Summary: if you're practicing sexual strategy effectively, these situations tend to manifest themselves in your life. Watch for them and aspire towards them.

1. You lose track of your plates.

You often go through your phone and say to yourself "oh I haven't talked to her lately," or alternatively a girl you've been with texts you and you think "Oh yeah. Her. I want to fuck her again." This occurs if you've properly cultivated not only an abundance mentality but actual sexual abundance in your life.

2. You start raising the bar for tinder dates.

Coffee dates become too easy and boring so you graduate to her coming over directly. That becomes boring so you graduate to her coming over and getting tipsy. That becomes somewhat too easy so you advance to getting girl to come over to drink while wearing the shortest dress she owns. Soon she'll be bringing her friends with her.

3. You love women and laugh at betas.

You absolutely laugh at the pitiful state of the betas you observe in your life and in the general population around you. Meanwhile you love women as the infinite sexual resources they are, the pleasure and fun and entertainment they willingly provide, and the endearing way in which they are helplessly victim to their female nature.

4. You find the concept of monogamy bewildering.

The idea of agreeing with a woman to not put your dick into another woman's mouth or vagina becomes a bewildering and laughable proposition and you wondered why you ever engaged in monogamous relationships in the past.

5. You spend almost nothing on women.

You might grab coffee and a bagel down the street in the morning with a girl who spent the night with you, but the idea of taking a girl out to dinner who you haven't fucked 20+ times and who's birthday it's not is a complete joke.

6. You never ask yourself "what should I say to this girl?"

You just blurt out whatever sentiments come to your mind because you can act authentically and seamlessly from an existing state of abundance and IDGAF.

7. You experience no resentment towards the idea of a girl you like fucking another man.

It might not be the most immediately natural response, but when confronted with the idea of a girl you see dating another man you don't wince with jealousy but can adopt a "she's a free bird and I respect that" attitude quickly.

8. You've adopted a YOLO/cost-of-doing-business attitude about STDs.

You use necessary levels of birth control to absolutely minimize the chances that you will impregnate someone, but you are totally adjusted and even comfortable with the fact that if you're going to sleep with anywhere from 1-4 new women per month, you may get some sort of bug from it and it's not anything close to the end of the world if you do.

9. You view all women and expendable / disposable / replaceable.

You cling to no single woman but see all women as a sort of collective amorphous biomass that you can engage with at your leisure.

10. You love and respect women but put your convenience above theirs every single time.

Women are human beings and human beings, while not intrinsically valuable, can provide immense value to your life. What is an attractive warm body with a wet hole is also a full human being with an intimate personal life, goals, dreams, family relationship, tender moments in nature, insights, etc. All of this can be embraced and appreciated. However, the best and most valuable human being in the world is you and you will always serve yourself before you will become a servant of anyone else.

Lessons learned: see above.