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Emotional Emasculation!

Datson_Horrenbrand

June 16, 2015

10 upvotes

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https://redmalehummingbird.wordpress.com/2015/06/16/emotional-emasculation/

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Title	Emotional Emasculation!
Author	Datson_Horrenbrand
Upvotes	10
Comments	24
Date	June 16, 2015 9:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/3a350g/emotional_emasculation/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/emotional-emasculation.626560 https://theredarchive.com/post/626560

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[–]scarredlife11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago* (22 children) | Copy Link

Once you've taken the red pill you can see through all that forced on emotions ridiculously easy. It's hilarious how you basically understand everything related to female behavior whereas blue pill men portray female nature as a mystery. It's not a mystery; women are extremely simple and their behavior is a repeating patern and also far from being honorable; I find it disgusting sometimes.

That's one reason why I can't fall in love with a woman anymore; I know about her manipulation and mind games. You can see it as her natural way to gain power and influence.

The red pill truly is a gift from men to men. I'd still bring shame over myself by acting like a deluded hopeless romantic if I didn't come across the manosphere. I don't exaggerate when I say that my rebirth got initiated by the manosphere. I owe much to every guy who helped me in my awakening.

edit: spelling correction

[–]Morranaii6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

[–]scarredlife4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]thrownaway_MGTOW3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]drkstrs3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I think they can be equal in most things because physical labor is now no longer a requirement for most people. This levels the field. Women can think just as well as men if they overcome the immense baggage of their past privileged passive roles and are no longer coddled, worshipped, protected or afforded victim status. It also means men must stop rewarding them based on sex appeal alone. The massive industry of female sex appeal should be devalued. Of course they will do anything they can to try to keep these privileges but real equality means they must give them up. It's a long road and I actually think MGTOW thinking is a kind of push for true equality and accountability. Many women will fail, just as many men fail, with no safety net. All we have to do is give them no privilege or aid we would not give to a fellow man. Never indulge hyper emotionality or shaming tactics. Instead expose them and ignore them for it. It really falls on us as much to not validate bad or obsolete behavior, and to refuse to serve as utilities for them.

[–]Morranaii1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]scarredlife2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]thrownaway_MGTOW4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

the saddening feeling that I wont be ever able to have a equal relationship with a girl.

I don't think that -- the so called "equal relationship" (or "relationship of two equals") -- was ever actually a real thing.

Nor do I think that it would be any sort of "ideal" even if it did exist (and I draw from the example of the business world, that 50/50 equal partnerships are known to be fundamentally disastrous in terms of structure and how it actually plays out; better to have even an upfront 51/49 {or 60/40} arrangement).

Because otherwise, it is invariably going to end up with "deadlock" -- with the so called "partners" then engaging in either a manipulation/trickery, or else outright intimidation (i.e. whoever shouts the loudest, or plays the dirtiest... wins).

This is one point that I am in full agreement with something discussed over on TRP -- every "relation-ship" (just like any other "ship") needs to have ONE and only one "Captain", the spouse can then function as a "first officer" (aka "Exec") and has extensive authority via delegation, but NOT the ability to "veto" or deadlock a situation.

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