Summary: It seems like there is this thought going around that by just "being yourself" and not even caring about doing well with women, you are somehow going to get good looking women showing interest in you. While it is true that you will be wealthier, in better shape, look better, and likely feel less frustrated about the game if you take the pill; if your desire is to get good looking women in your life then you are in for a rude awakening. In this post, I cover the harsh truth about the guys who are actually getting hot girls in their lives.

The red pill all of you need to hear:

Most guys came to the red pill because of something related to women. Whether it was relationship help, getting over divorce, or just wanting to go for sexless loser to a guy that gets hot girls. Well, here is the harsh truth about the various kinds of guys that get hot girls which most of you need to know. Deny it at your own peril, it is the truth regardless.

While I do believe that game, decent looks, and a lot of what they teach you on the red pill are very useful, you need to actually have a way of creating opportunities or having that "target rich" environment that puts you into contact with a lot of good looking women. Here are the various kinds of guys, outside of celebrities (or famous people), that have had a lot of success with getting hot girls and why things work out well for them. Exceptions exist but these are the general rules IF you want to be the guy that has hot girls in his life, if you're happy being a loner, then power to you!

-----The guy who lucked into the right circumstances growing up: wealthier neighborhood, parents that pushed him to be social, etc.-------

It is common knowledge that wealthier neighborhoods (wealthy suburbs for example) generally have better looking people in them and that high school full of wealthier kids have more attractive student bodies. So the guy with rich parents who was pushed into activities like football, being social, and picking up on the game at an earlier age; well he had a lot of success because girls at that age are more naive and the competition is not that rough. The guy had parents that were not pushy helicopter parents, he had the parents who were happy to see him with a hot girl.

Now this is also the same kind of guy that likely went off to college, knew the rules of the social game early on, rushed the right fraternity, and had an amazing 4 years. Knowing the rules of the social game meant that he made friends with the right kinds of guys, enjoyed amazing parties, was surrounded by hot girls, had social proof, and it was smooth sailing from there.

Well the catch is, you won't find this guy on TRP or almost any of the other places like it on the internet because he is too busy living life. Maybe if he washes out in a few years he might find the place but other than that, being this kind of guy comes down to circumstances and things out of your control. You can't be this guy, you have to be born this guy.

------The guy who made the right lifestyle choices conductive to meeting hot girls: hobbies, career, location, etc.------

Being honest with himself, this guy decided that he wanted to sleep with hot girls. So instead of sitting in and watching Netflix on a Friday night, he decided to go out and find jobs that will put him in a desirable situation. The guy lucked into a bartending gig at a nightclub or whatever job that put him into direct contact with hot girls AND gave him power in that situation. Instead of being in a city with horrible gender ratios, ugly women, and a terrible culture; he moved to a city with favorable gender ratios and tons of attractive women around. It might come off as a bit try-hard but in the end, it got him the results.

You CAN be this sort of guy but it requires being honest with yourself (do you REALLY want to get hot girls?) and then having the dedication (along with the luck) of getting yourself into that sort of lifestyle. Once again, it requires some sacrifice. For most guys who want to do well with hot women, this is likely the most realistic path.

-----The good looking guy who is in the ideal location and branching out in terms of game.------

The classically handsome guy who hits Tinder and the dating apps hard, is in a big city, goes out to bars at least once a week, approaches women, and plays the numbers game. When I say good looking, I mean the guy who is at least tall, facially aesthetic, and in great shape to where he could pass for a male model or movie star. Very few guys fit this mold and a guy who is in this category won't be looking for answers anyways.

He might even have the regular 9 to 5 but his good looks + lifestyle outside of work help him tremendously.

What do they ALL have in common?

While game and frame control are mandatory, what these guys (except for the first one) had in common is that after being honest with themselves about wanting to get hot girls, they put themselves in the ideal circumstances for it. These guys put themselves in favorable cities, worked jobs (or side gigs) that put them around a lot of attractive women, and created the lifestyle which was very favorable in getting hot girls.

You might want to get that ideal career or that pays six figures but if you're working 80 hrs a week without much time to really enjoy your salary, you're going to be in a rough spot.

Does everyone know of that one 5'1 computer geek that dates super models? Ya sure they do, but it is a huge exception to the norm!

This idea that you can ignore wanting to do well with women, especially the attractive ones, and all of a sudden the hot girls are going to come to your door when they hear about you becoming a surgeon is asinine. While you're busy working hard in the office, the guy who DJs college parties is sleeping with hot girls. If you ignore game and lifestyle choices, you will likely be the office worker who ended up marrying that 6 because he had no other options or the loner who is bitter about women and social life.

Lessons learned:

The guys who get hot girls are the ones who designed the lifestyle made for getting hot girls.