We are MGTOW. Focus on becoming better MEN, not just talking about women.

executedigging · 2017-09-29T22:32:11+00:00

Then do it. I apologize for being harsh, but this is exactly what women do: They complain about something in the hopes on getting other people to do it. If you want more posts on self improvement, then do some research and make some. I would welcome them.

justforpornokayguys · 2017-09-29T21:58:21+00:00

I've been on this sub for a little over a year now. From what I can tell, a lot of the newer MGTOWs come here to find support or stories that confirm the nature of women. A lot of the veteran MGTOWs have already found the support they needed and have moved on. They are actually living the MGTOW lifestyle but don't really feel the need to post about it or the nature of women.

Edit: I do agree that we need less "women are shit" posts, and more "male improvement" posts. Maybe a mentorship kinda thing or sponsor a younger MGTOW thing.

Dude1000001 · 2017-09-29T22:07:22+00:00

Been MGTOW since 2003. Just found this sub a week ago. It's awesome to know I'm not alone.

2017-09-29T21:37:17+00:00

Exactly. I don't see anything wrong with laughing at women or cucks every now and then, but at the end of the day we are going our own way, so we need to keep focusing on self improvement and what we want in life. Could make some interesting talking points.

imPwP · 2017-09-30T00:02:58+00:00

there are 34,XXX subscribers here. When I originally came to this subredit, there were less than 10,xxx (as a lurker).

So, invariably, you will see people who are ranting, angry, venting, and sharing experiences regarding women, seeing as that is a CENTRAL aspect of why mgtow exists - leaving relationships with women. This will seem repetitive, but it's not, it's a different person, a different story, with a common theme.

This is like coming to a car forum and asking people to stop talking about tools, or garages, or racing, or maintenance and focus on good places to drive to or something. Maybe just WRITE the post you want to see and stop telling other people what their posts should be like.

Why do people insist on coming here and complaining about the content? Stop trying to control things. Stop trying to control what people think and want to talk about.

TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.

imPwP · 2017-09-29T22:48:11+00:00

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sonic1101 · 2017-09-30T01:46:06+00:00

Vote this bitch down to oblivion.

Fussbus · 2017-09-30T01:18:51+00:00

Fuck off. I don't believe you are genuinely spending any real amount of time on this sub at all. This EXACT statement is brought up almost once per week and during a brigade, its like 3 times per week. The answers of the past still apply and they completely invalidate your 'concern.' There's a million self-help subs out there. Find one you like and move on.

Oh! how about reporting back and making some self help posts yourself? No? Too much work? Need dangzagnut to do it for you? plz.

Sumo94 · 2017-09-29T23:22:44+00:00

You're absolutely right. I love coming on here to find solid help for men but also like hearing stories about men's interactions with women. Balance is key.

2017-09-29T23:37:23+00:00

I say it's like work and play. Becoming better men is the work, laughing at women and cucks is the play

2017-09-30T05:51:49+00:00

Now hold on everyone.

Let's not even think about going into segregation mode. We need these stories about shitty women.

Can't tell ya how many times I've had a moment of weakness and reactivated my POF account, only to hop on this Reddit and immediately shut it down again because you guys saved me.

Let's keep up the women posts, while encouraging more men-life-update posts and giving them good attention.

If we strictly shut off women posts, we'll generate the "New Coke effect", and many will be dissatisfied. Make the best of both worlds and let us remain united, brothers!

2017-09-29T23:31:39+00:00

The problem is there is only one thing we all agree on: female behavior is shit and we're sidestepping the trap that society tries to lead men to. All paths neccessarily diverge at that point because the fork is all we have in common.

You could always write up what cool shit you're doing now that you are GYOW, or what helped/helps you enjoy the lifesyle. Real life MGTOW stories I think would be well received. After all, we are rejecting the life framework society handed us, it's now on us as individuals to build another one for ourselves

scaur · 2017-09-30T00:02:41+00:00

This forum is split into rage for newer men who are confused why this happened to them and part making fun of women for healing process.

Men who accepted is for what it is and moved onto acceptance either stopped posting of come here and read funny stuff.

BreathGenie · 2017-09-30T00:45:31+00:00

I'm a perfect man, even with my flaws. I was born that way.

Original_Username7 · 2017-09-30T02:00:42+00:00

THANK YOU! Edit: After reading comments, this is what I would ask for - more of a focus on the aspects/ways of enjoying the solo man lifestyle. We really do have a great/unique life with lots of opportunities, and seeing more of the benefits of this lifestyle that we as MGTOW are able to achieve over our enslaved brethren would be awesome. But I get the fact that this is a hospital too, to help guys break out of the blue pill mindset. But once you've broken free, the emphasis on women starts to get a little tired.

TakeYourDailyDose · 2017-09-30T04:22:17+00:00

Personally, I'm fine with MGTOW sharing examples of gynocentrism and even 'politically incorrect' jokes about women because there's nowhere else where they CAN be shared. In regards to becoming a better man, the sidebar has some useful links already, and it's something each man has to learn for himself in the long run. In some cases, /r/theredpill has better self-help threads if you ignore the myopic focus on getting laid.

forgetmarriage · 2017-09-30T05:19:08+00:00

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2017-09-30T05:57:58+00:00

The discovery of awalt binds us and constantly reinforces why we went our own way in the first place. I get you want more self improvement content and that's fine, to me, awalt stories are a form of self improvement as it constantly reminds me of the true nature of women and to never go back to the plantation which is, in itself a form of improvement, if that made any sense.

Fussbus · 2017-09-29T23:54:59+00:00

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2017-09-30T00:32:22+00:00

Just let it evolve and participate as you see fit.

rtk42 · 2017-09-30T01:22:48+00:00

Problem with self help on reddit....is that posts are easily lost in time. Blog it....then link to it here

2017-09-30T01:39:05+00:00

Agreed.

2017-09-30T03:11:27+00:00

sometime's bitching about women and speaking on their innate flaws helps men ..... in fact in most cases it does. men need to know how wretched and wicked these cunts are. how they're incapable of love and will destroy you if you let them become too entrenched in your life. put another way ..... how about you stop telling men what they can and cannot bitch about,okay? the most enlightening thing to speak about IS how dangerous these cunts are.

calibanister · 2017-09-30T03:13:03+00:00

I don't necessarily mind posts like you talk about. Good for a few chuckles here and there. I think a lot on this sub already know which direction we want to take our lives. Sure, more posts about how we can help ourselves achieve these things would be cool. I'm open to all content posted and glad there's a sub with like minded people.

2017-09-30T03:26:13+00:00

Agreed. There's a lot of angry souls here who are more interested in spewing vitriol about women rather than getting themselves to where they want to be.

Keyhre · 2017-09-30T05:33:28+00:00

It's a nice passtime to be interested in how these gender politics and general society is. There's also people who need to vent their red pill rage which is a healthy part of the process.

But your post is an important one. Different people will be at different stages, don't want to get stuck somewhere that moving forward with your own awesome projects and motivations becomes compromised.

bacare · 2017-09-30T05:39:36+00:00

I've been MGTOW for...16 years now, I'm not even sure MGTOW existed when i figured it out. I generally don't talk about my life, wymin react as expected, men generally disbelieve me.

I do answer questions when asked, but i'm not going to put myself on blast just so you can emulate me, that's not what "it's" about.

the endless complaining about wymin is what we all need to hear (at first) in order to realize that WE ARE NOT WRONG. after that it's just plain entertaining to watch everyone else shrug off the spell cast on us by our mothers.

the advice i give is different for each person, if you haven't been burnt to badly yet, i might help you be chad, i might not, depends on you.

TLDR if you want advice ask questions, we're not here to hold your hand.

Scrab22 · 2017-09-30T06:05:38+00:00

Declaring yourself a man means you already sexualize your personality. So instead, I offer being a better PERSON

Gmiou · 2017-09-30T06:23:56+00:00

Totally agree guys!

imPwP · 2017-09-30T19:24:17+00:00

Read the EDIT I just posted. All you peeps who are trying to 'bring me down' or shame me by calling me a mangina or shit like that, calm the fuck down and understand this:

MGTOW is Men Going Their Own Way - not Men Just Bitching Every Day
Yes there is no ONE specific way - but we can do more than JUST Bitch
Examples would be the post that I recently saw regarding war heroes, one of whom said "he really enjoyed the war" - something that would give us confidence and role models
READ the title and the summary of the post.

imPwP · 2017-09-30T19:26:55+00:00

WHO THE FUCK IS SAYING NO TO SHAMING? I AM SAYING LET'S DO MORE THAN JUST SHAMING. FUCKING CALM DOWN.

2017-09-30T19:56:03+00:00

pulled the OP down. took a bit too much flak over the land of pissoffistan.

Title	We are MGTOW. Focus on becoming better MEN, not just talking about women.
Author	imPwP
Upvotes	117
Comments	61
Date	September 29, 2017 9:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/73awzm/we_are_mgtow_focus_on_becoming_better_men_not/
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