignore their cues. This happened to me recently. I was on a first date with a hottie blonde, and she asked me, "Do you have some weed at home?" I completely ignored her, since I already had three plates spinning, and just couldn't handle one more, logisitically speaking. Only when we separated did I realize what happened. Oh well...

The funny thing is that when I was a Nice-Guy Beta, girls opened me / gave me compliments / tried to seduce me, much more frequently. Now, in the past three years that I transformed myself, I didn't get a single opening, only approach-invitations.

If you focus on reading their signals, you will. If you really want to get with some of these cuties, you will. It is all a matter of mindset and priorities.

caneyfan · 2018-11-19T19:26:35+00:00

You’re too focused inwardly (common for ppl who are self conscious). Learn to be more observant in all your communications by practicing “mirroring” in your interactions. You’ll pick up signals a lot better naturally just by practicing on this skill.

Grimmrhow · 2018-11-19T22:39:34+00:00

What is your goal, mission? Making yourself high value? Or picking up chiks? dude there are 8 billion peole in the world, lets say half of them are women, and then half of them are the possible candidates that you can have a relationship. Just imagine the numbers, there is so much chances in life for them, you dont have to entertain them all, if you miss the chance for one, theres so much more from others. Also being happy with friends, not all people had that chance. Think about it.

Now, if you want to see the signs that your looking for ,you need to learn how to read people, look for ticks, try to learn how they think. Think like sherlock holmes, look for small details that can reflect certian characteristics or certain tells, body language, eye movement, tone of voice, body posture, etc... Theres so much, so much stuff to learn. The only shortcut and the easiest shortcut is, learning about yourself, learning stuff for yourself, making yourself so amazingly different that, if a woman saw you, thew will do anything in thier power to get thier hands on you and only thing that you will think about is when and who to be with. Women are an excess, they are the sub-product of success. Thats the truth, and thats what i believe in.

Coregod109 · 2018-11-19T07:28:49+00:00

Same problem here OP hope you get some advice but I'm afraid the only thing you'll hear is get experience.

But I have the same issue where I'm so stuck in communicating with friends on a day to day basis that when a girl shit tests me I auto respond logical and instantly kill attraction.

2 weeks ago a girl came up to me and called me literally good looking and then shit tested me about my beard and I responded logically instead of recognizing it was a shit test you could see the disappointment in her face.

And I was screaming at myself internally :(

Title	Always missing the signals
Author	twonomore
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	November 19, 2018 5:48 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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