Confession.

the_real_chronos_ · 2016-12-24T02:33:01+00:00

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owq · 2016-12-24T02:48:29+00:00

The real insanity is thinking a girl can make you happy

Coluphid · 2016-12-24T02:30:27+00:00

You need to break the cycle bro.

Monk mode. Get your shit straightened out.

Start going to a gym. Running. Working out.

If you build it, they will come.

Only once youve made yourself into a man worth something, youll find you have all the options you need.

Ceapone66 · 2016-12-24T02:33:19+00:00

But you could be. You see, your thoughts revolve arround this girl. In order to heal yourself you need to start small. You know what? Years before finding trp i was on google typing "how to...". Start small but do it. You'll thank yourself later. Think about it for a second. The end is the same. But the journey can be shitty or awesome. You are the director.

mrrightt · 2016-12-24T06:24:24+00:00

Stop relying on women for happiness fool.......

the_real_chronos_ · 2016-12-24T03:39:58+00:00

It's okay to feel weak. Take a step back and think about what is it about women that you feel the need to chase them to feel better about yourself.

Why can't you feel at ease just by yourself? Why involve another person in your life? ...someone you can't control and has the power to hurt you, especially since you give them that very power when you involve your self-worth in this process.

You need to learn to be comfortable by yourself. No one will complete you if you are already not complete. There is no love to give when none is reserved for you.

ArthurVonL · 2016-12-24T07:06:30+00:00

She is just meat and bones, and you have been brainwashed by this society, you are bluepill, start swallowing redpills(a lot). And turn into a man.

lollipoopex · 2016-12-24T17:10:10+00:00

Thats because all your instincts tell you to do something impossible. It is hard to go against your (human/male) nature, but you have to focus on yourself and what is possible for you to do. Don't ever chase after false hopes.

I don't suggest you to abandon your female friend but try to take a break from seeing/communicating with her too often and focus on yourself.

AdolfSchmitler · 2016-12-24T17:15:13+00:00

Don't kill yourself, be patient, it'll happen eventually. In the meantime I suggest searching for something that makes the pain of existence tolerable. With the extra money you have not being wasted on a woman, try a shitload of different things. At the very least, watch the craziness in the world as a spectator, it's a bit better than cable.

victor_knight · 2016-12-24T04:07:28+00:00

If you want kids, get money and then a surrogate. Fuck prostitutes (excluding girlfriends and wives). Stay alive.

TacosEverySaturday · 2016-12-24T05:34:11+00:00

"Tough character lasts, tough times don't"

You're stronger than you were yesterday, stronger than you were 10 years ago. From now til when you die, you're going to be constantly trying to better yourself. To become stronger

So get your head out of your ass and;

Know your self, know your worth (niggaaa) and fucking own that shit

soothslayer2k · 2016-12-24T05:57:22+00:00

Hang in there OP. Your life is valuable.

I think you are projecting that a great life includes a woman. But love is fleeting and it can quickly turn to resentment. It's not worth the investment and it's quite rare in society. If you play the "if only I..." game, you will get stuck in a negative loop.

True happiness comes from freedom and pursuing one's passion, hence MGTOW.

Many of us have been with lots of women and it never brought us contentment, just hassles.

Once you digest the red pill, you will understand that women are not special and they are just following their biological drive.

SirWallaceII · 2016-12-24T06:31:39+00:00

dm me

scorched_throwaway · 2016-12-24T08:04:33+00:00

i feel for you, sincerely.

..though curious, between the 4 hamsters.. can you tell the differences between them..

sounds like all of mens lives..

best be focused on yourself and live your life for you.. oh.. ..and,

FUCK HAMSTERS!

Stridaar · 2016-12-24T10:21:08+00:00

You cant mov forward with your life if you dont get rid of girl 1 out of your life. Just fkin delete her, ask yourself why you're so hung up on someone that doesn't care. Just cut her out. Never talk to her again. DEAL WITH IT.

nexus974 · 2016-12-24T13:09:22+00:00

I've been where you are. I've also been in love with a female friend who has always been kind to me but I'm just not her type. It's a difficult reality to live with, I know. But here are the facts... She wasn't, is not, and never will be sexually attracted to you. There is nothing you can do to change that. You can't negotiate attraction. You need to break off all contact with her forever. Staying in her orbit just reopens the same wounds over and over again and you just keep feeling bad about yourself. I strongly urge you to read the works of Rollo Tomassi. His book "The Rational Male" can be a huge help to you.
He also has a blog with the same name I think you may find helpful. Stop pursuing women. You are a doormat and women can sense that. They have zero respect for any man they can walk all over. You need to take and internalize the Red Pill. Rollo's works will help you there. Invest in yourself. Focus on your passions, hobbies, and interests. Explore a bit. Learn some new skills. Take a dance class. Learn a different language. Go on a singles cruise. Get out there and enjoy life. You only have one life so live it. Everything I tell you is simple but not easy, I know. Letting go when you've been so emotionally invested for so many years will be the hardest most painful thing you'll ever do. But I'm telling you it can be done and you will be better off for it in the long run. If you need help and guidance come here or to MGTOW.com. Most MGTOW, myself included, are always willing to lend a helping hand to a man in need. Best of luck to you brother. You are welcome to DM if you like.

pheosenpai · 2016-12-24T15:33:25+00:00

After reading all the posts in this sub, if you still feel like killing your self please kindly show us your unicorn!! I will take her blessing

101% sure you won't cause AWALT

enlightenedmgtow · 2016-12-25T03:05:03+00:00

Look man, I get it. I've been there. I wanted badly the validation from women for all my life. I moved to a new city to move with a single mother because that's how desperate I was. There is sooo much more to life than women. Do not kill yourself. Try everything, no matter how stupid you or society think it is. Pottery classes, yoga, ballet, who the fuck cares. If you find your passion, you wake up with a purpose in life. No women can provide that for you. SHE WILL LEAVE. Your passion for a hobby doesn't. I thought Swing dancing was stupid. I said fuck it, I'll try it. And I ended up loving it and resurging my love for dance. I wake up every morning excited for practice. Life gets better. PM me if you need to.

Shiprecker · 2016-12-24T10:39:58+00:00

Look up "Self-Validation", it's one of the best things to learn to use in going you own way. Learn to not require approval from women or anyone for that matter to be happy. Find happiness and validation internally.

BooDoug · 2016-12-24T07:56:23+00:00

pursuing yourself

s0ma_ · 2016-12-24T22:03:35+00:00

turn your back; go find who you are

Title	Confession.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	20
Comments	49
Date	December 24, 2016 2:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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FUCK HAMSTERS!