When you realise literally every-woman has a backup guy

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-01-31T19:56:41+00:00

Despite women wanting to make us believe the contrary, men are extremely lenient on both women's looks and characters. That's why literally any woman has several guys pining for her.

It's the same reason why women, and virtually only women, are increasingly pushing for this "polyamory" and "open relationship" crap. They know they can have a new and hotter guy to fuck every day while their beta boyfriend/husband will struggle to find any girl.

PrefixKitten · 2018-01-31T20:38:51+00:00

Part of it is her cycle. For most of the month she is as "normal" as women get. Then there is this 10 day period where she creates a new egg and she has to fuck chad.

Most "relationships" are just timing. That's why we call it "getting lucky". You caught her on egg night. Now she's your girlfriend until she gets bored. But she doesn't like you most of the time.

Anyone who's ever been in an LTR knows that most of the time women are bitchy and distant. Then all of a sudden one weekend out of the month she is super sweet and practically begging for sex. Then, if you are a good little simp, you convince yourself that that's "the real her" and the rest of the time this bitchy frump you are chained to is just "she's tired" or "she's in a bad mood today I should buy her something and maybe I'll get my girlfriend back."

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2018-01-31T22:00:19+00:00

The cause for this in my opinion, is the nice-guys/beta-orbiters/bluepilled/simps or whatever you might call them. Its a very easily explained phenomenon with the help of supply and demand. Almost every girl got one of this beta orbiters around, why is this, well clearly because the demand for girls is high and the supply is limited. But then you ask how is this possible when there are more women then men on the planet earth. The simple answer is that women only look to date above them (many data has already been shared on this reddit). Therefore the demand of women stay the same, but the supply drops (women are only limited to the top 20% of men for example). Now this would not be a problem if indeed this women who are not able to date the top 20% would simply accept this and look for a partner within their own range. But since they always have beta orbiters around (which are of the same or lower sexual market value, sometimes even higher), she assumes that she can do better, otherwise she would not have men orbit her.

This bring an intressting psychological question to the surface, is it the hypergamy that women seem to emboddie, something that comes from a natural urge and now only becomes strong because of beta orbiters, or is the natural urge very litmited or little and are these beta-orbiters the problem for the inflated egos of these women who therefore only date the top 20% of men. Ask this question for yourself, would you if you had 4 girls, who you find not that attractive, telling you you are great and perfect and everything, still be able to see who is a suitable mate for you (meaning the same value) or would you automatically assume you worth more then you objectively are.

So one can wonder what the cause is for this high demand and low supply of women. Is it the beta-orbiters inflating their ego which in turn make women believe they can do better then someone of the same value, or is it their nature that only now surfaces because of the current discourse?

In my opinion the beta-orbiters are the cause of this phenomenon, however they can only become a cause since women do tend to date only equal or above. In older times women did not have acces to that many men, and suitors where limited, nowadays women have an infinite (not entirely true since there is only a finite amount of men) amount of men at their dissposal to either be fucked or become beta orbiters, which inflates the ego, which in turn raises the price of pussy, which in turn creates more beta orbitters (because yes we men do tend want to fuck women), which in turn raises the price of pussy, ect ect. This is a positive feedback loop, and the only way out is, to take away the beta orbitters (almost impossible), fix female nature (impossible), or for a personal goal just go your own way, never allow yourself to become a beta orbitter. If this message was avialable to all men, and all men where sufficiently in control over their desires this system would break down quickly however this seems like a far of fantasy land.

Sorry for the long reaction just went a bit crazy with my analyses.

TowerOfMG · 2018-01-31T19:53:21+00:00

So they can have a safety net of resources. A termite needs a host, yes? I equate women with them. They will never stop looking for their next feed, no matter how good the wood is.

801735 · 2018-01-31T20:31:51+00:00

Pfffff, nooooOOOO, they don't have a backup guuuuuuuy. He's just their friend, chained, psyops tugged along just in case they need him.

Ever went on a vacation or trip with a chick for a weekend? Yes? How many suitcases?

Jcart105 · 2018-01-31T21:37:23+00:00

Think about it evolutionarily, if your primary "husband" dies collecting and/or scavenging resources or dying in war, she needs a replacement, or else she will literally die. It's callous, but this was an evolutionary instinct that developed in the female sub-conscious for survival, which is why even in an environment where literally everything is handed to a woman on a silver platter -- the instinct does not dissolve at all.

The other fundamental concept pertaining to this is hypergamy. If they find out their current man is not as high of value as they once perceived or thought of him to be, then she will branch-swing to another man who she perceives to have higher value.

toad249 · 2018-01-31T20:32:51+00:00

I love being the backup, it reminds me what they’re truly like inside ❤️.

Zeliow · 2018-01-31T22:58:26+00:00

When a girl turns you down and says she wants to remain friends. That is the moment you stop giving her attention. She wants to try for someone better? go ahead. But when she hits the wall and tries to get you back: YOU get to decide.

Tony_Blare · 2018-02-01T00:10:14+00:00

When you decide to denounce dating altogether, it no longer bothers you !

Watchingcluturefade · 2018-02-01T03:57:58+00:00

Because women literally fear being alone more than anything else.

Sure, there are probably a few that are a bit different and might not be so. But I have learned even from my sister, mother, friends and dates, being alone TERRIFIES them more than anything.

The "I am strong!" feminism movement you will notice has to continually talk about how fine they are with being alone, as they build more and more people around them .....

Flugzeug113 · 2018-01-31T20:26:10+00:00

Take logical, and moral thinking, and then imagine the exact polar opposite of it. You now understand women a little better

DangZagnut · 2018-01-31T22:01:13+00:00

They have many to choose from. If you had six girls begging for you for dates would you cast five aside, or just sort of date one different days of the week. Maybe focusing on the best one, but orbiting the 5 others?

HonoluluLion · 2018-02-01T01:23:43+00:00

keeps the husband on his toes and keeps the orbiters orbiting. Sad shit, honestly

rationalthought314 · 2018-02-01T02:52:21+00:00

Cheating is women's biggest worry because they project their cheating nature on men. It's one of the biggest lies out there to paint women as poor innocent victims of cold-hearted cheating men (oh, the irony!)

Marque01 · 2018-01-31T19:51:42+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zywIR_ZFLts

2018-01-31T21:06:28+00:00

Cause lowest common denominator.

Even peacocks know better.

fuckyouredditcunts77 · 2018-01-31T23:01:00+00:00

Triangulation.

2018-02-01T00:35:26+00:00

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2018-02-01T02:03:49+00:00

Women are hypergamous. That's why.

MGTOWtoday · 2018-02-01T04:33:11+00:00

Basically, women always try to have a backup plan. Women are driven by their hypergamy. They need an endless supply of money and resources. If the flow of money from one person is interrupted, then she can't waste any time before the flow must come from somewhere else. This is just how women operate. They do this to all men, and sometimes they do it to other women too. For example, I had a friend who's relationship with her bf started to go south. They were fighting more and more and one day we're all hanging out and she asks if she breaks up with her bf, if she could crash with us for a few days. We say yes. A few days later, without so much as giving us a call before hand, she shows up to our place with all her possessions in her car.

Backup plans. All women have one.

2018-02-01T12:31:51+00:00

It has to do with long term investments. I bet some of them keep the "friends" around if shit goes south with the current bf or they see potential in some guys becoming financially successful. Remember, hypergamy is always turned on, they're on a constant look out for a highest quality man they can find. That's what was driving the evolution of our species.

Since the moment the feminism won the war over the fate of society, the hypergamy went overdrive, now even the fat and ugly ones are promiscuous because they believe they can bite more than they can chew. It's all lies and bullshit, of course, but to women it never was about the truth, it's about how good the words make you feel in the moment.

Basically, it all comes to options. Did you ever wonder why the old women are so "loyal" to their husbands? That's because their SMV has dropped to infinite 0, they have no choices left. Men on the other hand get a better deal as they age, especially if they gain financial success in the process.

Until man's value in woman's eyes is greater than the alternative, she'll stay loyal or fuck behind your back if she believes she can get away with it.

ygramul · 2018-02-01T01:16:11+00:00

Amazing — “backup guy”

batfish55 · 2018-02-01T09:40:30+00:00

Have you not done the required reading? Look for the term 'branch swinger.'

...and I like to call those guys the batters on deck.

1UPZ_ · 2018-02-01T05:26:03+00:00

lots of guys have backup too

2018-02-01T13:25:19+00:00

You forgot the s, as in guys.

cashmoney_x · 2018-02-01T15:29:07+00:00

Biology.

Yashugan00 · 2018-02-01T19:10:59+00:00

Not "a", but several

Title	When you realise literally every-woman has a backup guy
Author	Cumreal
Upvotes	223
Comments	71
Date	January 31, 2018 7:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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