Recovering Frame

SirKolbath · 2018-11-22T14:20:30+00:00

You’ve given us zero context. The only way we can answer that question is to yell “Spoon!”

_whistler · 2018-11-22T17:39:04+00:00

As noted by others, you've given no context. I'm going to answer you anyway: yes, of course you can regain Frame after losing it. Whether you will regain Frame depends on the context. Here's an example.

You're out with a girl in a public setting. She asks you what you want to do next. You respond by asking her what she wants to do. Fuck, you think to yourself. That was the wrong thing to do. I've lost mah fraaaaaame!

Don't panic, all is not lost. She doesn't know what to say because women need to be guided, so anything that comes out of her mouth in the next few seconds is unimportant. Ignore what she says next, if she says anything at all. All you do to fix this is pull out a canned, flirty fixer idea that you've prepared in advance for just such an occasion.

You smile playfully at her, maintaining direct eye contact. "Because I'm trying to decide between a bank-robbing-spree or going for a smoothie myself. I'm leaning towards smoothies, but I'm not sure you're hardcore enough for that..."

And with that, you've reassured her that you are prepared to take the lead.

If you've lost frame in a specific context that you're worried about overcoming, post the story and I'm sure someone will have helpful advice.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-11-22T14:43:14+00:00

You might, depending on the context that we have no access to

Eldudearino89 · 2018-11-22T13:26:21+00:00

Hello fellow dude. Honestly I believe once you lost it on a given day you just gotta forget about it, and move on in your life. Focus more on yourself figure out why you lost it, and next time figure out how you can control it better.

Everything takes time dude... Sometimes you gotta be a Nihilist.

chazthundergut · 2018-11-22T17:42:57+00:00

Of course you can.

But she wont give it back easily. Expect to be shit tested like hell.

Title	Recovering Frame
Author	O_Duderino
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	November 22, 2018 12:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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