My ex, who helped create me, MGTOW2014, called to talk, after 7 months.

Paladin2903 · 2016-10-07T01:29:55+00:00

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Dark_Shroud · 2016-10-07T01:10:44+00:00

Sounds like she got dumped

2016-10-07T01:15:29+00:00

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2045_revolution · 2016-10-07T01:31:28+00:00

She is trying to set you up as a backup. Women need a backup male.

FraterGGNM · 2016-10-07T01:42:45+00:00

Shut it down now. The reason she wants to talk now is because you have your shit together and you have more that she can take. Don't forget why you went MGTOW to begin with, brother.

DigitalDegenerate · 2016-10-07T01:36:35+00:00

Can't tell you to jump or not jump, but it sounds like she's looking for energy to drain. She's talking friendly and happy right now, but it's just an act.

Law 10 Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

Wallstreet3 · 2016-10-07T01:04:30+00:00

She sees how well you are doing and wants in on it. That is why women want to keep in touch.

feedmecarrots · 2016-10-07T01:22:33+00:00

I had one that wanted to start over after two years. Without looking too deeply into it, I figured that she couldn't do any better. I wasn't going to go back as she had dumped me. Whiel I don't know your situation, that may be all there is to it.

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-10-07T01:27:50+00:00

what do you really miss about her? her wonderful stories? pfft.

2016-10-07T01:39:57+00:00

Don't get in contact with her. She will try to rope you back in, since she senses you are more together than you were before.

2016-10-07T03:41:36+00:00

Dude.... look at my username.

Don't Have Sex With The Ex Don't speak to the Ex Don't look at the Ex Don't INTERACT with the Ex

Now... go and bang a hooker. ;)

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-10-07T01:48:41+00:00

Next time she calls, laugh and hang up. There's nothing else to do.

Menacism · 2016-10-07T02:46:08+00:00

This is extremely common. First, don't listen to anything she says unless she admitting to her faults. Second, keep doing and living your life. That's what made her come back. Don't change anything and out her on a pedestal. If she left or cheated on you. Havr fun but don't settle down with her because she is defective merchandise. I will take a woman back and I am with her now. I made her prove herself. Now she treats me great. She is always trying to please me. It's pretty wonderful. But that's how it's done. Otherwise, she will use you for sex and entertainment until someone else strolls along. You gotta set the hook. Make her want it to work for you both.

2016-10-07T01:16:39+00:00

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2016-10-07T02:31:13+00:00

Try to figure out why you are intrigued and then dont hesitate to kill what psychologically causes it. Do you have self destructive tendencies and like to replay dysfunctional behaviors? Not being a prick here, trying to help you out.

Dont be like me...I used to take back women I dumped all the time. When you leave a relationship you need to destroy it like a gang hit: 2 shots to the chest and one to the head so to speak.

wildfireboat · 2016-10-07T02:31:51+00:00

Her: "I missed you(r resources)!!!"

genethedog · 2016-10-07T02:34:10+00:00

What are your ages?

Remember something. No matter how she acted (probably aloof and friendly like it's not a big deal) it was a big deal. She has been thinking about you for at least a few days. And the hamster starts running and she finally convinces herself that she can "do this" without you suspecting anything. That in itself is fucking insulting. But whatever he motives, just remember it took a lot of hamstering to work up the nerve because she knew there was a big risk of rejection. Of course if you were rude she would have just said something like "see, you haven't changed, you need to man up". Good on ya for playing along a bit. Just don't get sucked into this and get your own hamster all riled up. Could have been dumped, lonely, horny, testing the waters for a come back, seeing if you're single, seeing if you're doing well/better (but not because of her concern for you). As a matter of fact, it was probably a bit of all of those reasons.

She's a bit restless and lonely and you're in her brain and she just can't NOT follow that path. She's DYING to know. DYING to feel you out. Dying to see if you're still dying for her. Dying to see if she gets feelz and tinglz from you now. It's all of it and that's why it doesn't make sense and no matter how you try and pin it down she's going to keep moving the target because if there's one thing she'd LOVE to do is find a reason to justify her leaving in the first place.

It's the very definition of Hypergamy. It's bugging her and they just can't help but look/eat the apple/indulge her hedonistic and Machiavellian desires. She just has to try and remind herself that she thinks the grass is still greener so she can liver with herself, her poor choices, and her failure.

2016-10-07T01:15:10+00:00

She had better men than you (in her mind) but she couldn't grab on to the branch.

You being the lesser man (according to her) she wants to 'talk' which is she-speak for 'give you another chance' - how she is selling it to her girlfriends.

Tough love but if you accept the cunt - you are the one blowjob away blue piller mgtow warns other men of.

One chance per woman per lifetime.

RationalistFaith1 · 2016-10-07T03:37:00+00:00

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TheUniverseis2D · 2016-10-07T04:50:47+00:00

Whatever you do put your interests first. Don't feel sorry for her and prioritize her needs. It's a trap.

Teflon0819 · 2016-10-07T05:17:48+00:00

You'd have to have zero self-respect to get back together with a woman who originally initiated the divorce and then came crawling back.

IronPimpernel · 2016-10-07T05:36:13+00:00

Short answers are good. Silence is better. If she speaks for longer than fifteen uninterrupted seconds, cut her off sharply and say "Hang on, why are you calling?". Let her spin like a top and hang up when you're sufficiently entertained.

T0000009 · 2016-10-07T06:06:59+00:00

Ignore.. ghost... Break contact...

Then have a brew and laugh!

ArthurVonL · 2016-10-07T06:14:31+00:00

Run, it's a trap.

2016-10-07T06:17:43+00:00

Don't waste your time.

2016-10-07T07:15:12+00:00

Fool me once...

2016-10-07T08:12:35+00:00

Block her number

User-31f64a4e · 2016-10-07T09:42:15+00:00

You don't need her.
She already proved her unreliability.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

FuckTOW · 2016-10-07T09:52:48+00:00

She's attention seeking mate, you don't actually mean anything to her. There's no love. She's making you the fallback guy. I get this from my ex's. The closer they get to the wall the more desperate they become. If you are at a balanced place mentally etc at the moment, the best route would be to ignore and carry on with your life. If you want to play games, use her for sex etc you should respond. But make sure you don't have any feelings for this broad if you go down the game playing route. Use her and kick her to the curb once you're done. The better option would be the first one but I've been guilty of going down the replying route and it's more trouble than that pussy is worth.

2016-10-07T10:02:18+00:00

Advice is ignore the fuck out of her. All that path leads to is pain.

Title	My ex, who helped create me, MGTOW2014, called to talk, after 7 months.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	18
Comments	61
Date	October 7, 2016 1:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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