On the 'friend-girl'

On /r/becomeaman there is a section explaining that I should ask some of my close lady-friends on a date or drop them.

I have this one friend, lets call her Vicky, Vicky and I go as far back as the 7th grade. Back when I was a super-obsessive beta and was a slave to women.

Vicky was cool because she introduced me to more girls, and over the years I stuck with her as a close friend. Only attempting to date her once, but I was smacked down by rejection. I had some deep rooted feelings for her then, but she made it out to be like the feeling was never going to be mutual. So, I moved on to other girls.

Since college has passed, and we've both matured. Most of the time we've seen eachother, we've hung out and talked about lots of things. Including lots of sex talk, I have no idea why but it seems to come naturally between us. She hasn't had any real sexual experience yet, or at least thats what she tells me. Usually the conversation moves to her virginity, and how picking the right person is important. All that stuff.

But before I would get excited about possible good sexual chemistry, she openly said to my face that she would have sex with me if I was fit and muscular. Which is not the current state of my physique.

A bit of an eye opener honestly. And I've sort of avoided contact with her on purpose since then. My family all have met her, and they all strongly believe that she's had the biggest crush on me for a long time. Not to mention they want me to "hook up" with her.

I don't see any future, especially since she's got some beta boyfriend (Example: she wanted me to come to this ball at her college as her date, I mention her new bf, she says if he has a problem he can suck it.) and she's now recently moved to Florida for flight school. She won't be back for like 2 years or so. And no clue if she will be visiting in the future.

Do I cut all contact or attempt dating her again?

On remaining in contact with an ex

Lets call her Glenn.

Glenn and I dated for almost a year and a half before I was starting to feel sad and wanted to get out and date other people.

It was very difficult for me to break up with her, it took me three tries. Mostly because she would just come and seduce me into staying with her. Which I quickly caught on to, but I didn't care I was getting lots of crazy, dirty sex from her. And letting that go was tough as is.

After really breaking up with her, and dealing with a false pregnancy test that she clearly concocted to get me to stay with her, I cut off all contact for like 6 months.

She reached out to me, and clearly was bragging about one beta she had been fucking in my absence. Saying all sorts of stuff that I knew she said to make me jealous. I called her out on it and told her to cut the shit. She wants to visit, so she plans a week visit with me and to see some other friends in the city.

For most of the week she spent it fucking me, and then going out for drinks with me and some of our mutual friends. Who were still getting over the fact that we were even hanging out, but it was clear to them what was going on.

During most of this week, she almost convinced me to get back into a relationship and treated it as she did before. And I couldn't take it, so I said fuck off.

A couple weeks later, she asks to send me something, and after my approval she started sending all these dirty pics of herself. She wasn't getting anything from me, but I had her send me more. And she proposed another visit, and this time just as a FWB, but it felt like another ploy to get back together with me. So I rejected her and cut her off again. She was upset claiming that I was "leading her on", and such. She obviously led herself on.

Later on I found out she went "gay" and is currently in a LTR with a girl we're mutual friends with. We hadn't spoken in a while and this was her attempt to be facebook friend again:

Glenn has added you on FB

Her: Add me!

Me: Why

Her: Why not!

Me: I dunno

Her: Oh well, I had my Native American spirit cards read. So I added you (Whatever that fucking means)

Me: Thought I wasn't going to hear from you.

Her: Here I am! Your ex lesbian gf

Me: What do you want.

Her: Nothing.

Me: I'm sure

Her: ...welp okay then.

Didn't add her. Of course.

She has attempted to get back in contact with me again and again, trying to re-establish the "BFF" vibe that we used to have between each other. I tell her thats not going to happen, and she doesn't seem to get how this kind of relationship works.

But somehow I get the vibe that she could be a potential plate for me to spin if I played my cards right.

But what do you guys think? Should I keep in contact as a plate or no?