Fucked GF for 3 years and now she's withholding sex because she wants to "wait until marriage". I told her if she wanted to wait until marriage for sex I'd rather marry a virgin. I pressed her about her past and now she's revealed many red flags:
- 6 months before me she had a year long relationship with a Chad who was going to school to become some kind of military officer. She knew Chad was cheating on her with multiple women because she'd find condoms missing at his apartment yet she didn't break up with him. She admitted he was funny, attractive and very selfish in bed.
After a year together he graduated and moved back home several states away.
This dude was spinning plates while going to school and had a LTR back home he'd go back to.
When this dude moved back home my GF paid for her own flight to go see him on a weekend. The relationship only ended once the dude's LTR searched his phone and contacted my GF about his cheating. side note: turns out Chad's LTR was out of the country when my GF visited him, that's the only reason Chad allowed her to visit his home state.
3 years later Chad marries the same LTR. She's a fucking neurosurgeon probably making $1 million a year. Chad got to fuck my GF and other girls plus keep his LTR who is a neurosurgeon. Guess it pays to be Chad.
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She admitted in the past that she paid for her own flight to go visit (fuck) a guy she had never met before. She "ended the relationship" because she didn't want to do long distance. Yet she flew to see him in the first place and fucked him.
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I asked her if she has ever swallowed for any guy - "I don't remember, I don't think so"
Ever let a guy cum in your mouth? - "Yes in past relationships".
She's only let me cum in her mouth once. In the shower. Now that I know she's done it in the past many times, her answer about doing it during marriage? "Maybe".
Women are a fucking joke. They will let Chad cheat. They will pay for their own flight to fuck Chad. They will let Chad do whatever they want in bed.
Yet to the guy they want to marry they come up with all kinds of excuses. "I want to wait until marriage for sex". "I'm not in the mood for oral sex". "I'm too tired for sex". "I'm too stressed for sex".
Its been said here before: women are on autopilot for their entire life until they hit the wall and realize their eggs are drying up and they need to lock down a beta bux to have kids with.
Soon to be ex turns 38 next month. She even told me this week "when I met you at age 35 I was at my peak". She knows her looks are fading fast. She's asian and exercises so she has a nice ass but weighs 20 lbs heavier than when we met.
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yet they will demand marriage and what do they bring the the table?
A dry worn out vagina.
A list of things they liked doing in bed with Chad but won't do with you.
Many fond memories of how unique Chad was and how you will never compare.
Mark my words: MGTOW will be a banned subreddit someday.
More men are realizing what's the point in marrying a woman who fucked away her best years to other men.
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I can see this happening. GF has said
I can totally picture marrying her then she divorcing me after 7 years so she can go fly out and fuck another Chad again. Then she would get alimony plus child support while fucking another man.
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Thanks for your advice. I make $70k a year now and will make $170k in 4 years once done with grad school so I have a good life ahead. No interest in being divorce raped by an Alpha Widow
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Does this sub hate Chads? Because Chads are men too. I agree with a lot of things this sub has to say but it seems that if you're a Chad, you won't have a lot of those problems. Women still have the same behaviour but when you're a Chad you're not on the receiving end of the worst of it.
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A recent fuck buddy told me that she'd stop blowing me if I committed.
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Who cares?
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I'm living with her in a huge house pretty much rent free.
My plan is to move out once grad school starts next summer but that means dealing with 8 months of being cucked.
Not sure if that's even worth saving $6k
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She said she would "cut it off" if I ever cheated. Yet she trickle truths the story of finding missing condoms at Chads place, seeing him for a year and then flying out to see him on her own dime and only ending it once his LTR finds her on Facebook by typing in her phone number.
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Have to admit, you're right. One of the best fucks with least bullshit was a 23 year old girl. I'd come over, we'd watch a movie then fuck and go to sleep. No drama. No bullshit.
I had a secret vasectomy at age 23.
I could marry her and she can pay for all my bullshit during 3 years of grad school then divorce her and she'd owe me some alimony.
Problem is she could cheat on me or get a sperm donor and have a child then I'd be stuck with child support.
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thanks for your post and you're so fucking right it hurts.
I'm just glad the mask came off before I was duped into marrying her.
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She isn't withholding sex for any reason other than she isn't attracted to you. This girl doesn't like you but you seem willing to hang around so she is tolerating you until marriage. Get the fuck away from her
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she's a first gen immigrant, came here with nothing from Vietnam at age 13. She worked in the nail salon then came home and cooked for all ~15 people living under one roof. She got a chemical engineering degree then switched and got a nurse practitioner degree and makes nearly $100k. She claims 6 previous partners and lost her virginity at age 26 but I get a bad feeling in my stomach that she is fudging her N count.
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That's what worries me.
She KNEW Chad was cheating on her yet allowed the relationship to go on for a full year. Even flew to his house after he moved away on her own dime. It only ended once Chads neurosurgeon fiancé called my GF and said he's cheating.
She told me if she ever found out I cheated she would "cut it off".
She would do anything for Chad but not those things for me, what a fucking joke.
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Lol what a fucking joke. Those same women will then be fucking desperate to lock down a beta bux once they can no longer attract Chad.
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you have to break up with her, man. i've been in your situation and the contempt never goes away.
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