Ever notice that the more MGTOW your mindset, the more women become attracted to you

Asphyxiem · 2018-04-05T15:47:20+00:00

If you pretend you’re broke, unemployed and wear work boots, it’s like wearing a magic invisibility cloak around women.

allala93 · 2018-04-05T15:39:57+00:00

I have not noticed this at all. If anything, i am more keenly aware of the degree that women are not attracted to me. I am just closer to indifferent about it.

Xein · 2018-04-05T15:46:47+00:00

Haven't noticed it at all. I am indifferent to them and they are indifferent toward me.

I'm probably just not chadly enough, which used to bother me. But I don't give a shit anymore.

SimplyKaz · 2018-04-05T15:42:50+00:00

I've definitely noticed it. They want what they can't have, and they feel entitled to any man they choose because they're used to betas bending over backwards and paying $$$$ for a chance of a high five. Coming across a man that couldn't give two shits will make them go crazy and it portrays a higher smv

User-31f64a4e · 2018-04-05T17:24:54+00:00

This is because to a woman, MGTOW looks like alpha male.

Not giving a fuck is the same attitude that will be exhibited by a man who is, as the PUAs say, "spinning a bunch of plates." He doesn't care if he fucks a particular woman or not, because he is already getting plenty.
MGTOW don't kowtow to or worship women, so we also don't give a fuck.
The woman has no idea that it is (comparatively rare) MGTOW that makes you act the way you do. She misinterprets it as you being Chad Thundercock.

You probably also exhibit amused mastery in dealing with women.

Phantom_Spark · 2018-04-05T15:56:36+00:00

To be more precise, I think MGTOW magnifies who you are. If you’re already a decent attractive guy... MGTOW brings it out even more.

Also because you’re not interested you start wondering why women go out of their way to do anything nice. They display simp qualities when you never showed any interest. LOL

Turtlphant · 2018-04-05T16:12:04+00:00

they're like cats.

if you pay them attention, they dont see you as a threat so they ignore you cause fuck you.

if you ignore them, they gotta warm up to you so they feel that you then like them, which makes them feel secure.

Ebrg · 2018-04-05T15:42:12+00:00

Its because you are not needy and women pick up on that.

DrScott88 · 2018-04-05T18:26:19+00:00

My sisters best friend (hot friend) told me she’d suck my dick like no one has ever sucked it if i shaved my beard.

Hell no i told her

It drove her insane

My sister says it’s because no man has ever said no to her

XxRandomguyxX · 2018-04-05T16:36:11+00:00

Nope, I'm basically a ghost to them. I'm niether attractive or "creepy" (unnattractive) so there isnt a reason for them to care.

As long as I can work with them when needed (group projects and stuff) then its not a concern to me. So far its not been a problem.

Treeclimber3 · 2018-04-05T18:45:20+00:00

Yeah. I'm not as MGTOW as some (I still have women in my life I consider friends), and generally they're pretty chill until they bring up me "still" being single, then they a) start getting handsy, or b) try to convince me to let them set me up.

Aside from the typical feminine trait of needlessly involving themselves in others' affairs, it seems to me that they take it as personal offense when a man isn't interested in dating not just them in particular, but any woman. And I think they take it as a challenge, to either make a conquest of the solitary man, or to hook him up with someone so they can get that gloating satisfaction that they "knew" him before he knew himself.

2018-04-05T19:19:46+00:00

Don't notice - don't care.

2018-04-05T20:03:21+00:00

It's because women love manly men, and theres nothing more manly than mgtow

ctlaltcmd · 2018-04-05T21:19:13+00:00

I can't notice anything they do or feel, because I completely ignore them.

Sol_Install · 2018-04-05T16:50:34+00:00

Unless you are generally average or unattractive, withdrawal does not work. Afterall women don't care if you aren't good enough in their eyes. The only small chance that it happens is if they personaly find it offensive that such an ugly man would refuse her. But if you're decent, they'll notice.

1v1crown · 2018-04-05T19:52:54+00:00

I think it's just the curiosity factor. They are like "how is this guy available?"

2018-04-05T21:00:00+00:00

I used to be real happy with my new found powers in women showing obvious interest in me after I really became MGTOW. Now it’s hard because all I want to do is to be left alone, and they seem to come at me from all directions and cause me many temptations.

delta9mm · 2018-04-05T22:27:58+00:00

I didn't attract women before mgtow and I sure as hell don't attract women during mgtow.

lolklolkgf · 2018-04-05T23:17:30+00:00

I see it as nature trying to get you back in line. Fuck nature.

2018-04-06T00:46:25+00:00

Strange because I've always been invisible to everybody ~ even platonic (meaning normal friendship) relationships with people of the same gender.

Maybe you guys can't relate but all the friends I had I met them off the internet since 1996 or so. Everyone else in my life have been acquaintances and users at best. As soon as I left the class or the job then I often never saw those people again. Same thing when I met people on vacation but they would never try to follow up by coming to my country.

I had some FWBs but these women wouldn't even let me meet their family or even their friends. I guess they were too ashamed to let me meet anyone they knew.

Even when I dress nice people still ignore me. Not sure why people think strongly about the clothing argument. Clothing doesn't fix pure ugly and other issues I give off to people ~ neither does a new Lamborghini or a luxury house people will never walk into.

I think I had to go to a specific coffee shop like 40 times before the workers there even gave me the courtesy of being a human being. Meanwhile a Chad of a Tiffany only has to go 1 time, they can be rude to the staff too, and they get worshiped by everybody.

2018-04-05T16:54:42+00:00

Nope. Says more about you.

2018-04-05T20:42:57+00:00

A wise old man once told me "Act like you are broke, dress like you are broke-- nobody will bother you" Worked great!

I am a t-shirt and shorts kinda guy. 24/7. I don't need to dress up to impress anyone as their view of me is a non-issue.

2018-04-05T17:24:29+00:00

Actually not giving a shit makes it really easy to lead women on and then once they press for info/smiles you can let them know that you really don't care by letting the one speck of attention you gave them drift into indifference. The hamster wheel goes spinning off into another dimension.

dot_dot_beep · 2018-04-05T19:15:51+00:00

Who gives a fuck what they're attracted to. By the time you're a legit mgtow, you smart enough to avoid relationships with them. All you see is how much the bitch is costing you.

-Mavs · 2018-04-05T21:53:52+00:00

Yeah, but could just be because am good looking.

I walked out of the employee cafeteria, then 2 blondes (with tattoos) follow me after they held a fake conversation with a male coworker.

I feel like shit today so I said nothing as they followed me to the time clock to return from lunch.

One of the blonde is Petite and looks prime for a bouncing.

MGTOWAmerican · 2018-04-05T23:23:54+00:00

Everything above is correct. Be a gentleman always. You know how women are but don’t hold it against them. They can’t help it. The word “NO” is the most offensive word in the dictionary to a woman. Stand your ground and be a MGTOW American.

DoccSampson · 2018-04-05T23:54:47+00:00

I find, since I went MGTOW I'm just in my own zone all the time. Focused, quiet, observant. Indifferent to women as women. When they see men like that, as is their nature, they try to find a way to pry their way inside. Figure you out. Once they do, they've "conquered" you in a way, and they don't care anymore. GYOW. Never let women conquer you.

UnimatrixBinary · 2018-04-06T04:42:50+00:00

That's because women constantly want what they can not have, which is why they are never satisfied.

When they finally get a guy who's 6ft0 they immediately start hunting for a guy who's taller than 6ft0, then they get one who's 6ft2 and start hunting for another who's taller than 6ft2, rinse and repeat.

Women are never happy, never satisfied, always hungry.

2018-04-05T17:11:31+00:00

Not at all.

But in your case, I think by being MGTOW you are not paying attention to any possible rejection from women and thus it makes you feel like you are not being rejected.

Global_MGTOW · 2018-04-05T18:28:43+00:00

The less attention I pay to women, the more interested they seem. I don't treat women like they're magical special beings, I treat them like I would any random guy. Some are initially taken a back but seem to like it and think I'm teasing them or flirting with them. Helps that I'm somewhat attractive, or so I'm told.

2018-04-05T20:22:31+00:00

Nope. Same level of attraction maintained throughout.

2018-04-05T20:56:24+00:00

who gives a shitfuck about them bitch hoes

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-04-05T17:59:43+00:00

They do if they don't think you're a tfl'er

mountain_anchorite · 2018-04-05T22:33:32+00:00

You have to care about them to notice that they are attracted to you, and I don't care and hence cannot notice.

BooDoug · 2018-04-05T23:40:40+00:00

The Matrix knows, so it send out the honey trap to lure you back into the MATRIX!

Helikzhan · 2018-04-05T23:44:10+00:00

Women dislike orbiters. If she can have you easy some hamster wiring in her mind blocks you out as a potential fuck.

Women always need to see strength. To see that you aren't going to fold to anyone. Not her not anyone. Of course that means facing a possible rape charge.

Just fuck sex dolls. It's a lot less complicated.

2018-04-05T23:51:42+00:00

When you go MGTOW, you automatically think about personal achievement and success. More success, more money, women’s attention.

2018-04-06T01:22:30+00:00

Yeah, this sub is full of women fawning over men...

Ebrg · 2018-04-05T16:17:54+00:00

I haven't notice, is it because I'm a full on mgtow while you're a "sorta" mgtow?

You're almost there! You can do it!

the2xstandard · 2018-04-06T01:00:26+00:00

I only find that as I get older the sexual marketplace turns upside down. The same women who ignored you in college to be with Chad are now starting to notice that you really have your shit together. A nasty side effect of focusing on improving your finances, fitness, and hobbies is that you become more attractive to women. Especially since most of the Chads are now off the market, to your average post wall you're now a nice consolation prize. You can bask in it and try to grab as much of that easy subprime pussy as you can, but I prefer to just ignore them and go my own way. They didn't want me then, and I certainly don't want them and all their baggage now.

Captain-Akash · 2018-04-06T01:52:21+00:00

Yes.... I am also experiencing it.

AncapGhxst · 2018-04-06T04:07:35+00:00

No because once I start to not seek it out then I don't find any women.

Teflon0819 · 2018-04-06T04:36:48+00:00

It's the same "IDGAF" concept that TRP teaches. The difference of course being that TRP guys are generally faking it while continuing to pursue women, whereas MGTOW men genuinely don't care.

Women are constantly barraged with attention from men, which gives them the vibe that they're a prize to be won. When they encounter a man that doesn't seem to care it intrigues them because he's sending a signal that to him, they are not the prize they think they are. Add in the rules of hypergamy and it explains why women are attracted to indifference.

ShrunkenHed · 2018-04-06T07:26:00+00:00

Saturn9999 · 2018-04-06T08:32:47+00:00

Just look poor and you are invisible to everybody. People dont give fuck about you but what you can give them.

charmedpig · 2018-04-06T06:16:55+00:00

@OP yes and it sucks! I get into zen periods where I don't care about sex or even masturbating. The times I'm totally cool with life are when flirtations get more aggressive.

I-am-the-lul · 2018-04-06T08:30:55+00:00

What the OP is noticing is that when a reasonably attractive man no longer exhibits a thirsty vibe due to the fact that he has internalized the truth that women are not wonderful, paradoxically he now carries himself more like a natural Chad which can trigger attraction in some women.

PUA and TRP men know that if you can fake the Chad vibe(which he radiates as a side-effect of sexual abundance) you will increase your chances of attracting women and thus getting your dick moisturized, a MGTOW who becomes indifferent to women will give off a similar vibe as an accidental consequence.

2018-04-06T13:57:34+00:00

absolutely. They want what they can’t get.

swapnilsathe1 · 2018-08-12T02:57:33+00:00

The absolute truth is that you need to follow your ONE dream and give everything to achieve it. Love, happiness, family, social life, EVERYTHING is hot garbage.

Title	Ever notice that the more MGTOW your mindset, the more women become attracted to you
Author	wlknther3
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Date	April 5, 2018 3:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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