Coping with solitude?

guccivibes · 2018-05-18T03:02:12+00:00

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LuigiC173 · 2018-05-18T03:12:44+00:00

find hobbies and pursue them routinely on off days. In winter I ice skate three times a week and ski as much as possible. Now warmer weather here it's rollerblading, softball, and biking. Read books stay away from television do not waste your precious time. You're 21, the concept of time will accelerate as you get into your later twenties. I enjoy my booze on Saturday nights with the boys but that is only day I drink all work days and other day off no intake but that's just me now at 28, at 21 I was a far heavier consumer. Please have any car you buy inspected by legit mechanic before purchase. Keep saving $, learn to cook some staple meals try to do that more all meals at home then eating out which costs far far more. You really want to save seriously make all your food at home or at least 90% of it you will see.

KingZwack · 2018-05-18T03:25:21+00:00

A bit older than you, probably a rather different lifestyle too, have been living the MGTOW way for a long time though and this helps me...

I've settled into a routine over time where I frequent local businesses. I go to the same coffeeshop on Tuesday and Thursday, breakfast at a little diner on Saturdays, and my favorite dive for a beer or two on Sunday evenings. There is a taco shop and pho joint I frequent, otherwise I cook all my own food and live a very minimalist lifestyle.

Over time a first name basis with the employees developed and they're almost like family now.

Another option, if you're looking for extra work, is to start tending bar a couple nights each week. Service industry people are networked like crazy and treat eachother well (for the most part).

Flintblood · 2018-05-18T03:22:14+00:00

When your over 30 it’s harder to meet new chill friends and wing mates who are single. Men like us need some meetup like options for finding like-minded mates to hang with.

HorusEyeDrops · 2018-05-18T08:25:55+00:00

On off days I chase hobby goals.

Drive 8 hours to see an Avenged seven fold/Alice in chains concert. Pick up the violin some more. Unlock BF3 achievements. Go for a run in the park. Watch some old, non-SJW movies.

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-05-18T03:33:53+00:00

Hangin out with some good friends is always good. I tried to be in denial about the importance of friendships but we are social creatures. Of course there are exceptions, but apparently I'm not one of them.

Idk, I'm addicted to the internet during my free time. I also pursue some of my various interests

boisdevie · 2018-05-18T08:44:12+00:00

When I'm not working I have hobbies - snowboarding, running, camping, fishing, canoeing etc. I don't have time to get bored.

owninfools007 · 2018-05-18T11:36:48+00:00

I have no off days, unless I take a vacation. I work everyday, it keeps my mind busy from women and alcohol...sort of. Besides that I run, cycle, ride my motorcycle, watch movies, Xbox, anything really. Since I was a child my parents were always working so being alone was the norm. Now it’s amazing and fits with the lifestyle. I would say try new things?

Title	Coping with solitude?
Author	guccivibes
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	May 18, 2018 3:00 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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