I don't understand this sub

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-06-15T22:23:29+00:00

Questions go to askTRP

Also, try the sidebar, it explains all

WIDE_420lbs · 2016-06-15T21:40:23+00:00

I think you have to look at TRP as a way to help you gain control of your life. To be able to take your internal and external stresses and lay them out like; why do I feel helpless? Why is the girl I love totally disrespecting me? Eventually those stresses just fade away as you give less and less of a shit about your fee-fees that only drag you down into a losing feminine frame.

It's not about controlling women, it's about controlling YOUR relationship with them. And why shouldn't you be able to do that?You will never find posts here about people FORCING their lovers to do things. They are simply putting their expectations in the open, it's up to the lady to stay or leave. Women do this all the time to their men, almost sickeningly overt, yet rarely are they called out on it; compare this to "toxic/domineering masculinity" when men do it.

I think this sub gives you the balls to be a "douche-bag" that YOU like being, and not giving a fuck if anyone calls you one. Quit being afraid of getting shamed for being a man, men are ALWAYS hated for what they are, so why not be the man YOU want to be?

Tie5o11 · 2016-06-15T21:42:17+00:00

First of all, I would say you are responding to one subset of posts: "when I actually browse through the posts, I just see a bunch of guys saying that they just dumped their girlfriend and a bunch of other guys giving them theoretical ;high-fives.'" And, within this one subset of posts, there may be a myriad of reasons men want to break up with girlfriends or gain more power in a relationship. Perhaps, many of these men were in relatively powerless in their relationships, and/or were stuck in a relationship that ultimately was bad for them long term. Without context, its impossible to say all of these posts are examples of men simply trying to "out alpha" their girlfriends or whatever.

If you'd like to learn, read the sidebar. Like anything, read it with both an open by skeptical mind. But that will give you a grounded understanding on the theory. From there, feel free to read or not read any of the posts within the sub thereafter.

JackGetsIt · 2016-06-15T22:07:57+00:00

Why are you all so concerned with trying to preserve your masculinity

What's wrong with preserving masculinity?

Why not talk to her and try to solve the issue and preserve the relationship?

Some of the posts on the redpill are stated in strong terms to break blue pill minded men out of their counterproductive thought processes. The poster isn't saying that you should just walk away at the drop of a hat. The poster is saying that it puts you in a weak position in a relationship to negotiate. Negotiating implies that common sense communication has broken down and now it's a back and forth. So in a way the advice is given as an effort to preserve the relationship not destroy it. Women respond and are attracted when men come from a place of abundance. We don't make up the rules we just follow them and teach other men how to follow them.

Maybe it won't work and maybe you will look like a pussy but who cares?

You're answering your own question. Looking like a pussy shows weakness and can cause a relationship to strain and break.

Maybe I am reading you guys wrong

Maybe you are maybe you aren't; but feel free to ask those questions within the threads themselves. Most of the time people will help you understand what they are thinking and why. It might help if you started on the sidebar -----> and then came back to the current posts and discussions.

It can take quite a bit of time and reading to wrap your head around how different the redpill philosophy is from the mainstream approach to relationships. The current rate of unhappiness and divorce in our society doesn't speak well to the mainstream relationship advice model.

max_peenor · 2016-06-15T22:06:09+00:00

I'll take Concern Troll for $400, Alex.

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NeoreactionSafe · 2016-06-15T22:07:34+00:00

Why are you all so concerned with trying to preserve your masculinity?

Masculine polarity is defined by:

Men love women, women love children, children love puppies

What this means is that there is no equality in a successful relationship.

All success is based on respect shown by a woman towards a man.

Once the respect is lost, then for women their capacity to have sexual attraction is gone. Once that fire goes out the relationship is doomed.

Our "advice" is to avoid loss of masculine polarity like it were the most dangerous reef which a Captain must not run aground on. (ship metaphor)

We blame ourselves for loss of masculinity... loss of Frame.

Machiavelli's The Prince (1513)

Chapter XIX: That One should Avoid being Despised and Hated

It makes him contemptible to be considered fickle, frivolous, effeminate, mean-spirited, irresolute, from all of which a prince should guard himself as from a rock; and he should endeavour to show in his actions greatness, courage, gravity, and fortitude; and in his private dealings with his subjects let him show that his judgments are irrevocable, and maintain himself in such reputation that no one can hope either to deceive him or to get round him.

Title	I don't understand this sub
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Comments	14
Date	June 15, 2016 9:22 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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