Daddies, “Dates,” and the Girlfriend Experience: Welcome to the New Prostitution Economy

lostapwbm · 2016-07-07T21:24:13+00:00

The Times Magazine piece elicited an outcry from some feminists, who charged that it minimized the voices of women who have been trafficked, exploited, or abused.

"Don't ignore our hysterics and appeals to emotion!"

Liesl Gerntholtz, an executive director at Human Rights Watch, characterized the prostitution debate as “the most contentious and divisive issue in today’s women’s movement.” “There’s a lot of fear among feminists of being seen on the wrong side of this topic,” says Natasha Walter, the British feminist author. “I don’t understand how women standing up for legalizing sex work can’t see the ripple effect of taking this position will have on our idea of a woman’s place in the world.”

"My body, my choice...unless you want to offer sexual services. Then you must submit your will to the Cult of Feminism for the good of all Womankind."

“You can’t tell who the hookers are anymore,” says another guy at the bar, a well-known D.J. in his 30s. “They’re not strippers, they’re not on the corner, there’s no more madam. They look like all the other club girls.”

Ding, ding, ding. We've reached that critical mass where you can't tell the hoes from the squares. The squares want to look, dress, and act like hoes, and the hoes want to be treated like squares.

ryeshoes · 2016-07-07T19:01:27+00:00

I've always said this about escorting: it's cheaper than a divorce, and if you aren't addicted/excessive, it's cheaper than a marriage. Hell sometimes it's cheaper than a girlfriend.

Greetings1 · 2016-07-07T21:30:40+00:00

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yellow_black · 2016-07-07T20:18:04+00:00

They used the site voluntarily but are being "exploited"? Got it : I take the cash, you take the blame. As usual.

Legalized prostitution and nothing less is what I'd like to see the world over. No more games.

anmolhume · 2016-07-08T01:33:34+00:00

Most women that do this don't "have to do it". They do it because it's actually easier than having to use their brain and hard work. Easier to spread legs than to actually work. Do these women actually think they will go the "Whore" route then grow up with their degree? Sorry easy money corrupts the mind, you ain't ever gonna get a real job later lets be real. In addition to that, who the phuck would marry some used up whore? Yeah, that's my wife over there, she used to get railed for money. Now that she's used up I support her and let her raise my kids. We all know most women are fucked up, but once they go this route - they are fucked from the core with any relationship they have down the road. You think your ex-whore gf gives a shit about you? LOL

Greetings1 · 2016-07-07T18:46:22+00:00

That was scary as hell to read. This is why I don't do escorts. Imagery like what was painted in that article pops into my head and it makes me sweat. No the fuck thank you.

Arzu1982 · 2016-07-07T19:08:53+00:00

Once this is legalized states-side do you know how far down of a priority Marriages, GF, and Fuglies would go for even Simps and Manginas?

In light of this article, I think this is definitely relevant.

NaughtyFred · 2016-07-07T19:30:40+00:00

Despite the glitzy trappings that's still the sleaziest culture I've ever read about.

JStheHammer · 2016-07-07T18:38:11+00:00

Finally females are being honest.

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2016-07-07T20:59:36+00:00

Man I remember when I was fresh out of college and swimming in debt. Thank goodness this rich older lady took me out to fancy restaurants, bought me designer clothes and fucked my brains out after.

Oh wait - no I just remembered - none of that happened, instead I moved back in with my parents and worked shitty jobs for 10 years.

cynicalsimon · 2016-07-07T21:37:46+00:00

"Is it just an unorthodox way to make ends meet or a new kind of exploitation?"- I wonder who they think is being exploited . FURTHERMORE, the man is being exploited to an infinite limit in this. These girls play dumb and don't open their legs at the rich guys command...but he is paying them an indistinguishable amount of funds, that a whore would receive. The guy is paying a whore, but the whore only opens her legs when she says so.

That is the definition of exploitation. You could literally use that as a prime example for exploitation, in the dictionary.

wordjedi · 2016-07-07T22:42:43+00:00

It just seemed so normal, like no big deal,” says Alisa, 21, one night at Nobu in Los Angeles, a place she’s been with her daddies. She’s talking about how she started sugaring when she was 18. “People kept telling me and my friends, ‘There are rich daddies who will take care of you.’ ”

I've always wondered what would replace old school 1950s marriage. Nature abhors a vacuum I guess..

If more and more guys MGTOW away from 2016 cuck-marriage, seems likely more and more women will turn to P4P because let's face it, even if they go to college in record numbers nowadays they still hate working for a living.

hollybegin · 2016-07-07T22:25:52+00:00

"I reject it when people say I’m oppressed by the patriarchy. People who make seven dollars an hour are oppressed by the patriarchy.”

Not bad! Not bad at all...

CaptainStardust · 2016-07-08T01:08:02+00:00

“If prostitution is really just physical labor,” says the Canadian feminist writer and prostitution abolitionist, Meghan Murphy, on the phone, “if it’s no different than serving coffee or fixing a car, then why would we see rape as such a traumatic thing? If there’s nothing different about sex, then what’s so bad about rape?”

Exactly, rape is the most overblown and over-exaggerated crime ever.

LordPorker · 2016-07-08T13:32:55+00:00

I really don't see how young men could marry a complete stranger anymore. I've always been overly cautious, too much really. When I read articles like this, I just don't see how young guys can trust young women. In the past, people married young, but today, there is so much time for people to accrue so much more baggage in their life. With the way media pushes sex a just something to do, it isn't shocking these young women are doing this.

If this gets worse, I don't know what will happen with marriage. Eventually it will likely be legalized slowly, state by state. I think it will come to a point where most young guys will pay for sex at least once, thus they might not care if their to be wife was on the other side of that equation. I could also see more young women just doing it a handfull of times for some quick money. Talk about the world changing.

MGTOW_experienced · 2016-07-08T15:16:24+00:00

This has always gone on since the world was young. Hot young women move to the city and hang out in hotel bars or upscale areas or upscale events and become mistresses or pros. (edit: grammar) Working girls flirt with an older man at work events (think Lewinsky). What has changed is a record of it on the Internet.

You can go to SB forums where men discuss how to get a mistress. I've done it. You waste two to three hours for every one hour of enjoyable time. It doesn't matter whether you buy lunch for a blowjob or pay more than that. There's a bit of obfuscation going on here on how much time is wasted (a lot) and how hot the girls are (many are overweight so it wastes time finding the hot ones). The hot ones are more likely to demand free dinners and other payments and disappear. You might get a $200 one-time sex hookup with a hot college co-ed but re-scheduling is a pain.

The other bit of obfuscation is many guys in tech (and I know many in the cities mentioned in this article) make $125K and STILL go into credit card debt to date these sugar babies. Men get way too thirsty for the low quality of some of these girls.

FYI I'm 9/10 in looks, especially for my age, btw, so that's not a problem.

throwawayygg · 2016-07-07T21:24:24+00:00

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Smitty6 · 2016-07-08T01:28:50+00:00

I would rather them do it this way and open about it rather than act like they are perfect women that deserves a ring. Now that men are opting out of marriage, open prostitution is the second option.

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-07-08T06:27:18+00:00

Oh, I actually read some more of that, past the initial drivel, bullshit, propaganda, and mindless women. There were actually a few funny things. This guy gets it:

“It’s like hooking has just become like this weird, distorted extension of dating,” the D.J. says. “ ‘He took me to dinner. He throws me money for rent’—it’s just become so casual. I think it’s dating apps—when sex is so disposable, if it doesn’t mean anything, then why not get paid for it? But don’t call it prostitution—no, now it’s liberation.”

Oh, and this gem:

"But it wasn’t real dating, and after a while it began to bother her, as she realized the men, although “generally nice,” didn’t actually respect her. “I think the sugar daddies just see the sugar babies as whores,” she says. “They would never consider a monogamous relationship with someone who would need to do this to survive. It’s like a class thing. They see you as beneath them, desperate."

No shit? You mean, you wanted to play hooker and house wife at the same time? You wanted to be respected for contributing fuck-all to the man's life besides being an expensive piece of dead-weight meat? To have your cake and eat it too? Go fucking figure.

And this:

"Interestingly, the young men I talked to who do sex work voiced few qualms about whether what they were doing was empowering or disempowering..."

The only reason it's "interesting" is because retards like her don't comprehend men or men's lot through all of recorded history, and are so lost in their luxurious, modern, feminist delusions that they can't even begin to wrap their shriveled little brains around this - that men are used to fending for themselves and doing what they have to do out of sheer necessity, whereas women act like fucking children who expect men (and anyone and everyone who will listen) to lay the world down at their feet for them.

And lastly, the ending of that article was disgusting, but this hapless nitwit sums it all up best in her womanly charm:

“I’m just looking for someone to pay for my boob job,” says a small blonde woman who flew into town from Utah; she’s a Mormon. “I thought I must be doing something wrong because all the guys I’ve met on the site so far have been sending me dick pics and hairy-butt pics.”

Title	Daddies, “Dates,” and the Girlfriend Experience: Welcome to the New Prostitution Economy
Author	JPDG
Upvotes	45
Comments	40
Date	July 7, 2016 6:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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