Something that i dont quite understand about my ex

Treken420 · 2017-03-19T08:37:34+00:00

More like what the fuck are you thinking trying to talk to exes. Move on. Delete them hoes from your phone and all social media.

squidracer · 2017-03-19T11:03:09+00:00

she fell in love with someone else

Lmao. You must be new here. She don't love him ethier

MuscleCarz · 2017-03-19T10:07:41+00:00

I sent her a brithday wish once and she never even replied once. Like what the fuck...

Women are creatures of SURVIVAL. Their cold, callous nature is hard-wired in. Once she's "done" with you, that's it. Even the sweetest of them are capable of incredibly mind-blowing shit when they're no longer interested in a man.

She can gut you economically in court, devastate you psychologically and walk away with zero guilt, shame or remorse and be fucking another guy before you fully fathom what the fuck's happened. You are no longer of any importance to her. She doesn't even consider your humanity any more, if she ever did. Oh, she might call or message to "test" you in order to see if she can still spark your interest, but will quickly put you right back on the back burner.

Again, it's not maliciousness, just eons of adaptation for survival. We men have the advantage of intellectual and physical prowess for survival, women have the exotic adapted skills of sexual and psychological manipulation for survival.

Think about it. If their brains didn't adapt the ability to quickly remove shame, guilt or remorse from their psyches, they'd be dropping like flies from suicide, self-harm and other guilt-related maladies* from contemplating their morally and ethically questionable behaviors. But nope, they just keep right on moving forward like sharks smelling blood. and when they've had their fill, move right on to the next victim.

I've pretty much ghosted ALL my exes. Why set myself up? I already swam with those sharks.

*Depression and anxiety are at all time highs with women, but not from guilt or shame, but rather, lack of self-efficacy, lack of self-esteem, learned helplessness, victim mentality and vacuous voids of discontent...from being coddled and spoiled since birth.

HIGHLORDOFSHITSTAINS · 2017-03-19T09:00:28+00:00

(Bro hug)

Yeah you gotta move forward and into the unknown man.

I usually burn all the bridges to my ex's.. and reburn them when they show up again. I call it preemptive burning.. write that down.

Just try to move on for your own sanity.

(Bro hug)

calories_for_closers · 2017-03-19T12:02:11+00:00

Learn to burn bridges.

They have nothing to offer once relations are broken. Think of yourself as a fortress to defend; don't leave openings for the enemy to easily invade. Your heart is very weak and susceptible to manipulation. Guard it well.

Burn the bridges twice over and make sure neither your friends, nor hers, can scale the gap between you. It's war, act accordingly.

Raunaz · 2017-03-19T15:19:00+00:00

Bro she has moved on and you should too. Go pump and dump a girl you'll feel much better. No more birthday cards and stop talking to her. Your not letting yourself heal by trying to talk with her.

owq · 2017-03-19T11:59:46+00:00

1 person, 1 chance, per lifetime. No need to burn bridges, but if a bridge falls it falls.

hazmigaming · 2017-03-19T15:55:06+00:00

Woman main cycles is more like this: When she is aged 18-29, mostly she riding corousel of any alpha males she can have. Then she hits 30, she starts finding betas to supports her for the rest of her life, due to her depreciating looks and self worth, unable to compete with younger woman to get alpha male attention. So, in comparison of your story, you are likely are the alpha male while her current bf is the beta cuck. As being beta is easily manipulated by them. Glad you already off the hook from that cunt, consider yourself lucky. Bigger problem would be inflicted if you proceed and married her. Not worth your rest of your life. Go mgtow.

dirtydog113 · 2017-03-20T00:12:24+00:00

Hands OP the fuel can and matches

mercwithamagicsword · 2017-03-19T23:08:18+00:00

My ex-wife won't even face me. I have seen that she is actually alive only 3 times in the last year. Jokes on her because I prefer to not ever talk to her again. I wish that we could be professional about it for the sake of our kids but I doubt it.

3rt41 · 2017-03-20T10:21:32+00:00

Talking to exes is pure nonsense, not at all is acting like a man.

Just move on and never contact her in any way again.

Title	Something that i dont quite understand about my ex
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	12
Comments	12
Date	March 19, 2017 8:20 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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