MGTOW called gay?

MobTilliDie · 2017-07-14T17:44:10+00:00

My sisters friend tried dem shaming tactic you know calling me gay and all that. I stood up with a hurt look on my face, farted loudly, and continued watching Crime and Investigation.

4everaloneinlife · 2017-07-14T17:00:37+00:00

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pleasantlyplumpy · 2017-07-14T17:52:27+00:00

"I think i'd rather be called a flaming homo, rather than enslaving myself to a worthless hole."

icydays34 · 2017-07-14T17:04:50+00:00

Respond by going your own way.

shimenki · 2017-07-14T17:06:33+00:00

That's ok.

What that means is that the quality and power of the MGTOWs presence has threatened and caused astral energy bleedout as evidenced by their distressed action.

Just reach out with a tendril of awareness or your left hand and drink in all that delicious -offered up energy :D

jblack94 · 2017-07-14T19:05:04+00:00

I don't even think gay is an insult nowadays

letsbecomegreat · 2017-07-14T17:43:28+00:00

It's the norm. First you get "you hate women". Then you get "what are you a fag?". Then they might suggest "you only need to find the right woman". Etc etc

ZebChristov · 2017-07-14T17:21:43+00:00

Well an archaic meaning for gay is happy, so they are not wrong.

Cheveyo · 2017-07-14T19:23:45+00:00

"Is there something wrong with being gay?"

That'll catch most of them off guard, and they'll be on the defensive. They'll response with a 'no' or 'I never said there was something wrong with it'.

"Then why are you treating being gay as an insult?"

They'll try to deny it, but just mention that they tried using homosexuality as an insult for you.

sadbasturd99 · 2017-07-14T17:24:53+00:00

Women wont ask me if I am gay but they will show me a picture of a beautiful girl and as me if I want to date her. And say that they will get her number for me. Then I say sure I would date her. Of course the girl in the picture then says no. I don't know if there was ever a girl in the picture but I know I am being tested for gay.

ColdStoryBro · 2017-07-14T18:42:51+00:00

"No, but I do have a single gay friend if your're interested"

Slaide · 2017-07-14T17:20:40+00:00

If you NEED to give them an answer (as to not create issues for yourself and others), simply tell them that you are unquestionably heterosexual, but that you have severe relationship anxiety issues. And thus, for health reasons, you rather not inflict pain and frustration on yourself which will result to frustration and stress for others.

This answer is the most "touchy feely" while making you appear empathetic to the plight of the dumb cunts. Remember, the whores are never accountable for anything (a woman has ZERO capacity for accountability). Thus, the best way to deal with cunts and blue pill simps, is to appear like you're saying that you're the problem.

New_User1984 · 2017-07-14T17:25:06+00:00

Ignore them. Letting them know it bothers you will only reinforce in their minds they are correct.

andreas-mgtow · 2017-07-14T19:17:01+00:00

Not gay. Just lucky, I guess.

http://archive.is/UKlY1

HeroicCunt · 2017-07-14T19:17:18+00:00

I would say nothing, smile and go back to doing my own thing. Don't explain, that's beta behaviour.

AlanSixx · 2017-07-14T21:07:20+00:00

People think I am gay all the time. I neither confirm or deny it because really that isn't their business and it doesn't matter at all. I usually just laugh and keep changing the subject. It really pisses them off.

Major_Motoko · 2017-07-14T19:14:32+00:00

As with any insult try to hide the sly smile that should be on your face because any attack on your character means you are worthy of such tactics.

Your mere presence is enough to get under their skin. In a way it is flattering, and also a mix of pity for your attacker.

When you reach this level of satisfaction and resilience no one can bring you down.

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2017-07-14T23:13:20+00:00

Isn't it like ultra awesome to be considered gay nowadays? That is a protected class with rights. Heterosexual men are not protected and have no rights.

Fussbus · 2017-07-15T02:29:58+00:00

It's not important how you respond. What's important is that you don't give a shit.

sweet_samsara · 2017-07-14T20:50:17+00:00

It's disrespect, really.

At work -- tell HR first, and then nicely ask them to stop. If they keep doing it, tell HR again. Family, ask them to stop, if they don't respect you, start cutting ties. Friends? Same.

nocivo · 2017-07-14T17:24:44+00:00

Aren't the gays called brave man from most ppl? Take it as a compliment. Say thanks and move on. No more words are needed.

exit-stage-right2 · 2017-07-14T17:33:17+00:00

Okay, that works.

2017-07-14T18:08:58+00:00

"So what?"

I don't get mad at the birds chirping, or squirrels climbing about. It's simply what they do, and I'd be wasting my time and energy trying to thwart them.

The same goes for small-minded people gossiping and being unable to grasp my words.

DWShimoda · 2017-07-14T18:34:23+00:00

If it's a DIRECT (in your face) statement, then "smacking back" is always fun, and depends on just how snarky you want to be...

"Sadly, No..."

is one option, similarly

"I wish, it would probably be a blast!"

But if it's simply "behind your back" insinuation rumors... then who really gives a fuck? About the only pertinent point there is to recognize that if it is your "friends" who are engaging in that... well, obviously they're NOT really "friends" at all. (IOW you need new/different friends.)

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2017-07-14T18:41:56+00:00

Considering the ones calling us that are feminists and manginas who gives a fuck what they think? Their opinion means less than the dogshit on my shoe.

2017-07-14T18:46:35+00:00

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NietzscheExplosion · 2017-07-14T20:28:49+00:00

Say yes I am and get big money big prizes.

FractalPrism · 2017-07-14T22:12:57+00:00

you dont, or you agree "yep, flaming queermo here" (assuming its a girl bothering you) so they leave you be.

2017-07-14T23:07:20+00:00

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stoopididoit · 2017-07-15T00:06:21+00:00

The only time any such nonsense might deserve a response would be when it involved someone whom I respected, whose opinion would matter to me. That's a short fucking list (for me anyway). I doubt this would ever be an issue with those people anyway.

RafiqueAdzam · 2017-07-15T00:33:55+00:00

I've been called gay too. I posted that women are over rated in a subreddit. Many people called me a gay person. I think gays are more likely to gain MGTOW knowledge anyways because they are not influenced by women therefore see the bullshit of a man-woman relationship. But I think the reason why I was called a gay was because they wanted to shame and make me angry for offending them or seriously challenging their notions on female.

2017-07-15T00:49:23+00:00

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StillLifeWithBacon · 2017-07-15T01:08:44+00:00

I embrace any and all rumours about being gay. I. Don't. Give. A. Fuck. Anything to keep my interaction time with females close to nil.

PillowCastLongShadow · 2017-07-15T01:39:05+00:00

My past responses:

I'm gay.

I hate all women and hope they burn.

Too busy building a bomb. (not recommended)

Just not interested.

Are you saying you're interested?

Are you talking to me?

Were you expecting an answer?

Give me a sec I have to think of a juicy lie.

What's your name again?

Why are we friends?

My responses to old friends(men and women) and family. They know my primary language is Sarcasm and so these all worked. Your mileage may vary.

manzone22 · 2017-07-15T01:55:09+00:00

I would just smile and give them a wink and carry on doing what I am doing and if they try and push it more start saying random things like "Why yes i do like to keep my hair short at the back to keep my head cool"

pmgtow · 2017-07-15T03:12:21+00:00

I haven't been in this situation because I haven't been surrounding myself with shitty people.

A rumor about it, let people think what they want who cares. Most people probably won't think your gay. They might be curious.

The way I've justified a lot of basically not dealilng with women is the fact i've fucked 17 of them. So if theoretically I was ever pressed, i'd just say I essentially dont spend time because i've alreay been there and done that and the result is that it's just not going to happen or work for me.

knxguy · 2017-07-15T05:25:07+00:00

Good thing their opinions mean jack shit...

Otherwise they might have hurt my fragile masculinity and i would run back to the plantation ranks... /S

inspiron3000 · 2017-07-15T14:26:45+00:00

It doesn't happen and if it did it wouldn't bother me. It used to happen and it affected me.
Now I longer spend time with people who take interest in my sexual preferences.

In rage mode, a number of responses could be tried:
Physical assault.
Shame them for being homophobes.
Stare at them and question their sanity.
Report them to the police for hate speech.
Sue them for harassment.

2017-07-15T16:21:33+00:00

Stop associating myself with them?

Learn to cut people out of your life and don't be afraid to tell them why. A coworker at my last job was an asshole, but he was part of the group so was always included. After some particularly disgusting behavior on his part, I told him he's an asshole and just stopped showing up wherever he was invited.

Since some people liked me more than the group, the division of the lunches was born. Eventually most of the old group showed up to my group and Mr. Asshole only had 1-2 people who still invite him to do things.

That's just one example, but if you don't enjoy hanging around someone, then don't do it! If anyone asks, just tell them! Odds are, they feel the same way if it's bad enough.

Highly_Literal · 2017-07-18T01:35:33+00:00

Who cares what people call you..?

ZCnegan · 2017-07-18T03:37:06+00:00

TEll them you are a muslim, and that is a grave sin in islam. If they keep joking, annoy the fuck out of them by trying to convert them.

KingFuJulien · 2017-07-14T17:11:30+00:00

cheeky/naughty - it's funny for me and confusing for them

cancele · 2017-07-14T21:29:03+00:00

Shaming and demonizing tactics I think are always good to receive. I think people are threatened easily by certain ideas, so in order to cope and rationalize to themselves, they call us gay, neckbeards, etc. It's a weak and transparent attempt on their part to try to dismiss us.

MGTOWISFREEDOM2017 · 2017-07-14T23:12:42+00:00

If one cannot be shamed "they" have no ammunition

Albacorewing · 2017-07-15T01:40:25+00:00

It is very common for women to insult like this. A good response is to ask them why are they obsessed with a man's sexuality? If this sort of thing goes on at work, and does not stop then, an HR complaint in writing is a good idea.

Title	MGTOW called gay?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	23
Comments	82
Date	July 14, 2017 4:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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"Sadly, No..."

"I wish, it would probably be a blast!"