is it me or do females lack a sense of seeing things from the views of other people?

most times a girl ask for a favor, it's normally something that will throw off your whole day or plans into mayhem or etc.

example, this girl asked me to meet up with her before work. and I refused because agreeing would have left me at my job site TWO HOURS EARLY FOR WORK. while she gets to do whatever for her time.

I told her the situation and instead of acting like a sensible human. " she instead flips out like , you can't even do me this one thing ? c'mon. at least you'll be at work 2 hours early.. "

like what the hell? we aren't together yet you want me to inconvenience myself to pleasure you. you thought I was doing this. and from experience many girls are like this.

now should you ask then to do the same for you, it would NEVER Get done and should you ever bring up a time you bent over backwards for her now you are a asshole.

I don't get it