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Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.

kebruyiko

May 11, 2017

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Title	Being Mean Isn't MGTOW. It Isn't Even Worth Your Time.
Author	kebruyiko
Upvotes	20
Comments	23
Date	May 11, 2017 5:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6ai5xv/being_mean_isnt_mgtow_it_isnt_even_worth_your_time/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/being-mean-isnt-mgtow-it-isnt-even-worth-your-time.589372 https://theredarchive.com/post/589372

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[–]Howlum2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you start out as an MGTOW or did you learn about it somewhere? I believe in helping our fellow man protect himself from the dangers of society, and MGTOW is a good enough method on paper. But if he were to come here and see comments like yours everywhere, he really would think we were neckbearded virgins. Thus, someone loses out on changing their life for the better because projecting your insecurities on women is more important than helping your fellow man. This is supposed to be a place where people can learn about the best way of taking control of their lives not some pathetic echo chamber of woman hating and thinking you're better than everyone else because you happened upon this knowledge. You shouldn't get defensive when someone challenges your ideas if they aren't rooted in insecurity. This is a place for men to discuss tactics of lifting each other up, but sadly it's just become a place to put women down. You have more in common with feminism than MGTOW.

[–]Gamer_Jack_Gameson1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually it does need positive PR, if you want other guys to join in. I'm all for spreading the word, but it needs a coherent philosophy. "women are evil" isn't fooling any half-sane person. A lot of us are choosing to forego relationships for the simple reason that being single and doing whatever the hell you want is awesome. Giving up on women means I can live in my tiny RV, roam the country, work a low wage, low-effort job, wash myself maybe 3 times a week when I'm not working (always after work though), wash my dishes twice a week, and have fun all the time and only do the things I want to do, like play video games with my bros from all over the country. I give zero fucks and my zero effort job pays for all the happiness life may bring. I don't have to stress about bills because a man doesn't need much to be happy. I think that sounds like a better message--a message men can believe in.

MGTOW is painted as a lonely, depressed man backed into a corner and forced to relinquish his deep yearning for a female companion.

The reality is being MGTOW is fucking great. I have never been happier! They say, "But aren't you lonely?"

No, I'm a Man. I once lived in the forest for 8 months. I am perfectly fine being totally alone. Men need some sort of social connection, but for the average male a brief encounter once every few months is easily enough to sustain our social needs. It's women that need us for their happy existence. Let them come to us. I might be talked back into a relationship under the right circumstances, but it's totally on her (whoever she is) to make that happen. The ball is in their court now. I'm not angry with women, I'm just like:

"Y'all kinda fucked the whole trust and respect thing up for us. You have to earn it back now. I'll be chilling in the forest with my bros, being really happy without you in the meantime."

I like to imagine a future where women actually start freaking out about us backing out. We destroy the illusion that their bodies control us, that we would do anything for sex, and they hold the key. Nope. Turns out your whole paradigm was wrong. Now you're screwed because Men are self-sufficient creatures that can survive in many extremes without you. You're the ones that need us.

It's ironic that men are painted as the sex-crazed half when feminism only got as far as going lesbian. They just couldn't imagine life without sex. don't believe me just watch

[–]kebruyiko[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is an uncharted area at this moment. I remember back in my early red pill days, I started reading into pua theory. There were tonnes of articles on advanced tactics and different methods to use and when to use them but there seemed to be a couple of websites and articles that were fundamental in order to explain why they used pua tactics and how pua's viewed the world.

To me, MGTOW seems like the fundamentals. It explains why we went our own way and how we should start to view the world. Now it's time to move on to the "advanced tactics" so to speak. Maybe things like: Becoming more goal oriented. Making money off of gynocentrism. How to plan a Sex-cation. Finding MGTOW friendly destinations. These are just a few (and probably really bad.) examples of the kind of content I enjoy.

MGTOW had tremendously improved my quality of life and it's numbers have been growing rapidly but unfortunately it's content hasn't. I mean for goodness sakes, Barbarossa's content sounds like the content made today! I digress.

I'm happy to hear that you are doing well brother. Keep doing your thing and stay MGTOW.

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