Im at uni, 19 years old. I grew up mostly in my house on computer games, I did have friends and spoke to girls, so not complete lost cause, but im not socially fluent. As I've grown up, physically I'm getting bigger (gym) and learning alot (not virgin, talking to girls etc. Cold approaching here and there).

But my new friends are the same type as they used to be before (scared, shy, in their room types) I talk to these people because it's in my comfort zone. How do I meet more social, masculine guys my age? I'm thinking about joining the rugby team to get out of my comfort zone (Im still a bit too skinny to be good though, so not sure)

What would you lot do?