In college I was a douche, typical chad as 4chan would say. It seriously works is the worst part.

In high school I was a good boy, good grades, never getting detention etc. and life was miserable.

I started college after getting out of a LTR, and was ready to have fun. Step one get in great shape, girls don’t want to admit it but, looks are key. 2 live life like you don’t care and people will try to mimic you to fit in around you. I was living a double life in class typical geek good grades and studying, not much social life with them but it was all about getting good grades as well as good recommendations from teachers.

When I would get out of class I had a whole different friend group that seemed to be a pussy magnet. We started our own club space and had new girls joining every week.

I would put on my persona, developed a great reputation for in the sack and had girls coming to me, it was too easy. As long as I acted the opposite of boyfriend material and kept it all businesses and sex, more always came my way.
Developed a huge network of fuck friends and would fuck 3 different girls a day, was a common experience. they would actually bring me drugs and food and drinks to my place i didn't even have to spend any money on them.

Then I started to like one, nope that's where you fuck up. Guess what, gave her the dating experience etc., and didn’t even get laid. If I had just been a dick to her, easily would have got laid.

Honestly giving the dating experience to one girl was the worst thing I could. Word got out girls stopped coming by my place etc. its all about how you’re perceived.

From there it was downhill.

I look at my single friend who just moved to Toronto and is drowning in pussy with his don’t give a fuck attitude. Im not saying that his job title and making 85k a year doesn’t help but, he could be wasting all his money on a wife, but instead is living la vida loca. Seriously works, created a need for woman to figure out why you’re not acting like all the other guys who shower them with gifts.

Honestly make your life about you, make decisions that benefit yourself, everybody is out there for their own interests.