Girl I loved hitting wall harder every day

sabby-the-boxer · 2018-04-01T22:14:19+00:00

That’s the way it goes. When you’re a man in your late teens and early-mid twenties, it’s hard to ignore all the girls around you. I was surrounded by beautiful girls in their prime, although I didn’t have much success with the cute ones in university, and it was a real blow to my confidence.

Now I occasionally see them or their photos and it is crazy how the tide turns. They are all drastically approaching the wall and trying to hide their fading looks with heavy clown makeup and they have nothing going for them since they all graduate with a ton of debt and degrees in English, history, or some other arts/humanities degree.

If I had some good male guidance and role models in my teens then I wouldn’t have put girls on a pedestal and prioritised them over real important things such as acquiring money and building my strength and fitness. Male guidance is what young men have been lacking for the past few decades but MGTOW and the red pill help overcome that.

shizlordsupreme · 2018-04-01T22:33:34+00:00

Ha story of a mans life. Nature is a cruel itch with a sadistic sense of humor.

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-02T00:19:40+00:00

Fuck these lazy Snowflakes who think my taxes should pay for their useless degrees

SologamousMonk · 2018-04-02T02:45:44+00:00

I love a good dodged-bullet story. I have multiple, but my primary one was a girl from undergrad. Painfully beautiful and everyone knew it, Hollywood-esque pretty face; svelte body. 9/10; would've been 10/10 if her tits were a bit fuller. Simped hard for her. Lose anyway to another guy. He and I almost get into physical combat over her.

Fast forward 15 years. They get married and add 9 years of grad school between them, both getting advanced humanities degrees. He goes a little further than her with piling on the degrees, so she demands kid #1 while he continues while she didn't get accepted to continue.

Something snaps. She realizes that not only is her life's purpose to be a mother but that she'll also need to be proximate to her own mother in order to fulfill this purpose. Rather than move out west and live a professorial, bohemian lifestyle, as they had planned they move into a small redneck town. She plops out nearly half a dozen kids and -- get this -- refuses to work in any capacity. Her job is being a mother to a veritable brood.

Since they are locked in place to her mother, the guy can't get any decent work, despite having not one, but two, advanced humanities degrees. He ends up taking a job way below his education level, which would've required neither degree to get. She-of-once-Hollywood good looks packs on fifty pounds as the conservative estimate, maybe as much as seventy. Hard to tell with all the Myspace angles she uses on Fuckbook. Her husband is the sole breadwinner because she refuses to work (though I'm sure their tax subsidies are considerable, so we're all paying for their income), and he doesn't have a great job, so they actually move in with her mother, his mother-in-law.

This guy, my age, who I once nearly fought, now lives in conditions that I might imagine to be Hell itself, if I were imagining Hell in a creative writing class. Now I have zero responsibilities, am fit, and am making good money with mobility (both financial and geographical). I now feel straight up sorry for this dude. What's more, this chick now private messages me every few months (they all do; keep this in mind, young guys; the girl who won't give you the time of day now in your early 20s will come back to you in her thirties, when the tables turn; they always do) telling me about how her marriage is "on the rocks" and even inviting me down to her podunk town one shady night, despite her being married. I imagine she was looking for some affection, attention, and maybe the dicking her husband can't provide anymore. I decline because she is now fat and spent.

infiniteprogress · 2018-04-01T22:26:58+00:00

I think about this wall now when I hear pink flloy

Phanekim · 2018-04-02T00:37:31+00:00

why are you arguing with her on facebook?

EducationalDentist · 2018-04-02T00:45:31+00:00

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[deleted] · 2018-04-02T03:47:19+00:00

this is better than porn

pateuvasiliu · 2018-04-02T00:14:28+00:00

School SHOULD be free. Expensive tuitions rig the game. When have you ever seen a rich kid do badly in life? When you can afford the best schools and private tuition of course your kid succeeds.

Compared to the poor guy who has to both go to uni and work to take care of his sick parents.

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-02T04:23:18+00:00

saved this thread to read with a bottle of wine after my day will be done

Yakatonker · 2018-04-02T05:33:35+00:00

I couldn't believe it and she knew how I felt, but just pretended this attraction between us it didn't exist.

She did you a massive favour being herself, as in a massive slut.

Another thing to strike down, she did not have any attraction for you. She sure as shit found your functional utility as a provider appealing, but make no mistake there was no chemistry there. This is something most men fatally assume. If there was attraction she would've been sport fucking you as well.

facepalm5000 · 2018-04-02T06:30:19+00:00

Can relate quite a bit. When I was younger, there were many attractive women that I (in a blue-pilled and very pathetic way) pursued. Results generally weren't good - so I was bitter about it ("I did everything society told me to do to impress a woman, but somehow they're still not interested, wtf!"). Now in my early 30's, many of those women are hitting the wall, and I'm over here enjoying a progressive increase in my wealth, confidence, influence and SMV over time. MGTOW -> invest in yourself.

Belrick_NZ · 2018-04-02T07:09:14+00:00

Student loans were terrible ideas.

Save up n pay not pay then pay back

robowriter · 2018-04-02T03:16:39+00:00

Keep going and in a few short years you'll have your pick of the litter, your way or the highway, if you decide you can tolerate it, or even want it.

hodltaco · 2018-04-02T13:16:14+00:00

The older you get the better/worse it gets. I married my college sweetheart back in the 80’s. She had a rack to kill for (I’m a boob man) and a body any other guy would kill for-an 11 out of 10 any day. All that and she came from major family money. Long story short, divorced in the 90’s on decent terms.

20 years later and I’m in an airport when this very excited frumpy woman was trying to get my attention. I was on a phone call and using ear buds and luckily the phone call was just ending as this woman was trying to tell me something. I pretended to still be deep into a very involved phone call. It took me a real minute of some intense thinking about who this person was. I still couldn’t place this old, chopped hair, pear shaped, puffy wrinkled face having but it was obvious she knew me so I was going to go that route. I pretended to hang up and she went to hug me and it hit at the same time. This was wife number 1. I can’t express acccurately enough the physical monster she had become. There’s more to this including word from a friend that she burned through her massive trust fund but you get the idea.

It was expensive to dodge that bullet when I did 20 years ago but it was worth every penny and then some.

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-02T00:19:51+00:00

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bugkiki · 2018-04-02T04:02:16+00:00

Just curious to know at what age you start seeing them hit the wall?

2018-04-02T07:04:31+00:00

Don’t you love how all of life’s failures turn hyper left wing.

MyFavoriteDude · 2018-04-02T09:16:39+00:00

Yeah I had a couple of girls like this too who got old and hit the wall, but the sad truth is that it still would have been very pleasurable to have had them in their prime. I never planned to marry them and sad that didn't get to date them and at least some incredible sex. So it is some consolation to see them get old and used up, but still doesn't change what I missed out on.

ozthinker · 2018-04-02T14:41:01+00:00

I don't want to ruffle any feathers but this has to be said. No bullets were fired, and OP didn't dodge anything. To believe otherwise is one massive cope.

Hypothetically, if OP was Chad enough, he and the girl would have hit up and stay together. This would have created a separate timeline in the universe. In this timeline, the girl would still probably go to college, but she would be less susceptible to negative influence at college as OP would have remained the bigger influence in her mental state. All these unsavoury events mentioned by OP would have never happened if OP and the girl were together since the beginning. They might just continue to the next stage of adult life with a nice house and a white picket fence.

The unsavoury events mentioned by OP happened because OP lives in a timeline where he didn't hit up with the girl successfully. This led to the girl being pumped and dumped by Chads repeatedly. The thing is, women become bitter after that Chads' experience, and then they become hardline ideologues. Women throwing sex at Chads for a chance to get a real relationship with Chad, but that often ends in failures. That is like men throwing money and effort at women with nothing to show for. OP didn't dodge any bullet, in fact, his failure to get the girl led to the creation of that very situation today that he wouldn't want to be part of.

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-01T23:53:26+00:00

It's great being proved right, isn't it? All the evidence is on full display.

Sumo94 · 2018-04-02T00:16:58+00:00

What kind of part-time job do you recommend when going to school?

maelggo · 2018-04-02T09:58:43+00:00

Yeap, as I read somewhere, they aren't going to go really far post-wall with degrees in "gender studies" or "critical whiteness".

Now 1 point though, I actually think school should mostly be free. Here we have virtually free universities in every field and they are of good quality, there are paying private schools too but you can study anything for free. And it's a really bad idea in my opinion to let the young generations grow debt over their studies.

2018-04-02T11:12:46+00:00

You walk out on the high wire. You're a dancer on thin ice. You pay no heed to the danger. And less to advice. Your footsteps are forbidden. But with a knowledge of your sin. You throw your love to all the strangers. And caution to the wind.

And you go dancing through doorways. Just to see what you will find. Leaving nothing to interfere. With the crazy balance of your mind. And when you finally reappear. At the place where you came in. You've thrown your love to all the strangers. And caution to the wind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h33hMQd7OrM

jonnyt88 · 2018-04-02T12:22:45+00:00

Good thing dodging the bullet. Now there are two more ways to improve your life.

Don't argue on Facebook.. Don't give into that crap and it is the drama that gets their fluids brewing and has a negative benefit to you.
Don't worry about the car. You said you have a job that pays well, and a 2010 corolla is nothing extravagant by any means. Your goal should be to work-to-live {or not work at all!}

Many of us wish we dodged the bullet before marriage and/or kid(s)

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-02T12:25:58+00:00

I’ve been watching my ex slowly decend into cat-filled alcoholism for years now. She snapchats me about it several times per week

Part of me wants to warn her but she had her chance back when I was desperate and she wouldn’t listen anyway

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-02T15:20:05+00:00

A bachelor's in Geology. That won't take her very far. She'll need a master's degree at the absolute minimum. She's just a classic user. I've known dozens of them over my lifetime. Now I can practically smell them coming.

hollybegin · 2018-04-02T15:34:46+00:00

she knew how I felt, but just pretended this attraction between us it didn't exist.

Funny enough we argue on Facebook more often than not when she posts her liberal crap about how expensive school is.

Why? She didn't bring anything of value in your life for the last ten years, fucked at least half a dozen guys and you're still around? Why are you doing this to yourself? The case is closed. Come on!

Do yourself a favor and ghost her for good, please!

MartinTyler45 · 2018-04-02T15:48:43+00:00

Solid post for 15-25 y/o young MGTOWs.

Dynastywar6 · 2018-04-03T01:04:25+00:00

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Title	Girl I loved hitting wall harder every day
Author	Dynastywar6
Upvotes	207
Comments	124
Date	April 1, 2018 9:58 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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