I’ve been following these tinder rules by AMS

Ask her what she likes to do in spare time

Ask her if she comes to your city, what her favorite spot is

We should get a drink

Cool send me your number so we can set up a time

when are you usually free

One message a day of low interest

3-5 hours for high interest

While it may vary sightly to another dating coach it’s along the same lines. Instead of asking them for a drink I say let’s walk to the park by me because I don’t feel like going to bars with masks and stuff....I get the same response “I don’t even know you yet”...or they’ll JUST NOW ask me where I live then say it’s too far....I think I’m a good looking guy, but it seems like I can’t get any on dates...they wanna be text buddy’s for a while first and I’m not trying to do that...what should I do differently? Fitxfearless even says skip the date and invite them straight over tried that and that failed as well...I have around 50 matches right now

EDIT: let me throw in this story tonight...this girl on tinder lives an hour away, told her to come over talking on the phone. She says she’s coming tells me the eta and everything. Calls me and says she’s 10 mins away. Then calls me again telling me she made a wrong turn and stuck on a street (she even used the street name that was near me) then She said she was on an even closer street, I walk out my door and talking to her as I can see the street and no car on the street...what the hell, crazy! I hung up