19 yo virgin white knight joins Navy and falls hard for girl after discovering sex and perceived mutual love. Girl dumps guy and jumps on another. Guy gets stationed across the country, excels in every conceivable way and secures new orders to Sicily with friends and highly prestigious search and rescue team. Two weeks before taking leave he gets contacted by the female he'd been with previously. Girl has a child and claims it's his. Age matches exactly and gullible white knight spends leave visiting girl and child. WK gets orders changed to be closer and sent to infantry Marines in a desert hellhole. WK drives 10 hrs each way on weekends to spend time with woman and child. Day before WK goes on month long mountain warfare training the woman breaks it off for no reason given. Woman disappears and cannot be located. Year and a half later, while on 6 month deployment and on a ship in the south China sea, guy gets a red cross emergency message to his commanding officer stating that WK had abandoned her and their child and needs money to survive. Guy starts having pay deducted to be sent to her and child. Guy is disillusioned from career and leaves military. Guy refused to pay support until paternity is established. Not his kid! Bye bitch... Strike one..

Guy is relishing his new freedom, working on himself and enjoying various short term girls. Having a blast really. Girl that he had a fwb relationship that turned platonic with and now lives with as roommates decides she's in love with guy. He had always loved her and suppressed it so jumps right in. For a few years it was an ideal match. Few arguments, tons of good times. Then girl's father gets cancer. Girl starts getting migraines and bad depression and can't work. Guy supports her in every possible way. In her depressive state she did nothing but play video games. Guy works 65+hrs a week, does grocery shopping, and even much of the cleaning. Her father eventually passes away. A couple months later, out of the blue, and after 8 yrs together she just up and leaves with about 10 minutes notice. Streeeike 2!

Guy takes it really hard but gets through it and starts enjoying life again. Feels confident and has decent success with women. After about 8 months He ends up connecting with a really cool girl. Not super hot, but pretty, and financially secure. They are both mid thirties and after a few months start talking about kids and marriage. Guy is still WK of course and they marry after a couple yrs. Guy works full time and takes full course at community college for a year or so until first child comes. It's hard going but despite guy not really wanting another child she pressures and guilts him into it. He pushes on for a couple more yrs. By this time guy has pushed himself to his limit physically from work and mentally from neglecting himself and gets hooked on painkillers. Has to go on workmens comp and get drug treatment but never relapses even once. He starts taking primary care of the kids and taking care of house. Woman works 40 hrs a week and hardly any other duties. Guy even takes math classes online for her cause she couldn't pass them herself. Guy works his way past the physical injuries and remains painkiller free, despite craving them every Day. Guy cares for kids 6am til 4pm then directly to school at night and gets home at 1am m-f. The night before final test he finds her secret messaging app on her phone with graphic details going back several months of a sexual relationship with some guy she met while taking "me time" while guy was home with kids. He left the next day. Steerike 3!

IM OUT