Men are expected to "just settle"

feedmecarrots · 2016-11-15T11:40:14+00:00

If you are doing online dating, their demands are through the roof. It was because of online dating that I found myself here, looking for answers. Yes, we are expected to "settle" because they believe themselves to be dominant in the sexual marketplace. It is as if they believe they are in "seller's market". It will go on like this until the bottom falls out of the market, just like in real estate. However, while the stock market is like a speedboat and the real estate market is like a supertanker, the SMP is an order of magnitude less responsive.

DJDizhna · 2016-11-15T12:38:45+00:00

After Brexit and Trump, the world is turning on its head. Those calling people like us misogynists and chauvinists are getting found out by the second, just like those idiots that call Trump supporters racist, sexist, homophobe, Islamophobe, etc. Women will luck out one day, and trust me, the are FUCKING miserable when they do. #whymenwillruletheworld

armaadi · 2016-11-15T14:15:00+00:00

Soon as girls go through puberty, or even before that, they get male attention. They are told men are always "On", therefore, very little effort on her part is ever needed to snag a guy. Due to the sheer amount of attention she gets, she believes it. She doesn't think a guy can ever not be in the mood or ever turn down an advance. To be fair, unless the girl is a shebeast, it's decently true. Until she hits mid-late 20's or early 30's. Suddenly, she runs into a guy that turns her down for whatever, and this completely shatters her world.

That's why women don't handle rejection terribly well. If she does handle it, she might actually be fairly mature or she's had her own share of rejection. Beautiful girls, though, hardly ever have to deal with this. Turn one of them down and watch the fireworks.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-11-15T14:52:43+00:00

Women believe that they are the dating deciders. All attractive men are expected to approach and impress her, and it's her job to accept or reject. When you reject a woman, you go against the narrative in her head.

Some key elements of the princess narrative: She sits pretty on her throne in her court, and princes from around the world show up with gold and diamonds and impressive feats of strength and intellect. All she has to do is sit and watch the men line up.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2016-11-15T12:25:39+00:00

Really? I don't think so. I've rejected and ignored enough females without any kind of judgement being called upon me. Maybe it's cause I live in Eastern-Europe?

Incapaisa · 2016-11-15T18:12:07+00:00

its not to strange to see a fat bitch with a slim or in shape man.. The thirst is real and this man..just "settled"

Rarely you see a in shape or slim woman with a fat nigga.. If you do..he makes good money and has significant resources. but a fat nigga with average job..never...

Dudes sticking the fatties are keeping the demands of this pigs high.. just is how it is

Zombocom1911 · 2016-11-15T19:06:00+00:00

That's why its better to just ghost them instead of reject them. They can't handle knowing you just aren't that interested in her.

solaceFromSolitude · 2016-11-15T20:17:45+00:00

There are many interesting points in connection to this. One man here mentioned he is from Eastern Europe, never having experienced tantrums after rejecting a woman.

I have travelled Eastern Europe quite a lot. The Soviet Union was only a generation away. Many of the cultural aspects of feminity still apply.

Simple things like diet are mayor factors in the looks of these women. Soup. Some potatoes. Some peppers or tomatoes from the garden. Pickled foods in winter. These women have not yet had a chance to lead an extremely unhealthy lifestyle and it shows in their bodies.

Also, Eastern European women are much more traditionally competitive among one another. They want to be models. Most of them think they are (they are not, but they look better than most American women for instance).

The whole market dynamics are different there. Even considering the men. The competition among men is rather low. There are few well earning jobs and the best earning jobs, certainly in Russia are those that involve high doses of corruption or other crime related activities. The working class men I found to be willingly lazy. Alphas living on their couches drinking all day, letting their women do everything, even the work. It did not strike me as a very honourable thing to do, but hey, those were by blue-pill days.

Fact of the matter is, in much of Eastern Europe women still need men to provide for them. They desire strong men and are willing to do everything they can to be beautiful and nourishing to them.

baptized-in-flames · 2016-11-15T18:56:30+00:00

Women's perception of their own SMW has become wildly skewed. I blame the feminist movement. It tells women that they are beautiful no matter how obese, and that men "just can't handle" a "curvy" woman.

It doesn't help that there are so many thirsty males out there who are willing to settle. Bottom line, women's egos have become so inflated, it's not even worth any self-respecting man's time just to get a whiff of that smelly pussy.

monarcho · 2016-11-15T12:23:21+00:00

even beyond physical stuff, women will be much more attracted to you if you think that they're stupid and annoying.

Not only do they want every aspect of the dating process to be absolutely miserable for men, but they want any potential relationship that follows to be awful for the man as well.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy

sadbasturd99 · 2016-11-15T18:16:16+00:00

what is that movie where Demi Moore gets mad cause that Douglas guy wont bang her ? This is how women act when you turn them down.

socketcrown · 2016-11-16T11:40:04+00:00

Right but I can do same and I won't "settle" and will cross-shame for trying to "shame" me to settle

geocitiesuser · 2016-11-16T07:02:20+00:00

who gives a fuck if woman are offended?

does not even matter in the least.

Folwart · 2016-11-16T07:36:51+00:00

They can settle on my nuts, then get in that kitchen and make me a ham sammich.

geocitiesuser · 2016-11-16T16:01:56+00:00

This is 40% of what pushed me towards MGTOW op. It is fucking ABSURD the double standard. Bunch of fat land whales with blue hair trying to make me feel inadequate, fuck that noise. Nothing makes me more angry.

MrTubz · 2016-11-16T20:20:37+00:00

Here's a perfect example of this, I didn't even have to look far - browsing CL Ads [don't judge till you try, it works for NSA] nevertheless i found this ad: https://gyazo.com/9f96ba49a2def6c8caca9938236afe1a

This behavior is very typical of women and i'm still to understand why, Basically she's a short fat-chick and describes herself as being voluptous (not BBW, there's a difference) meanwhile is searching for a guy who isn't heavy because there could be "health issues" - but wait a minute, couldn't these same health issues apply to her? lol

Title	Men are expected to "just settle"
Author	MrTubz
Upvotes	34
Comments	37
Date	November 15, 2016 10:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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