Are any of you guys suicidal?

trpbritguy · 2017-05-23T04:23:29+00:00

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byers18901 · 2017-05-23T04:49:36+00:00

The red pill is incredibly bitter. But don't give up man. Now you know the truth. You have the chance to go be the very best you you can.

There's passion and zest for life somewhere deep inside you. You just have to find it and engage with it.

You are so young still man. You know what I'd do to be back in my early 20s again?

You have so much time. So much to live for. Shit man you might see the human race colonize Mars. That would be so damned cool. In my opinion anyway.

When I first took the red pill I was a wreck. Downright miserable. All I'd ever wanted was to meet my soul mate, get married, have kids, and make the most of life whilst here. And play lots of video games and drink lots of great beer.

But I died inside. And died a little bit more just about every day for a while. Even now sometimes I have to fight off waves of sadness. It hurts like hell. A lot of guys have trouble getting out of the anger phase. But for me the red pill blues were downright soul crushing.

I'm starting to put the pieces back together now. Some days are better than others. But I'm working on making each day better than the last. Take things a day at a time.

Things will get better. But it takes time and work. The three biggest things you need to start doing is reading for 15 minutes a day, meditating 10 minutes a day, and exercising 3-5 days a week.

Also start writing down 3 things you are grateful for everyday. Doesn't have to be extravagant. Or something other people know about. It could be as simple as:

1) Waking up today 2) Having a car 3) having access to the internet and Reddit

And just take a few moments and feel the gratitude for each thing on the list. Really feel it.

Also whenever you have a good moment take a few extra seconds and truly appreciate whatever that moment was. A good meal. A delicious dessert. Your favorite beer. A gorgeous sunset. Log that memory. So you can recall it sometime when you are feeling down.

You gotta start feeding your mind. Your body too. And that's what the exercise is for.

Check this out. It's about 22 minutes. But you owe it to yourself to watch it.

Whatever you do don't give up. We're here for you brother.

Morb357 · 2017-05-23T02:15:13+00:00

I'm dead inside.

2017-05-23T09:10:24+00:00

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HeyLookAStory · 2017-05-23T01:53:28+00:00

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Laguna924 · 2017-05-23T03:01:42+00:00

C'mon guys, lucky you weren't born in a war torn country. Lucky you weren't born in Nazi slave camp, in the Soviet Gulags or part of the famine in communist Mao dynasty, hungry enough you'd eat feathers in pillows, pigeons and rats. You're lucky you weren't born with leukemia, or multiple sclerosis,

You have running water, you have indoor plumbing, you have roofs!. You have internet! you have all this world wide web full of unlimited resources and knowledge you can pursue, not to mention you can communicate via instant video chat with loved ones on other side of the world as supposed to writing letters and delivering it via horses. Your life is precious and you only get one shot! In the grand scheme of the universe and spectrum of time, How fortunate are you to be put here. Average Roman soldiers lived to only 30, with today's technology, people are cracking the century mark.

I know the world is full of corruption and we're on a brink of warfare. But educate yourself, pursuit intellect, it will give you peace of mind and a sense of clarity you wouldn't trade any amount of money for. Your potential is unlimited, you're destined for great things, get out of that toxic mindset, make it happen!

Peace, love, good happiness stuff.

VogaLodamee · 2017-05-23T06:21:34+00:00

The red pill grief cycle.

First you try to deny it and stay blue pill, so only facts and figures would bring you out of that.

Then you get angry about how unjust society is, for some, more facts help.

Next you've dipped your toe into mras, and you've realized that it's just pointless, so you get depressed, but you just have to realize that the blue nuclear family you've always based your desires off of isn't what it's cracked up to be, and once you've been educated, you ufind your own way.

Watch tfm's The red pill grief cycle.

Belrick_NZ · 2017-05-23T06:22:22+00:00

I have been. As a rational male i gave it a lot of thought.

I believe that all men have a kill switch. Should we sense that we are superfluous. Not needed No future. Not providing. Then as the disposable gender we will suicide to save resources for our relatives and or bitches.

Thankfully i am past that now. Took mgtow and a new job

Bark54 · 2017-05-23T02:56:16+00:00

I have thought a lot about it don't believe I have it in me. My brother did it and it caused immense suffering in his loved ones. No matter how bad it gets I could not do that to my kids.

SnowSnowSnowSnow · 2017-05-23T11:43:59+00:00

After 20 years of marriage, loss of my job, divorce, loss of my four youngest children, loss of my vision, and living in a fifth-wheel trailer on the side of hill without heating where every step outside could have fatal if I fell... yeah... it got pretty tough. I'd cry and cry helplessly. Everything was dark. Breathing was nearly a conscious decision. But I knew if I killed myself my children would have been even more fucked over than by what their faithless POS mother had done kept me keeping on.

But all that is bullshit because your struggle is your struggle. I can't relate. I can say that there is a future, light, hope. It may seem to be too far away to ever get there but fuck that shit. Put your head down, put one foot in front of another and eventually you will find yourself back in the light.

2017-05-23T02:31:40+00:00

Sometimes we have to tear down a beat up old shack. But if we do that, we have to replace it by building something stronger and more beautiful. It's hard work but there is pride in building a house with our own hands.

DangZagnut · 2017-05-23T03:14:46+00:00

Not at all. What' the situation friend? Why be suicidal?

_Hachiman_Hikigaya_ · 2017-05-23T03:21:21+00:00

Nope never ever thought about suicide guys. Just talk about that here guys don't hold everything inside you.

MGTOW is meant for living your life as you like it fully. What ever the problem don't give up on yourself. People come and go in your life and the problems are also like that.

soothslayer2k · 2017-05-23T05:52:14+00:00

JP may have a solution. https://youtu.be/wLvd_ZbX1w0

oldmanlogan76 · 2017-05-23T06:49:26+00:00

Never. There is always Thailand waiting. 2 months to go until next trip.

trpbritguy · 2017-05-23T09:03:19+00:00

Yes, I get it quite a bit but I'm married... The one thing that ALWAYS stops me is that I don't know if hell is real!

Asbestasio · 2017-05-23T10:20:03+00:00

no and i don't know why.

i'm completely alone, i spend my workhours toiling in a wageslave job, i spend my nights alone doing drugs and watching anime and i spend my weekends with more drugs and more anime. no friends, i don't talk to my family, i barely talk with my coworkers. i also work alone sometimes.

i have all the reasons to feel suicidal but i just don't. i pretty much only feel hate for other people, like a lot of hate. my soul emptied sometimes ago of everything that was considered normal and i stuffed it with hate and somehow it's stil going.

so this is my suggestion. if you feel suicidal start hating. hate a lot, hate everything and everyone and live. live to see those you hate suffer and die.

have a good day, bye

2017-05-23T12:12:50+00:00

I was for a time after my last breakup (7 years relationship, was completely blue pilled back then and blamed myself for the whole failure). It was really hard for quite some times, right until I realized that I should live my life for myself and not to please someone else.

I found MGTOW years after, but I was already MGTOW without knowing it, after a long a painful self introspection and failure analysis of my relationships so far. MGTOW is the only valid conclusion in today's society.

2017-05-23T18:40:26+00:00

being rejected and treated like shit by women for 30 years being bullied by men because I was a minority during 10 years My own family rejected me

all my dreams in life were shattered by motherfuckers and women. my divorce fucked up my kids, now one of them has a disability and I can pay for having the right of not seeing them.

Most average build men get pussy and have fun with women, I don't. I can lift, work hard, earn money but I am not good enough because "I have gone through too much shit" according to women. I am just a walking wallet who has lived a life of rejection. And when I am in a good mood, I still have my ugly face and genetics that get me rejected.

Yes, the be the best man you can be, it's great when you are an attractive normal man, otherwise you'll die lonely, unloved and alone because you are too different and you will feel that nobody is like you.

And no, I am not going to suicide because OTHER PEOPLE have thrown shit at me for all my life.

The trick is to not base your self esteem on what 99% of people can build theirs on (a nice childhood, friends, the love of their parents, success with girls, having successes, having kids).

You have no choice of being emotionally self sufficient, if people are not nice with you, you don't really have the choice of going MGTOW because they will kill you from outside.

We are animals, if other monkeys are not nice with you, if bitches don't want your dick, they can fuck off.

If nobody loves you, don't make the mistake of not loving yourself.

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Rhodesius · 2017-05-23T02:34:28+00:00

Used to be pretty bad a while back, a lot better now. Sometimes I still contemplate it, not because I'm in distress but more of a "well ima die someday anyway, is there enough worth living for until then?" What kind of bind are you in?

mentalidade_logica · 2017-05-23T04:27:46+00:00

Come on guys! - There are so many things you can learn, do or get involved with for little or no money. Painting, exercise, shooting, walking, learn a new language, running, biking (a friend of mine got possessed with biking from casual exercise and eventually competed to enter for the Olympics, but got injured. Another in curling and won a world ring), sports, exotic cooking, wine or beer making, etc. (I once made a Port like drink with Grape juice, sugar, yeast, whiskey and kept meticulous records of contents, days, temperatures, etc and the result was amazing, what a high in more ways than one for the accomplishment and taste; cheap too), gardening same concept. - make a wish list, save for it and do it. - Travel, it will blow your mind. - get a hobby, volunteer to worthy causes, sing in a choir, join a local club that fits your style, etc. - BUILD, EVEN IF A BIRD HOUSE, YOU WILL BE HOOKED, CUZ IT'S A MAN THING. - Fix an old car; an electric project. Look at motivation videos as a temp boost.

Appreciate what you have and make a list of it, starting with your life basics.

Seek professional help if things are that low. STAY AWAY from all drugs EVEN if prescribed to you.

dogwoodcat · 2017-05-23T06:59:57+00:00

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nigelh · 2017-05-23T08:25:10+00:00

My brother says I am but that was his take on F2 motorcycle racing.

cashmoney_x · 2017-05-23T09:36:19+00:00

No but we have enough people so have at it I guess.

emoninja95 · 2017-05-23T13:03:48+00:00

Only if I think about my future for more than 5 seconds

Title	Are any of you guys suicidal?
Author	spencers611
Upvotes	19
Comments	64
Date	May 23, 2017 1:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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