I'm new to the MGTOW Community, and I've enjoyed hearing your thoughts on Relationships and Society. This topic may get some hate, so I encourage you to keep an open mind.

This community obsesses over "Chads"; and this could damage our message.

For those who aren't familiar, a "Chad" is a guy who is good looking, but doesn't have enough money for a woman to want to marry. She sleeps with him because he makes her feel "special", but she will get rid of him for the next guy soon enough. Usually he is depicted as sleeping with someone's wife.

There are plenty of Chads out there, and I think WE need them. For MGTOW to become mainstream, there cannot be an image of fat, ugly and idiotic guys saying NO to relationships. The more good looking guys we can showcase, ahem DiCaprio, the harder it is to dismiss as the stereotype above. And they don't even have to be smart. Just good looking enough that one of them could go on a cable news outlet and have the men who are watching think, "he's good looking, why doesn't he want to get married?" Remember, we're fighting a war, not of intelligence, but of Public relations.

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Tl;DR: Cool it with the Chad memes and jokes. We need them to help MGTOW become mainstream.

Edit: Thank you all for your comments so far. I've been noticing some concerns about MGTOW becoming mainstream. To be clear, if you chose to be MGTOW and believe it has made your life better in some way, you likely think that It could help other men. If you want to help other men, spreading the message effectively is the best way to do that. So when I say mainstream, I don't mean that we should "sell out" or change our message. My point was that "Chads" are not fundamental to our beliefs, and could hurt us in the view of other men.