Do not underestimate the power of her friends and family

legion327 · 2016-05-24T19:20:01+00:00

This goes to whole other levels too. My ex-wife initially didn't want custody of our son. It was only after she went home to live with her mother that she got shamed by her mother into pursuing custody of our son. And of course she won because she has the V. Bottom line - I dont have my son based solely on her being pressured by family into taking him from me.

RPthrowaway123 · 2016-05-24T20:03:04+00:00

My last girlfriend, her friends were the factor in her turning on me. They fed her all the bullshit she wanted to hear. Surprise, they all moved on and she still lives here. Guess who texted me again saying she misses talking to me.

I wish I knew how to take them out of the equation. She wasn't a bad girl but her friends were royal cunts and one fat fuck who just fed her what she wanted to hear. I almost feel bad that she's come crawling back to me - she's incredibly lonely because they conviced her to throw away a good (or potentially good at this point I guess) man for them.

That went a little longer than I intended but that's my story.

2016-05-24T23:07:08+00:00

I don't follow the surprise seen here.

Women are herd creatures because they HAVE to be.

Sure, today females can independently raise children in comfort and security. Socially speaking this wasn't the case for most of humanity's 100,000 odd year existence.

A woman who had a kid without the social assent of her clan faced death. Genetically superior seed doesn't matter if both mom and kid die because The Tribe ostracized her.

Today that primal instinct carries through. A man without the social approval of the clan is a liability no matter how attracted she is to him. Part of why women think nothing about siccing the law on a dude because she was socially exposed fucking a guy she shouldn't is this primal instinct in action.

Of course, the more power a man has the less effect this has. Dudes operating on the fringes of society get the best deal- if you're slinging coke no plate is gonna get the illusion in her mind you'll ever be presentable to Ma and Pa come Christmas, so she'll just work harder at hiding the liaison from her friends and family.

Conversely if you're in a social environment where people Will Know you fucked a broad, move carefully and covertly. The more info known between you and a girls social network the lower your odds of easy sex.

ScarletFever82 · 2016-05-25T14:20:57+00:00

Sometimes it is to their detriment. When I filed for divorce against my BPD ex wife, her BPD mother posted on Facebook, "take him for everything he's worth." Well, as most of you can imagine, divorcing a post wall BPD squatter can be contentious.

The end result, she had to pay me to take my own house because her credit was junk, and she trashed the house to the point it assessed for $5k less than I owed. After that discovery she went into hyper batshitcrazy mode after all my premarital assets, funded by her mother they strategized a war of butthurt that only annoyed the judge.

End of the story: I cleaned her and her mother out, and she gets my attorney's invoices deducted from her minimum wage job till the end of time. Not even bankruptcy gets you out of that hole.

I found redpill, busted my ass at work, got all my bills paid, and am in the process of flipping this house for $30k profit....

I never got a chance to share my story, but I can't thank you guys enough, for years I was a poor doormat, living off the scraps of my own paycheck like a dog at her feet. I picked up a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy," and it gave me the ambition to fucking stand up and do something, to quit sacrificing my needs for the wants of some washed up worthless cunt.

Because of TRP I was able to walk out of family court in the best financial position of my life. 5 months out of the grinder and I've gotten more tail than ever in my life.

I started out as a sceptic reading your stories, then I tested some theory, and felt alive, now I live off of it.

Care_Asthma · 2016-05-24T21:05:24+00:00

A woman I dated left me for another guy , I was shocked of course but what blew my mind was how her family loving the guy and her church loving the guy made her love the guy . We were together I just wasn't apart of her social network while he was.

After lots of encouragement and positive attention from her social circle and her posting a pic of them together (we'd been together two years and we had no pics together posted anywhere) , my blue pill ass finally broke up with her. Two weeks later they started dating officially.

The sweet part was her getting him, learning he was a needy effeminate beta (much easier to see when he becomes your rock versus your toy) , and she was in a weird social hell where she lost attraction to him but was socially pressured to be with him due to how much her family and church adored him.

That was the first time I observed the importance and ability for social pressures to guide or drive a woman's thought process.

FrameWalker · 2016-05-24T19:44:32+00:00

So you have one-itis for this broad or what? I can't remember the names of girls I didn't sleep with a year ago...

abdada · 2016-05-24T19:13:05+00:00

My current LTR's family and friends tried to turn her against me, but she didn't listen.

My last LTR, same thing.

The one before it, same thing.

Guess what? Her friends didn't cause this failure, you did. For whateve reason, you slipped up somewhere and let her see that it was affecting you emotionally.

Next time, don't slip up.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-05-24T22:41:58+00:00

Fuck that bitch. If she really wants it, then she shouldn't stab you in the back like that.

HOWEVER, I will note that she was trying to gauge you as to whether you wanted bang or be "boyfriend/girlfriend." Sounds like she was continuously asking that. You should have just banged, imo.

KartagoPill · 2016-05-25T10:21:43+00:00

Birds of a feather. I made the mistake of marrying a woman whose best friend was a nasty basic bitch chock full of bad advice. Anyone want to venture a guess how that turned out?

2016-05-25T11:40:16+00:00

"Spinning 3 plates and fucking 1?"

.....bruh, if you aren't fucking them, they ain't plates.

I don't normally agree with abdaba up there, but he's generally right in this situation.

hailhailhailandkill · 2016-05-25T14:26:37+00:00

Good touch.

IMO it all lies in their herd psychology. Opinions/behavior of the nearby (family, friends, greater social circle) and preselection influence even outweigh their personal decision.

Remember how a taken guy becomes more attractive to her? Or a blouse suddenly becomes urgently desirable right upon another woman's interest?

Shaming... Well take a look, they pull every kind of shaming against each other. Slut shaming, fat shaming, ugly shaming, wife shaming, tomboy shaming, even beauty shaming (as a guerrilla tactic when they can't compete cuties).

When it takes too long (and is likely to be a dead end)... To escalate and even ending up hoisting anchor are fine. Better to be remembered as a dick than a pussy. Being able to walk out > being needy.

Title	Do not underestimate the power of her friends and family
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Date	May 24, 2016 6:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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