Do you think women judge a man's worth heavily by his body size and penis size?

Bongoterrys_drum · 2016-06-25T15:23:56+00:00

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redchords · 2016-06-25T17:36:36+00:00

They all objectify men and value height and/or dick size but some hide it better than others. The ones that don't care are rare.

They both matter but I think penis size is way more important. Height gets your foot in the door but good dick keeps them around.

I stopped caring what women thought about men when I realized that women can't fully care who a man is only how he compares to other men. Basically a woman should have no say/no power over a male's self esteem ultimately because she can only comprehend his person through a series of comparisons with other males. Most women shop for men when they date, and view us primarily as disposable products. They don't have the humanity (because of their born privilege-women are several times more valuable to their society due to being the limiting agent in reproduction) to properly appreciate an individual's struggle, they only have enough brain power to calculate which male will benefit her (and her offspring) most. Fuck what a creature like that thinks about you.

2016-06-25T14:40:09+00:00

Life is short! Worry about you and fuck everyone else.

Brokemgtow · 2016-06-25T16:04:59+00:00

I have the same problem but ive also had a great sex life.

Ive had sex with super orgasmic women. They orgasm a lot and with them there is no problem.ive had sex with lifeless blow up doll like women whom cant feel anything towards men.

When it comes to penis size, * size doesnt matters* but size does matter

Its doesnt matter because women's pleasure point is 3 inches into the vagina which means just about every men on earth can make a women orgasm .

It matters because men have no self esteem, which means women can exchange a man without giving it a second thought. It matters because porn and the addiction women have today with dildos and vibrators desensitizes women and their ability to have meaningful relations with men aka have orgasms.

An average dick should be enough, but most women have an "i want a porno cock mentality" a large cock would be more suitable because the anticipation of the sexual activity will be a reaction that will begin in a womens mind way before touching her. So the sexual experience will begin through her visuals instead of by fore play.

Plus we all know about hypergamy and womens obsession with height. Also theres lots of ignorance out there. It is easier to just say a man is less than a man than calling out women's indifference.

(not only that but the mascilinity card can be stretched by anyone by any given moment, it is an open field out there for anyone to define masculinity. Men are always told what they need to be to fit the male mold)

I think u catch my drift, different circumstsnces are at play when it comes to having a satisfactory sexual experience

2016-06-25T17:13:32+00:00

do you think any woman fantasizes about short men with small dicks? Hell no. They just don't like to admit this.

I would have liked to have a huge cock rather than an average one. Mostly because it would be a hell of a lot of fun to play with. I also wish most women would seriously work out with BenWa balls, keggles, etc. Instead they are lazy and have flabby loose pussies. Oh well...

aanarchist · 2016-06-25T15:33:33+00:00

as a baseline yes, his wallet helps and his dark triad helps but you start at a deficit if you aren't 6 foot 6 inches 6 figures. funny thing is i'm short but my cock is huge for my body size, but they'd probably prefer a tiny cocked guy who sucks at sex and is poor as long as he's tall.

oldredder · 2016-06-25T19:11:47+00:00

"Do you think women judge a man's worth heavily by his body size and penis size?"

They act like it and say they do, to each other, but money/status matters too.

Five_Decades · 2016-06-25T15:51:33+00:00

Women objectify men, but IMO they really mostly care about 2 things when objectifying men. Good genes (good looks) and resources (money, power, status, influence).

I could be wrong, but I don't think women care that much about penis size. I think it is more good looks and resources that make women objectify men.

As far as validaiton, that is a long road you have to travel where you learn to seek validation from internal sources rather than external sources. If you are dependent on women for validation (and essentially all men are, to varying degrees just like they are dependent on us for validation) you have to work to become less dependent on them for validation.

As to how to do it, I'm not sure. I think just getting comfortable with the fact that they cannot/will not offer you the validation you seek will help over time. You will find other ways (preferably internal) to get the validation you seek.

Bartand · 2016-06-25T19:01:21+00:00

The size of your wallet is a lot more valuable to them.

murph55 · 2016-06-25T19:33:54+00:00

I know a woman who won't date or even sleep with men who's member is larger than 7 inches. Seems as we have different lengths, they all have different depths (in more than one context)!

Mgtowredpillonroids · 2016-06-25T17:36:32+00:00

I scanned your profile because I at first assumed you were just a bluepill cuck baiting us. Still not entirely convinced that you're not.

To answer your question, yes women judge a man's worth by his body and penis size as well as his social status, wealth and looks (beauty). Behaviour provides the necessary clues for females, which can be used in order to categorize potential mates. Looks are the other part of that equation: clothing (wealth/social status), face: masculine or feminine features), body: tall (dominant/masculine) or short, muscular (dominant/masculine) or non-muscular, penis-size big (high fertility, potence) or small.

The question is why this matters to you though, especially considering that you're celibate. If you're an incel you need to change your mindset and you're not really MGTOW.

RowdyRoddyPiper · 2016-06-25T17:36:54+00:00

Absolutely

User-31f64a4e · 2016-06-25T18:11:01+00:00

If penis size mattered, it would mean that sex was important to them. If sex was important, would it taper off in long term relationships? Would lesbian relationships have the least amount of sex, and homosexual male relationships the most?

So what is important to women? Status. Provisioning and protection. The tingles from being in the presence of an alpha male. Children. None of these have to do with genital dimensions.

Raiden627 · 2016-06-25T21:08:04+00:00

Honestly if you're not looking for a FWB you don't really need to care about the girls pleasure at all when you have sex and if you do realize that an average member can do the job just fine. I had a girl who killed my ego because prior to her I had been able to make every girl orgasm since then (not trying to brag) but then she came around and said my member wasn't thick enough and I didn't hit it right. It hurt for a while then I realized why do I care? She's just one girl of many.

You have to come to realize men and women need to match their members to each other. If you have a cavernous woman of course she's going to think you're too small and she isn't going to feel it but to a tight girl you might be too big. It's all about matching libidos and sizes to each other.

So, short answer yes, we get objectified more than women. They have so many prerequisites for men that it's not even worth playing the game hence MGTOW.

Title	Do you think women judge a man's worth heavily by his body size and penis size?
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Date	June 25, 2016 2:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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