Summary: Over the years, I've noticed that guys of minority groups oddly have a lot more success with white girls (especially some of the good looking ones) that grow up in very white areas with little to no "diversity" compared to those that grow up in "diverse" areas. I've also noticed that it is in these "diverse" areas where ethnic guys dating white girls is a huge deal and often not that common if the girl is attractive while in homogenous areas, it isn't that out of place. Another thing I've noticed is that white girls who grow up in areas with a lot of people of a certain minority group tend to dislike going for men of that minority group.

Saying diversity makes white women less open minded then?

Yes, we're going to talk about white women going interracial, try not to lose your shit over it, it happens. Don't worry, this isn't about poaching white women, this is also about dating girls of minority groups as well under these circumstances. This relates a lot to sexual strategy and why diversity might actually be a bad thing if you aren't a white guy.

Whether it is on youtube on internet forum, I've heard a lot bitching from guys of minority groups, especially Asian men. "Why won't girls date my asian ass?". I also notice that quite a few of these guys are out in California as well...

I've lived in California, the southeast, and the upper midwest and I've noticed something in my time there, an inverse relationship. White females who have to face a lot of "diversity" tend to take a more distant approach to that diversity compared to those that don't face as much "diversity". For example, when I was living in California, I found that interracial couples involving white women with Asian or Hispanic men (the two ethnic groups we have a lot of in California) were not in any way common, if she was attractive then I would say they were unheard of. On the other hand, white guys with Asian girls and latinas were extremely common in California. Now with black guys in California it was commonly because black guys were more rare relative to other races so they could easily play the exotic card.

What's odd is that in all of my time in the upper midwest, I noticed that guys of minority groups hardly struggled that much with white girls if these guys had a higher than average SMV. When I say this, I mean that there wasn't really anything taboo about a good looking white girl dating an Asian, brown, or Hispanic guy like there would have been in California. If anything, the guys I talked to up there felt like their ethnic background was more of an advantage rather than a huge handicap. What amazed me is that despite being overwhelmingly white, no one really cared that much about race and girls didn't have this "yuck" factor when it came to dealing with guys of minority groups.

I have seen that in "diverse" areas, the only guys that win from all of the diversity are white males. Why?

  1. White women in these areas, especially the more attractive ones, will strongly oppose going interracial. This is even more true if a guy is of an ethnic group more prominent in the area. For example, white women in Toronto and San Francisco will avoid Asian and Indian men like the plague. On the other hand, n LA and Dallas, darker Hispanic men will struggle a lot with white girls.

  2. If that wasn't bad enough, even ethnic girls in these areas will avoid men of their own race in large numbers. A lot of these girls will sell out hard and go for white guys (eg: Asian girls in a lot of heavily Asian areas of the USA). Now this leaves ethnic guys with a very small dating pool.

It's like no matter what you do, as a guy of a minority group, you're fucking yourself over hard if you happen to be in an area where men of your group are more common. For example, a Hispanic or Asian guy would probably have a very rough time in Los Angeles. An Indian guy would have a rough time in Toronto or Vancouver solely based off the fact that he is Indian. Now the guy could have a "high SMV" and a lot more going for him but he is immediately grouped in with others of his ethnic group in that area who have a bad image, basically fighting an uphill battle.

So what happens?

That is something I've wondered about myself. Could it just be that white women in big diverse cities are strongly status conscious to where they are careful not to go for a minority? Maybe going for a handsome brown guy loses its appeal when most brown guys you see are low status immigrants? Perhaps the white "liberals" in big cities are more racist than their conservative counterparts in less diverse areas?

Lessons learned:

1 - White women in big and diverse cities, especially if they are attractive, tend to be a lot more loyal to white men than their counterparts who don't grow up around diversity.

2 - Women of minority groups in "diverse" areas are also not that loyal to men of their own race, often selling themselves out to white guys.

3 - In "diverse" areas, the only winners are white guys, guys of minority groups are royally fucked especially if people of their race are very numerous in that area (eg: Indian guys in Toronto or Asian guys in San Francisco).