Are any of you guys MGTOW Lite? As in, still have female friends and have sex?

ChKumar143 · 2017-06-19T22:27:18+00:00

Never entered a pussy ever since I came out one. I am the loser on this sub reddit. I did have a girlfriend though.

LeCompte77 · 2017-06-19T22:36:51+00:00

Tried it. Once they realize you are only using them for sex and won't commit, they will move on and continue trying to rope in a beta provider. Especially if you stop validating them like all their other orbiters. They have no use for you once they realize their shit doesn't work on you.

iamanarci · 2017-06-19T22:33:01+00:00

Who cares if you have gf or fuck them - it's entirely your choice. It's entirely your problem if you get raped financially and emotionally by your gf.

2017-06-20T02:42:26+00:00

Female friends are not worth your time, you just become a weird pseudo husband with all the downsides and none of the few perks husbands get.

mgtowguynow · 2017-06-19T22:41:00+00:00

I smile, nod and am casual around women I know IRL. That's about it. They're more acquaintances than friends.

No, I don't have sex. The last time was earlier this year when I hooked up with someone off of a dating website and it wasn't even good. Feel no need to seek it out any longer.

Mcheetah2 · 2017-06-20T02:29:46+00:00

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BlazedZombie420 · 2017-06-19T23:37:36+00:00

Yeah but I'll always rubber up and never commit

username_1_1_1 · 2017-06-20T00:07:53+00:00

I enjoy gf's and even the odd female friend, but my general rule about women is to not take them seriously.

Women make for shitty friends, they usually just want someone they can cry to about chad, they don't really care about what's happening in your life, and once they find a LTR they're more than likely going to stop talking to you. You can count on a call when they're single again though. They are useful for meeting new girls to fuck.

I date girls for about 4-6 months and then move on to a new one before they can monkey branch or before they start talking about getting serious. Works out pretty well.

2017-06-20T01:29:53+00:00

Yes, I'm what used to be called a long term bacholor. Never even had the desire to be married

I-am-the-lul · 2017-06-20T02:15:10+00:00

I am fine with getting along with my female co-workers and I am willing to engage in small-talk with women occasionally, but when it comes to any relationships or sex, I have have nothing to do with them, being a MGTOW Monk is how I roll.

goadsaid · 2017-06-20T03:18:19+00:00

I take getting laid as it comes - seems to be about once every couple months. Fine by me. I put ZERO effort into it and may even stop accepting it at some point because the 3 hours I deal with the bitch is too much for the 30mins/two times of sex. But fuck no I don't have female friends. Why would I be friends with a female?

Also, sex is almost never as good as you imagine. Horny now? Well... she's horny in 30 min. It'll still be good but not ice water at the exact point of sweating on a 99 degree day perfect. Like a certain position? Too bad she doesn't. Can't do that one. Foreplay? lots of tounge and finger cramps. Not the perfect bj you envisioned.

Phanekim · 2017-06-20T04:36:39+00:00

My mgtow road started out as lite and became full blown mgtow. started when i was 23. In my twenties, I was mgtow lite. After 30, pretty much full mgtow. I am 37 now.

Omnibrad · 2017-06-19T23:38:40+00:00

I have been living 2 years with a 3 year LTR.

If female friends entertain you, then knock yourself out. I don't spend time with any female friends.

It is hard mode to maintain frame, but if she knows you are the prize then the whole thing becomes much easier. You also need to see through everything she says and find out what she really wants from her wordplay and body language; mind reading should not be the requirement for a working LTR though.

phathack · 2017-06-20T00:52:22+00:00

While Not having female friends or engaging in sex is common for some MGTOW, not all of us fell that way. From time to time I have a chance bang a woman and I take advantage of it. But just because I had sex with her does not mean I'm going to pursue a relationshit with her. I know better than that.

SynfulVisions · 2017-06-20T04:36:22+00:00

My closest friend is female. Physically she's beautiful (tiny blonde), mentally she's a dude. If anything, she's a unicorn. (We've been close for almost 20 years now)

I get laid occasionally. It's not difficult per se, but I find it distasteful since I have to put on an act to do it (the whole alpha thing). Most of the time I'd rather just drink and work. I'm not beta, I just don't engage socially.

I'm conflicted on relationships. I truly miss the feelings and intimacy, that's not something that can be replaced. I just don't trust women enough to go through with it, and I'm not willing to be saddled with a post wall disaster.

UnknownXV · 2017-06-20T08:01:40+00:00

Yes.

I don't pair for shit. First dates are a hike. They bring me a snack. Second date, my place, minimum a massage, usually sex. If we do activities, we split the bill or take turns paying if it's a bit longer-term (rarely is).

No commitment.

No kids.

No Marriage.

No Cohabitation.

Used Condoms are vaporized.

The only risk I face is possible false-rape allegations, but so far so good.

2017-06-20T00:55:54+00:00

I have some that want to hookup and would let me degrade them into oblivion, nothing they haven't done with others though. They're all fat- no surprise! But I've been boycotting fatties for the last few years. I used them as a slump buster but then realized that chicks that aren't fat usually take commitment of some kind because I'm no Chad.

The last chick I hooked up with though was this young latina who would come over sometimes. I think she got fatter now too though from what I see on Facebook. It's been the massage parlors for this last year. Good massage and a rub and I'm good for quite a while. Saves on all the drama, STD scares and all that.

2017-06-20T01:02:06+00:00

I have two FWBs. I also have three who get friendship treatment w/o sex, because they help me out professionally.

My friends' WAGs get friendship by association. I'm friendly with her (them) in group settings when my friend(s) is around. Once the relationship(s) ends, so does my friendship.

eightgaydiamonds · 2017-06-20T02:20:48+00:00

I find female friends are important for practicing good manners. Its the main way I pass for normal.

IslandicFreedom · 2017-06-20T08:28:52+00:00

Never actually had a female friend - So cannot comment. Every female I've been "friends" with, I was either fucking or it was work related and nothing more.

Title	Are any of you guys MGTOW Lite? As in, still have female friends and have sex?
Author	Mcheetah2
Upvotes	18
Comments	31
Date	June 19, 2017 10:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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