Setting aside the Blue Pill sub and it's circle jerk of laughs. I can see why there is contempt for the MGTOW crowd and why some are quick to label it Alt-Right, bigoted, or other bullshit.

All power and morality is artificial unless it is backed up by violence or the threat of violence. And it's just about not being punished for those who obey it. Men detaching from society but not breaking the law, is not something other people can really control at this time. To control men who MGTOW but don't break the law with something other than shame, accusations, and other feels bullshit, would require stepping on lots of personal liberties and revealing society as a shame when it comes to freedom and liberty. And men can only be pushed too far before they righteously rebel. We've seen it in the Ukraine, we've seen it France once upon a time, we saw it in Russia and how it created the USSR. So no one really wants to push men too far, but they still want to push men.

To take this farther though, those consider themselves power brokers and in possession of power. Get very upset when others don't live by their rules and their expectations. In business I've seen this more than a few times. I literally got a job last Friday (supposed to be part-time as an attorney earning $55 an hour up to 24 hours a week on my flextime) and quit on Monday at one in the afternoon. I was polite about it and the non-lawyer business owner was very upset.

He wrote me a nasty email and it was full of cringe. What really cinched leaving the job was the way the guy acted. Full of himself, insulting to me, and demanding respect for his power that his pay just didn't afford him. He's called me and emailed since Monday with more hillarity. I only respond "I disagree with your statements completely and wholly." To his three and four page emails. In ten seconds I render his rant bitch fest fruitless.

His gripe is that I'm unprofessional and that my other part-time gig shouldn't interfere with my ability to work on the clock for him based on his expectations. The other part-time gig pays more by the way, I just like to juggle as much as possible because nothing lasts forever so you take in as much money as you can so that when things slow down, you can enjoy the down-time without sweating your bills.

But at the end of the day IDGAF. I'm about what's in it for me. How much I'm getting paid, and how even though I'm getting paid for the gig, I'm still positioned to make money doing something else as well. This doesn't work for him as he's too small and too pathetic to put me in a position to succeed, and thus he is expendable and that is what is really upsetting him. He can't find the punching bag he's looking for and he acts out because of it rather than respect the resource in front of him. Also, he acted like the typical abusive boyfriend/girlfriend type so that really put me off once I realized he was trying to pigeon hole me in a way that wasn't not ultimately beneficial to me.

To him, I'm the bad guy because I don't accept his offering and forsake everything else that is of value to me. I don't sacrifice my happiness and welfare for his gain. I'm only interested in looking out for myself and my future. This is an issue I've seen before in other would-be players and power brokers. How they get upset with me when I serve only my own interests and not sacrifice for theirs. How they complain, how they get upset, how they consider my sole interest disrespect to them. I'm only interested in the money, not the drama, not the credibility. And that annoys them, and that ticks them off. Because it means they can't use me unless they sufficiently reward me. And in today's world, people only want to reward value and hard work as little as humanly possibly while demanding and expecting excellence. Only a few know how to measure value and intelligently reward it.

And that's where MGTOW is seeing it's contempt for it. Society has expectations on how men are supposed to act and behave. And more and more men, especially among Millenials just aren't doing that. The older generations are upset that Millienials are more risk and investment adverse that prior generations. How they are more spending conscious than their parents and not willing to spend their lives in hoc to banks and rich people who shit on them and exploit them.

And if you are a man, one of the easiest ways to end up in hoc is to marry a woman who has expectations of using your wealth as her own. For her dreams, her home, her life. Because most women are terrible and have unrealistic expectations about the future. I've seen this when out with a buddy of mine (friends since kindergarten) who is a doctors. The female doctors are either dating older doctors (32 year old dating a 50 year old), single and bitchy, or married to guys who aren't doctors (some of whom are happily married by all appearances). The married ones seem to have their heads on straight and choose their run their households off one income while working to squirrel away the other income to avoid middle age unemployment that is harmful. The rest are horrible and all too quick to try and shame the guys in the group for not dating female doctors and instead dating younger women in other professions such as school teachers and nurses.

And why this urge to shame, to act like entitled cunts, because these post-wall women doctors who didn't find a husband when they were young and beautiful. Demand and want the single and successful men to sacrifice for them with less return and reward for said sacrifice. That it's not fair for these male doctors to not consider female doctors for marriage till said male doctors are in their late forties or early fifties (it's a common thing I found out for doctors in their mid-to-late forties to marry female doctors in their early thirties). Because it doesn't fit what they want, what they need, what they feel they are entitled to. If the men don't "man up" what are they supposed to do. Marry down and being warm and loving partners?

MGTOW is about waking up and realizing that binding yourself to the artificial social morality in place is not optimal for you. That being selfless and sacrificing is how you end up someone else's sucker. And that once you understand the value of pussy, it's not something you should sacrifice your life, happiness, and time for. It either comes to you or it doesn't. It's like planting a garden and seeing bees appear. A good garden, being your life, will attract many bees. Whether or not you consider allowing the bees to remain is up to you but in today's day and age of pollination and fertilization alternatives, you don't really need bees.

The elites and powerful need men desperate, and unorganized. Only fulfilling their happiness with base consumerism and chasing after goals set by others. If men actually woke up and realized their true power as a consumer, as creators of wealth, and gatekeepers of power. Then they'd have more the world they wanted. But for now, most men can only go their own way. And for many, that is enough. And the critics and haters hate that. Because that enough for those men who go their own way, is not enough for them, nowhere near enough.