Summary

Women opt for the path of least resistance. Men should willingly choose the path of most resistance.

Struggle creates character. And good character is of vital necessity for a male to prosper within society and to boost his attractiveness. Being able to adequately handle stress and inner turmoil demonstrates a man's ability and resilience. Most importantly it exposes his worth and functionality.

Body

In my last post, 'Women are the absentia of truth' I reiterated the observation that women are an embodiment of dishonesty. In every facet of their being, they utilise deception and artifice to gain traction in their egocentric pursuits. This is not seen as disingenuous in their eyes, though, it's biologically driven, they are far beyond consciously aware of their nature. They have no natural impetus to cultivate an honourable identity, so therefore, no reason to embrace a more dignified existence or operate with sincerity and earnestness. They see no value in suffering nor overcoming obstacles. Why should they -- when they can choose to circumvent any obstacle no matter how arduous.

Women don't want to have to toil for what they feel they deserve. The notion of merely feeling like they deserve something (partner of significant attractiveness/status) is good enough reason to sanction their desire becoming reality, in their eyes.

Men see their goals at the end of a long dimly lit tunnel. And find ways to light up the tunnel as they walk down it. Men accept that there will be unforeseen obstacles and perils in between their initial start point and end point of the tunnel and relish in the journey. Once they obtain the achievement, reach the end point, acquire their success they can then bask in the glory of accomplishment, and understand that without the dedicated approach to the path of most resistance, they would not have got to where they are.

Women do not operate with the same rationale, and feel this process is unnecessary. Why put yourself through the drudgery? They are risk averse -- they have to be. It's biologically hardwired in females to not take risks. It's illogical when you are a carer of offspring, and only makes sense to take a path of most assurance.

Men bask in the gruelling and difficult stages of the journey, they appreciate the vigor necessary to succeed and honour the hardship, acknowledge that they will not reach the other end of the tunnel unscathed. But the notion of reaching the target, whatever it may be, is enough of a motivating force. The regimen and discipline involved in the work leading up to what the goal happens to be is exhilarating and men get satisfaction from this, and see happiness not as an inherent right -- rather a warranted reward for their due diligence.

This is where the ideologies differ on a base level. As I said, merely desiring something is enough of reason for women to feel as though they deserve it, deserve to experience the peak experience while enduring no labor in exchange. They don't see the journey as essential in acquiring whatever the source of desire is, whatever form it comes in. Be it a top-percentile boyfriend, or a palatial living space. Females don't enjoy the regimen, they feel lethargic at the mere thought of discipline. They're much more accommodating of immediate and easily accessible happiness, than a long drawn out one. And feel they have a right to happiness without experiencing the peaks and troughs; they feel like the troughs are optional and not necessary to experience the peaks.

Seeing as the askmen crowd are even putting two and two together we are well aware that a man's performance throughout the relationship (from initial meeting to LTR to marriage) is all a orchestrated performance in which he leads from day 1 to day Z. This means you've got to keep on top of your performance. Hone your lines, and be well-versed in the script.

Conclusion

As a man, you must not just accept that your role is to endure hardship and that your life is similar to the allegory of Camus' The Myth of Sisyphus -- you must embrace it. Bathe in the unrelenting difficulty of life, reach your objectives and vault your obstacles, and realise the tunnel (point B), is not a choice; you must walk the terrain in between (point A and point C). And relish it. For it will allow great character to develop which you will need to cultivate over the years.

Remember, women opt for the path of least resistance. Men need to willfully choose the path of most resistance. Because of this axiom you need to bear the weight of responsibility on your own back. Women cannot be held responsible for their own culpability, and will use deniable culpability to evade any awkwardness that may present itself. In LTRs and marriages also note that vocalising your issues and woes to your female counterpart is a perilous game, but more crucially self-destructive. Women don’t want to hear you moaning about your plight, or the challenges you face, they want you to move any obstacle in your way -- with finesse. It conveys your functionality as an apex partner. Moaning connotes your dysfunctionality and renders you an unfit mate.