Have you ever denied sex from a woman?

lostapwbm · 2016-07-25T18:35:47+00:00

RowdyRoddyPiper · 2016-07-25T20:27:25+00:00

Yes, I reject them when they are drunk.

T0000009 · 2016-07-25T21:38:17+00:00

Have you ever denied sex from a woman?

Yes, many times over the years.

What was her reaction?

Storming off, insults, screaming, crying, demands, pleading, threats, accusations, and a lot of other kinds of off the charts stupidity.

Teflon0819 · 2016-07-25T20:35:22+00:00

Not just sex, but any prospect of developing a relationship with them that they initiate, the reaction is always similar. Considering how foreign rejection generally is to women, they tend not to take it well.

They seem to go through a checklist of rationalizations whenever they encounter rejection.

Is he already in a relationship?
Is he gay?
Does he have a small dick?
Is he sure he isn't gay?
He must be intimidated by how perfect I am.

And of course her rationalizations get validated, because 10 seconds later she finds a thirsty beta who would give his life for a chance to lick the grime out from under her toenails.

sir_wankalot_here · 2016-07-25T20:07:37+00:00

If it was a chick I picked up from the bar. Claims I am gay, she is insulted my dick didn't get hard right away, how horny she was, I should do something about it. Couple of chicks accused me of being gay.

Anyway I just fucked them so they would shutup.

I was in a coupe of long term threesome relationships. Basically that consisted of fucking for a couple of days straight. After a couple of days, I would get tired. The two women would then bitch at me, that they need me to get things going. I would tell them I am tired.I would then say why don't just the two of them have sex together if they are horny. Nope they need me to get things going, it is no fun without me. Then they noth would start nagging on me. Eventually I would get things going so they would shut the fuck up.

Standard complaint usually is, men can get horny when ever they want. Women only get horny sometimes, therefore I should fuck them when ever they want. If I didn't fuck them right away, they feel rejected etc.

Related topic. I got stalked twice. I have no fucking idea why. One of the chicks was pretty good looking, all the other guys wanted to fuck her. It started with hints that I should come over to her place. Then she started to find out when I was working, would try and follow me home from work etc.

Anyway, everyone thought it was really funny I was getting stalked. General consensus was she is pretty good looking, i should fuck her. It actually was pretty scary.

I like talking to women and stuff. But I am fed up with their psycho behavior and I am much more careful now.

MuscleCarz · 2016-07-26T02:45:29+00:00

Yep.

Years ago, I used to check out this chick at parties and get-togethers that was a girlfriend of a friend of my friend. When we'd hang out, she'd see me looking at her once in awhile and could tell I was checking her out, but out of respect, I kept to myself and never made a move or even talked to her one on one.

A few weeks after the last time we were in each other's presence, my friend says this guy (her boyfriend) has had a pretty bad motorcycle accident, was pretty banged-up (shattered leg, broken arm/full-cast) and was recouperating at home..

Shortly after hearing this news, I'm just puttering around my place, and who drives up? You guessed it, it's her, with a bottle of wine in hand and very, very short shorts and mid-cut top (no bra).

She asked if she could hang out and share her wine and weed with me.

Having been cheated on in the past, all I could think of was how cruel she was being, monkey-branching while her boyfriend is in pain and needing her support. I just said I was getting ready to leave and had important stuff to do. She looked at me like I had fucking lobsters coming out of my ears, couldn't believe I didn't take the bait.

That's one of the first times I really realized just how insidiously cold and calculating women can be.

Saintmyname · 2016-07-25T21:59:49+00:00

I once denied a chick the sixth round of sex in a day marathon we were having and she cracked one of my ribs. She thought it was funny as hell.

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-07-26T01:15:17+00:00

A few times. But one of my favorite reactions was that she ripped at my pants, grabbed my dick, tried sucking it, etc... I would call this sexual assault or attempted rape, but we all know women can't and don't do that sort of thing, and if a man did something like this to a woman, no one would mind, right?

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-07-25T19:25:12+00:00

Yes, several times. The ones that I had zero interest in usually went on rants and called me names. The ones that I had been sleeping with but just didn't want to at that moment usually fucked much more enthusiastically the next time.

genethedog · 2016-07-25T22:20:01+00:00

There was this chick that was going out with an acquaintance of mine. Yes I feel kind of like a shit but that is another story and this was a long time ago.

Anyway, she's usually turn up at the bar I frequented. Whether she was with the guy or not, she'd always sit with me and we'd drink and talk and always seemed to have a good time. Over a few months we were like really good friends. We'd look forward to meeting up and hanging out.

Well this one night (he wasn't there) and she seemed distressed and said she didn't want to go home. She was pretty adamant about it so (being a horny white knight mangina) I got us a hotel room. We had a good time. Great time. Some of the best sex. Man she could suck a dick too. What a body. She'd let me do anything. And then when it was all over she'd start crying about how her BF was going to find out and I'd end up having to try and console her for a few minutes until I got annoyed and told her no one knows anything.

A few weeks go by, again, same thing, she shows up, we get a room, have fun, then guilt crying and me leaving.

This happens a third time.

This one night she comes in, she's a bit more drunk than usual and being feisty. Says straight up we're "hooking up" that night. But I couldn't. I had to catch an early flight for work and was about to leave. And that's what I told her. At first she played the cute girl. Started touching me and going "oh cmon, let's go" and I was really honest and told her I'd love too but i can't tonight. Next time, I said. Well right in the Boston Pizza she starts raising her voice. "You're saying no to ME!" And I'm like "Yeah, keep it down, I have to work, it's not personal" she escillates "You're saying no to ME! there's no way you're saying no to me, who do you think you are" by this time the bartenders can hear and see and so can most everyone else in the place. And for reference, this wasn't some seedy shithole where the hookers and drunks go, it was a Boston Pizza. There wasn't loud music or anything. A fucking game was on.

So I kinda laugh and she gets RIGHT pissed. "You're gonna laugh at me!?" and I'm like "Wtf if your problem, I said not tonight" and went and payed my tab and she was fuming. I had to walk past her on the way out and she tool one last crack by grabbing me and trying to kiss me and I'm standing there looking at everyone watching and I just said "look I'm sorry not tonight" and left.

It's funny, a few weeks later, she's back and this time I said "hey, want to get a room tonight" and holy shit. She had this look on her face that was total delusional denial. Acting like that's never happened and she looks at me with disgust and goes "no, what are you talking about, fuck off"

That was the end of that. But I'll never forget her mouth ass and pussy. She was a tall blonde that looked strikingly like Kristen Johnston from 3rd Rock From The Sun. Not the way she looks now, this was 10 years ago.

I later found out that she had blown 2 of my buddies in the bathroom. Not at the same time.

Not one of my proudest moments but it was a good time - but HOLY FUCK. Rejection is NOT something they handle well. Not even when it's a perfectly valid excuse with a raincheck on offer. What a story. I was sure that the acquaintance would have heard about it from someone but I guess the bartenders have really good zippers for mouths. I never heard about it.

Can you imagine if a man did that? I'd have been dead.

rebuildingMyself · 2016-07-25T21:35:54+00:00

After a really childish argument with the (at the time) gf, she randomly walks up to me and starts sloppy kissing me. I figured she wanted to fuck the recent memory of her acting like a six year old out of me. Too bad. I never was more turned off to her in my life than at that moment, so I pushed her away (gently as to not give her hamster a false rape accusation).

Make-up sex happens after you make up, genius.

As for her reaction, it was typical. Pout, start crying, turtle up under the covers in bed, etc.

Mojo_666 · 2016-07-25T20:54:13+00:00

Yes loads over the years, not had major bad reaction mind, just sulking n shit.

Benny757 · 2016-07-25T21:01:41+00:00

Yep denied my x wife on our wedding night. I was too drunk and tired. She cried.

saruin · 2016-07-25T23:59:51+00:00

Not a good story but the first time I did was hard to forget. At the time I've never had a girlfriend, much less think about doing those kinds of things with a girl. A random girl approached me and told me her friend wanted to have sex with me (that was at a fair distance away) and asked to write down my phone number for her. I was so shocked and froze for a few good seconds until I decided to write down a number anyways. She wasn't that attractive which may or may not have influenced why I gave her my friend's name and number instead of mine.

I think deep down I knew I wouldn't be able to go through with it anyways but I'd like to think I was being somewhat polite not walking away completely.

openmindedprometheus · 2016-07-26T00:12:51+00:00

I actually just did this. I've never been pursued so hard in my life. Actually worried where this is going.

victor_knight · 2016-07-25T22:59:02+00:00

Yes, and I didn't care.

RowdyRoddyPiper · 2016-07-25T23:56:29+00:00

Sure. I thought 'hell hath no fury' was just a saying until the last few years...

2016-07-26T01:32:28+00:00

Women respond with emotional abuse and rape, or it would be classified as such if men did it.

General_Fear · 2016-07-26T01:35:19+00:00

Not sex. But a relationship. This woman wanted to be in a relationship with me. When she realized that it was not going to happen, she yelled at me over the phone. Never talked to me again.

justiceavenger · 2016-07-26T09:36:11+00:00

In my senior year of college I friended this woman on facebook I knew since elementary school. She was in my 5th grade class and I think 1 high school class but other then that I just saw in around school and never talked to her. Long story short after meeting me and my friends in person at a place she starts to like me and another friend but we let her know we aren't interested. At one point she sends me a picture of her in a thong saying I can have her and I just said "no thanks I'm good" lol.

YungSwami · 2016-07-25T19:08:58+00:00

Yes, I knew she was burning

Zombocom1911 · 2016-07-25T19:26:29+00:00

Yes, but they are usually never direct about asking for it to begin with, too shy. Reaction was fine because I was very nice about it.

redchords · 2016-07-25T21:23:33+00:00

Called me gay. Loudly.

cynicalsimon · 2016-07-25T22:35:27+00:00

yes. not very often, but yes

2016-07-25T23:02:09+00:00

I've never had a gf that let me deny them.

I-am-the-lul · 2016-07-26T02:03:46+00:00

SEX SEX SEX is all women think about.

PinHunter65 · 2016-07-26T02:21:50+00:00

Long ago when my last relationship was nearing its end. I always tried for sex, and never got any. So then when she wanted it, I turned the tides on her. She freaked out, didnt know what to do.

thecubs · 2016-07-26T02:27:26+00:00

Once it cost me a broken/cracked rib from her elbowing me in my side while I slept as retribution. The first time I was drunk af and woke up inside her. Two different women, to clarify.

SaintNapoleon · 2016-07-26T05:50:50+00:00

Oh my god yes.

She then fell out of my car naked and rolled 20 feet down a hill...

solidsnork · 2016-07-26T04:57:32+00:00

Done it lots of times. Don't have a crazy story though. They just were surprised and pressed the issue but I said no and went my own way.

2016-07-26T08:59:15+00:00

Ive noticed that generally women take rejection worse than men. We expect it but they take for franted the power of the pussy. They feel totally undesirable when rejected. They expect that we would always want it. My reactions havent been aggressive, just victimy

2016-07-26T09:33:09+00:00

Yeah when I was in high school, I was at a party with some older girls. My parents are like super Catholic, they hated when I hung out with girls, but I was like 17 at the time so I wasn't allowed to drink or have a girlfriend yet. I guess I didn't understand but I respected my parents, and I knew they wouldn't be okay with me having sex. At the party some of the older girls were really drunk sluts and it was obvious they were trying to hit on me, but I just politely refused any drinks. They tried to sneak alcohol into my pepsi, fucking stupid whores, if a guy tried to do that to an underage girl he'd be in prison for years. But no when older girls do it its just "teehee having some fun xD".

armaadi · 2016-07-26T14:29:42+00:00

Denied my wife one night, and a little bit later found her crying softly on her side of the bed facing away from me.

2016-07-26T15:55:00+00:00

Yes, I have. They are puzzled at first, then they get very antsy.

TheUniverseis2D · 2016-07-26T16:09:38+00:00

Yeah plenty of times but always for good reason like work/I'm busy with something. A couple of women always respond by sending nudes, like clockwork. Every woman I have ever denied sex ended up blowing up my phone (if she had my number), or begging me for my number (if she doesn't have my phone number)--which they would then proceed to blow up.

They never seem to comprehend my rationale for rejecting them (I'm busy with x). They hear but they don't listen, and assume I'm rejecting them b/c I don't like them or something.

Brokemgtow · 2016-07-29T02:42:06+00:00

Yes i did from a so called "only friend".....

She told me for months she only wanted to be friends, i invited her over, we did some coke drank and dance...eventually we cuddled she started kissing me.... As her hands ran down my pants i told her.

"we can cuddle i dont wanna ruin our friendship no sex" ... She took. It well ......

Woke up in the morning, i sent her away. As soon as she got home i got a call, she said.

" WTF IS WRONG WITH ME DONT YOU FIND ME ATTRACTIVE?"

2016-07-29T08:18:37+00:00

Usually the reaction is pleading, accusation, or faux disdain.

Title	Have you ever denied sex from a woman?
Author	JacksterTrackster
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Date	July 25, 2016 6:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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